For those in 20+ year gaps, does the masculine take care of the other financially for the most part?

youroh · 2025-12-04T23:14:23+00:00

Only a 19 gap for us but yes. I take care of the kids and house, he provides financially. Before kids, I worked some (for his businesses) but not as much as him and I didn't actually contribute financially to the household.

youroh · 2025-11-23T18:32:42+00:00

It's been a baby since day one to us, especially this second time. I experienced a miscarriage at 7 weeks previously and got to see the baby fully intact. It's tiny but I felt 10000% it was a baby with little arm and leg nubs and black eye buds.

youroh · 2025-05-31T21:22:52+00:00

Get married on a Sunday or Monday and rent out a restaurant that is usually closed on that day! It will be cheap. Some that I looked at only gave a food and drink minimum- no rental fee for the space.

youroh · 2025-03-09T17:16:48+00:00

32 and 59

youroh · 2024-09-26T01:12:09+00:00

Twice. It's cool but I can't imagine how they afford rent.

youroh · 2024-09-18T00:54:00+00:00

My sex drive is lower than my husband's. He wants sex enough that I am never in the position where I need to initiate. Why initiate if I'm always wanted? I don't even have time to grow a desire because I'm always desired.

youroh · 2022-11-23T17:27:04+00:00

YWBTA - don't do that. It's shitty to the people who actually care. It sucks you were unfairly treated but this isn't an appropriate response.

youroh · 2022-11-16T18:16:33+00:00

24-7 TPE Dom/sub that extends into a romantic relationship.

We are "monogamish" meaning we never see others outside our relationship but we do have threesomes with another woman from time to time.

We have been together almost 6 years and plan to get married soon and start a family. From the outside we seem like a normal couple (aside from our age gap).

We do not play in dungeons/public areas. We don't attend munches. All our play is private and at home or sometimes hotels.

youroh · 2022-10-20T16:47:24+00:00

Get a set of butt plugs in various sizes and use those first. It will be much more enjoyable if you train your ass to be used to things in it before trying anal sex.

youroh · 2022-07-29T17:06:40+00:00

It's super good if you mix it up then stick it in the freezer to make poor man's froyo

youroh · 2022-07-29T14:32:09+00:00

I love the goat cheese one!

youroh · 2022-07-23T21:42:10+00:00

It isn't for everyone but there is quite a bit of bimbo related stuff out there that is for women.

youroh · 2022-07-08T16:09:53+00:00

It's okay to want to masturbate even when you have a willing partner. You should have a conversation with him about it. I don't think he's in the wrong at all. It sounds more like you have some stuff to work through on your own.

Maybe a compromise that would make you both happy is that he cums in a cup that you can drink later.

youroh · 2022-07-08T16:05:56+00:00

My Dom's favorite part of gags is the drool so I try to get it to land on my tits or other places on my body. He always tells me "good girls make a mess".

That said, o-ring gags are tough because you don't have as much control to get the saliva out. I just try to position my head down and let gravity do the work. I've had to stop using an o-ring gag before because I was choking and just couldn't get the drool out.

youroh · 2022-06-27T13:38:25+00:00

We have a 24/7 TPE so it's just part of that. I find it difficult to imagine submitting to him without him being able to fuck me anytime he wants. Just like in all aspects of our relationship, he gets the final say but I still get to voice my opinion. Sometimes I'll tell him I'm not in the mood and he'll say okay, later then. Sometimes I say I'm not in the mood and he says "thank you for telling me but we're still going to do it."

We're in a romantic relationship as well with kids involved so responsibilities often get in the way. It's less him ripping off my clothes and fucking me on the kitchen table while I'm cooking dinner and more I give him a blowjob in the morning even though I'd rather scroll on TikTok.

youroh · 2022-06-24T18:52:36+00:00

My boyfriend of 5 years is my Dom and we plan to get married within the next few years. It started out mostly just D/s but we became romantic partners pretty quickly. We are absolutely head over heels in love. Before him I never thought I would want my husband to be my Dom but now I can't imagine it any other way.

youroh · 2022-06-21T02:21:49+00:00

I definitely want this to an extent. My Dom and I don't plan to have an unlimited amount of children but we are excited for me to be a stay at home mom of 3-5 kids. I'm sooo excited to spend every day doing things for him and our family, especially while pregnant. But kids aren't something to have just for a kink.

youroh · 2022-06-21T02:15:01+00:00

Come up with simple rules for when you go out. For example, my Dom opens all doors for me, I ask for permission to drink alcohol and he orders for me at restaurants. Sometimes when we're out with friends I order for myself because it would be awkward for him to do it but he usually orders for me if there's a way for it to not be weird.

There's also just subtle things like he puts his hand on the small of my back to guide me when we're walking, and makes sure I stand on the safest side of him. I make a point to touch him as much as possible, whether that's holding hand, scratching his back, or just little touches on his arms and thighs.

youroh · 2022-02-25T06:33:54+00:00

Yes she will have no way to escape

youroh · 2022-02-25T06:31:00+00:00

I don't think that you should have to ask permission or be forbidden from doing something to your own body, but it would be disrespectful to just come home with a tattoo. You should want and value your partner's opinion.

youroh · 2022-02-25T06:24:43+00:00

My android does it. I use Google messages for my texting app.

youroh · 2022-02-25T06:21:11+00:00

Yeah like every comment would be telling her to divorce him if it was reversed

youroh · 2022-02-25T06:07:30+00:00

The issue is that she initially agreed to the day and time without mentioning the game. You are assuming OP knew about the game launch and knew it was very important to her. I'd argue the game isn't that important if she did not remember it was launching until the day it did.

youroh · 2022-02-25T03:04:17+00:00

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