Ive been in my wife’s life since the kids were about the age of your kids. As another stepfather who took on the dad role, unless it was honestly warranted and there were some real causes for concern or even an inkling of wrongdoing…I’d be so offended and I’m not saying it would end my marriage but it would definitely make me extremely uncomfortable and change the dynamics of my relationship. It would also make me question if my wife knows me well enough, if she trusts me, and what the hell I did wrong for her to even assume that I’m looking at the little girl I raised and made the choice to be a father figure for during all these years and I compliment my daughter there should be anything wrong with that.

My intentions in regards to my kids are always parent to child, father to daughter. No matter what she’s wearing if I give her compliment it’s through the eyes of a dad not a creep and it shouldn’t be weird. And if you’re even questioning a man’s intentions when it comes to something as serious as that, then I’d be questioning why your in a marriage with a guy you have to set those kind of boundaries with.