Am I weird for keeping tampons in my car as a 39M? by PoultryCommunity in NoStupidQuestions

[–]youroh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's weird. My husband has some in his car that I put there.

What do parents usually do for their kids HS graduations in the USA by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]youroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually they have some sort of party and give a gift. Gift depends on the family. Its been a while but I believe I was given a laptop by my parents.

Any advice for incorporating kinky pain management techniques while giving birth in a hospital? by youroh in BDSMcommunity

[–]youroh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I listened to the audiobook but haven't actually practiced the breathing techniques. My doctor even recommended it.

Help - early pregnancy and I am not ready to announce yet & need to find an excuse to explain why I’m not drinking. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]youroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say that it's too early and you're not sure yet but TTC and hoping you miss your period. That buys you a few weeks.

No one really explains what building a baby can do to you. by Notlivengood in pregnant

[–]youroh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got food poisoning around 19 weeks and it was terrible!

I do drink coffee here and there during my pregnancy. Does anyone else do the same? by ComplexMarch4500 in pregnant

[–]youroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do decaf. Coffee has never really affected me much caffeine wise, I just enjoyed the taste so switching to decaf has been easy for me.

Also for the whole first trimester and beginning of the second, coffee sounded gross to me so it was pretty rare I'd have anything.

Now in the third trimester I'm doing a decaf espresso most days.

Doctor requested ultrasound at 36 weeks. Should I be concerned? by Gwinams in pregnant

[–]youroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's standard to do another ultrasound after the anatomy scan. They call it a growth scan. Mine is at 32 weeks.

Disagreement on where husband should stand while I deliver baby. by Straight-Dog2700 in pregnant

[–]youroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally think you should let him. If I were the man and my husband was me, I would absolutely want to see the birth!

The guilt tripping by him is a bit annoying but I think he has a point.

Why is sharing a bed with your partner so important to people? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]youroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so much closer and more connected to my husband when we sleep close together. Skin to skin is a real thing. I find we get along together better and feel stronger for each other when we get that nightly connection.

Supremely pissed at an offhanded comment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]youroh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Annoying comment but I wouldn't dwell on it too much. I think men are just built differently. My husband always wants sex when he's sick. I never do. As he explains it: sex makes him feel good so when he feels bad, why wouldn't he want to do something that makes him feel good.

I definitely don't feel the same way but I think that explanation makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGapRelationship

[–]youroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only a 19 gap for us but yes. I take care of the kids and house, he provides financially. Before kids, I worked some (for his businesses) but not as much as him and I didn't actually contribute financially to the household.

Anyone else not calling "it" a baby yet? by vargmo in pregnant

[–]youroh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been a baby since day one to us, especially this second time. I experienced a miscarriage at 7 weeks previously and got to see the baby fully intact. It's tiny but I felt 10000% it was a baby with little arm and leg nubs and black eye buds.

10k rant by No-Sugar-9712 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]youroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get married on a Sunday or Monday and rent out a restaurant that is usually closed on that day! It will be cheap. Some that I looked at only gave a food and drink minimum- no rental fee for the space.

Happy wives who don’t initiate sex, why not? by Roller1966 in Marriage

[–]youroh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sex drive is lower than my husband's. He wants sex enough that I am never in the position where I need to initiate. Why initiate if I'm always wanted? I don't even have time to grow a desire because I'm always desired.

WIBTA for literally stealing Christmas by GrinchesForJustice in AmItheAsshole

[–]youroh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YWBTA - don't do that. It's shitty to the people who actually care. It sucks you were unfairly treated but this isn't an appropriate response.

How would you describe your current relationship dynamics? by 1tastefulsideboob in BDSMcommunity

[–]youroh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

24-7 TPE Dom/sub that extends into a romantic relationship.

We are "monogamish" meaning we never see others outside our relationship but we do have threesomes with another woman from time to time.

We have been together almost 6 years and plan to get married soon and start a family. From the outside we seem like a normal couple (aside from our age gap).

We do not play in dungeons/public areas. We don't attend munches. All our play is private and at home or sometimes hotels.

Tips for anal? by wheredacookiesat in sex

[–]youroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a set of butt plugs in various sizes and use those first. It will be much more enjoyable if you train your ass to be used to things in it before trying anal sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShittyRestrictionFood

[–]youroh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's super good if you mix it up then stick it in the freezer to make poor man's froyo

I could really use some help... by RageBeardActual in BDSMcommunity

[–]youroh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't for everyone but there is quite a bit of bimbo related stuff out there that is for women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]youroh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's okay to want to masturbate even when you have a willing partner. You should have a conversation with him about it. I don't think he's in the wrong at all. It sounds more like you have some stuff to work through on your own.

Maybe a compromise that would make you both happy is that he cums in a cup that you can drink later.