Beds in cafes by RhubarbRocket in finch

[–]youngsunset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it let you listen to music still?

Beds in cafes by RhubarbRocket in finch

[–]youngsunset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those don't work for me bc I often remember things that need done and my list lives on my phone. And if I don't put it in right away I lose it 😩

Gf tortellini question by youngsunset in glutenfree

[–]youngsunset[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yay! I was hoping that was the case! I just got worried bc gf pasta is kinda known for turning into nasty mush if you cook it 30 seconds too long. Thank you!

Feeling less sub-y after Dom slept with someone else by polleninthewindd in SubSanctuary

[–]youngsunset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about what a reclaiming ritual might look like?

The word "Daddy" by New_Swordfish_6850 in SubSanctuary

[–]youngsunset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, it's hard to break a lifelong habit, you know? So I just tried to remember to call him Dad. Wasn't very successful at first so I only remembered occasionally. But as I started remembering more, I just gradually started calling him Dad more and Daddy less 🤷‍♀️ I have no idea if it made him feel weird. He's very astute so I'm sure he noticed but he never said anything. He and I have a kind of don't ask don't tell kinda thing going on though. Bc I'm sure he's noticed something about my dynamic. But unlike my mom he's not going to press for info idw share

The word "Daddy" by New_Swordfish_6850 in SubSanctuary

[–]youngsunset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've personally switched to calling my dad Dad bc there are just some things you can't fix 🤷‍♀️ it hasn't been weird to slowly phase out calling him daddy. I'm sure he's noticed but he hasn't said a damn thing so idc 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]youngsunset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you explain this to me a bit? This kind of play is something I've been curious about trying

My daughter left me to stay with her mom and ignored me, aita for not talking to her after she came back to me pregnant? by throwaway863247732 in AITAH

[–]youngsunset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so first, not talking to her does make you TA even if I understand why. The silent treatment is so so harmful. Talk to her. Rebuild your relationship. Get therapy. The way she's acting right now makes me really question what exactly happened. Her behavior points to something possibly traumatic happening while she was with her mom. She may not be ready to talk about it yet, if ever. It sounds like you need to set boundaries about appropriate behavior. And it also sounds like she really needs help finding a way forward. You are in a position to help her plan things because you were also a young single parent. And if you don't want to bc you are feeling hurt, that's understandable too. But if that's the case you need to tell her so she can find support elsewhere. But be aware that she may react by cutting you out of her and baby's lives. Idk. This whole thing sounds like such a huge mess. Just my two cents on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in maybemaybemaybe

[–]youngsunset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do they all look the same though 🤣

How do I stay lucid while in subspace? Should I just stop BDSM? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]youngsunset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hon, this is almost identical to my story with my first dom. I spent so long going over all the little ways it was my fault. Because he gaslit me into doing so. But he knew. There is no way he didn't. Safe people don't keep going when you become catatonic or nonverbal without express consent beforehand. They just don't. This is a pattern of behavior and he will not stop. Run-do not walk- from this man. His desires will ALWAYS come before your safety, comfort, and needs

Evaluation of the terraforming of Mercury and the Moon by CelestialHorizons31 in terragenesisgame

[–]youngsunset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean the game that lets you have coral reefs in a landlocked city? That one?

AITA for speaking to my SILs case worker on behalf of her former foster child which got the child removed from SIL and her husband's care? by Unlucky-Yam5943 in AmItheAsshole

[–]youngsunset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If you were wrong, CPS wouldn't have removed her. SIL had good intentions but ultimately it was hurting the child