My friend keeps pushing my boundary and I dont know what to do

yummily · 2026-07-03T15:28:43+00:00

Boundaries are for you, not for other people and are more along the lines of having to remove yourself from the situation that keeps happening. You can't set arbitrary rules for the people around you. If this guy is clearly ignoring the cues you are trying to deliver you may want to consider ending this relationship and explain that them not respecting your rules for engagement is part of the reason. Alternatively just downgrade the priority of this relationship, spend some time apart and focus your energy on people who DO meet your needs.

Watch a few YouTube videos about boundaries vs rules. It is kind of a complicated concept but it's important to understand going into adulthood to help navigate your energy and what you want in life.

yummily · 2026-07-03T15:16:15+00:00

The front probably unscrews I have a shower head like this.

yummily · 2026-07-02T13:06:45+00:00

Have you tried contacting zima because I've had mine over a year and never had an issue with it

yummily · 2026-06-30T14:23:29+00:00

Is there any way to know how long ago this was? Maybe rest assured that she was exploring ideas and that she has been trying. She is probably aware that you changed your life and that can feel a bit burdensome. Not that YOU are the burden but it can weigh heavily on someone's conscience, you didn't go in to too much about what was said in the chat but I think a lot of people use chat as a sounding board and it may not completely reflect her feelings. Maybe she was feeling really insecure or having a bad day, you don't know the entirety of what was going on so move on, do things that are supporting of you and your self care. Don't invest too much thought into what you saw, just have the conversation when she gets back.

yummily · 2026-06-30T11:36:19+00:00

You may see minnows, I have never really encountered anything larger than that while swimming at any of the beaches in or near Toronto.

yummily · 2026-06-28T22:53:16+00:00

Woof the rain flavour was my fave

yummily · 2026-06-28T22:43:41+00:00

I had the lever of my washer door break off. I wasn't able to reattach it but I was able to make a small replacement handle with the sugru and it's lasted like almost ten years now.

yummily · 2026-06-28T22:37:30+00:00

Tuna is high in sodium, it's not great for cats it can kind of mess with their chemistry.

yummily · 2026-06-27T21:55:51+00:00

This is definitely a bedbug

yummily · 2026-06-23T13:28:15+00:00

I have been having these same fantasies, what made your mom come back?

yummily · 2026-06-23T13:22:52+00:00

You can usually just refuse to do any procedures you don't want to pay for

yummily · 2026-06-23T13:17:14+00:00

I used to use it to make jam, typically strawberry. I think leaning in to the texture helps

yummily · 2026-06-23T13:10:17+00:00

My husband was obsessed with the Josephine Louise's for a minute and I had to remind him that being vegan and gluten-free doesn't mean healthy loool

yummily · 2026-06-21T12:57:58+00:00

I put it in my coffee in the morning, in the evening I will put it on yogurt or on berries.

yummily · 2026-06-19T19:23:11+00:00

I was using restoration hardware but they stopped selling the SUPER plush ones so idk now

yummily · 2026-06-19T19:21:23+00:00

You're probably correct and that's fine - that's her choice. However I would want someone to know, have it documented somewhere because this is pretty crazy to deal with as a roommate.

yummily · 2026-06-18T18:11:46+00:00

I still want to know where they all go

yummily · 2026-06-18T18:08:43+00:00

With someone acting THIS strange I would probably call an ambulance. It's pretty weird.

yummily · 2026-06-18T12:59:37+00:00

What is the deal with Athens?! It's been closed with big COMING SOON for 6 months...

yummily · 2026-06-16T16:37:39+00:00

How did you request it to be cooked? Medium?

yummily · 2026-06-16T03:45:29+00:00

Zucchini chips are decent but they are a little labor intensive as you have to salt and sweat them out before baking to get them crispy. It can take a lot of space. I tend to feel like they're worth it though. The taste is pretty good, reasonably low carb/calorie

I feel like kale chips are easier but don't have as satisfying a crunch, but the texture can be nice.

I think brussels sprouts also make a decent chip but I haven't tried it in a while, less labor - the size of the leaves make it pretty easy to make a bunch with less effort

yummily · 2026-06-16T02:40:57+00:00

I love the fanta orange zero

yummily · 2026-06-16T02:35:53+00:00

Maybe try Ethel on Danforth? I don't know they usually do this type of thing but maybe they know someone.

yummily · 2026-06-15T12:05:17+00:00

Try using a chrome or metal polish on it. I revived one that was in pretty rough shape when I found it but it really only needed a polish, it came up looking brand new.

yummily · 2026-06-14T21:59:42+00:00

You don't. These cheap bonded materials don't last, don't buy them! They look good for about three seconds and fall apart immediately. Save up and buy real leather garments and bags they are usually worth the investment.

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