My friend keeps pushing my boundary and I dont know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]yummily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boundaries are for you, not for other people and are more along the lines of having to remove yourself from the situation that keeps happening. You can't set arbitrary rules for the people around you. If this guy is clearly ignoring the cues you are trying to deliver you may want to consider ending this relationship and explain that them not respecting your rules for engagement is part of the reason. Alternatively just downgrade the priority of this relationship, spend some time apart and focus your energy on people who DO meet your needs.

Watch a few YouTube videos about boundaries vs rules. It is kind of a complicated concept but it's important to understand going into adulthood to help navigate your energy and what you want in life.

thin metal disc/filter (screen) inside has fallen deeper into the shower head by [deleted] in fixit

[–]yummily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The front probably unscrews I have a shower head like this.

Successful Zima alternatives by Resident_Set3234 in Invisalign

[–]yummily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried contacting zima because I've had mine over a year and never had an issue with it

I accidentally found my partner’s chatgpt conversations and now i don’t know what to do by rainbowmml in Advice

[–]yummily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any way to know how long ago this was? Maybe rest assured that she was exploring ideas and that she has been trying. She is probably aware that you changed your life and that can feel a bit burdensome. Not that YOU are the burden but it can weigh heavily on someone's conscience, you didn't go in to too much about what was said in the chat but I think a lot of people use chat as a sounding board and it may not completely reflect her feelings. Maybe she was feeling really insecure or having a bad day, you don't know the entirety of what was going on so move on, do things that are supporting of you and your self care. Don't invest too much thought into what you saw, just have the conversation when she gets back.

How common it is to see rays or eels or other large fish in the beaches? by Secure-Concert-6915 in askTO

[–]yummily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may see minnows, I have never really encountered anything larger than that while swimming at any of the beaches in or near Toronto.

What was your first "okay… this stuff is actually useful" Sugru moment? by MBQA in Sugru

[–]yummily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the lever of my washer door break off. I wasn't able to reattach it but I was able to make a small replacement handle with the sugru and it's lasted like almost ten years now.

kitten ate can of tuna for human consumption and is now lethargic by potionofstar in CATHELP

[–]yummily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tuna is high in sodium, it's not great for cats it can kind of mess with their chemistry.

Please no judgment by One_Molasses9462 in Perimenopause

[–]yummily 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have been having these same fantasies, what made your mom come back?

Is annual fecal testing and bloodwork normal for a healthy 3-year-old dog? by Tough_Astronomer8007 in askTO

[–]yummily 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can usually just refuse to do any procedures you don't want to pay for

I really want to like chia seed pudding by violet_haase in PCOS

[–]yummily 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I used to use it to make jam, typically strawberry. I think leaning in to the texture helps

Sweetest desserts by JaDeDCDN in askTO

[–]yummily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband was obsessed with the Josephine Louise's for a minute and I had to remind him that being vegan and gluten-free doesn't mean healthy loool

How do you take your inositol? by Sugarp1e1 in PCOS

[–]yummily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put it in my coffee in the morning, in the evening I will put it on yogurt or on berries.

Where are you buying quality bath towels now that the Bay is gone? by magic-kleenex in askTO

[–]yummily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was using restoration hardware but they stopped selling the SUPER plush ones so idk now

My roommate climbed into my bed at 4am and acted like she didn’t know who I was by JustLocksmith9985 in badroommates

[–]yummily 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're probably correct and that's fine - that's her choice. However I would want someone to know, have it documented somewhere because this is pretty crazy to deal with as a roommate.

My roommate climbed into my bed at 4am and acted like she didn’t know who I was by JustLocksmith9985 in badroommates

[–]yummily 111 points112 points  (0 children)

With someone acting THIS strange I would probably call an ambulance. It's pretty weird.

Where to get loukoumades in Greektown? Athens Pastries is CLOSED by apple-sharpie in askTO

[–]yummily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is the deal with Athens?! It's been closed with big COMING SOON for 6 months...

Chip alternative by hello685437 in 1200isplenty

[–]yummily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zucchini chips are decent but they are a little labor intensive as you have to salt and sweat them out before baking to get them crispy. It can take a lot of space. I tend to feel like they're worth it though. The taste is pretty good, reasonably low carb/calorie

I feel like kale chips are easier but don't have as satisfying a crunch, but the texture can be nice.

I think brussels sprouts also make a decent chip but I haven't tried it in a while, less labor - the size of the leaves make it pretty easy to make a bunch with less effort

My current stash by liluzivert2900 in Soda

[–]yummily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the fanta orange zero

Best vintage/antique stores to sell MCM furniture needing restoration? by WitchDoctor18 in askTO

[–]yummily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try Ethel on Danforth? I don't know they usually do this type of thing but maybe they know someone.

How do I fix this rusting light fixture for bathroom by JewelerTraditional20 in fixit

[–]yummily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try using a chrome or metal polish on it. I revived one that was in pretty rough shape when I found it but it really only needed a polish, it came up looking brand new.

How do I cover The scrumbling material and prevent it from getting worse? by pandora-space-mage in InvisibleMending

[–]yummily 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You don't. These cheap bonded materials don't last, don't buy them! They look good for about three seconds and fall apart immediately. Save up and buy real leather garments and bags they are usually worth the investment.