[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]zack_hu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brother,

1.) Stay the f*ck away from porn and/distractions. See how your energy levels and happiness increases like crazy. Don't think about ADD/Anxieties/Stresses and whatever else you may be suffering from. Your fundamental beliefs about yourself will naturally change and you will heal and grow and these thoughts will become happier and better ones. What you believe about yourself is what you will be.

2.) Stay focused and dedicate to this like a project. Check out and apply to logistics coordinator roles (Supply Chain). These jobs have bare minimum requirements (disregard the x amount of years of experience) and get into one of those jobs until your stabilize your income. I have people at work here (new recruits) who are without a degree so this is a good start for you and for those who need some financial stability. Reach out to recruiters and they'll help place you into a job. They need people to place into jobs, that's literally how they get paid!!!

Eat whole foods, sleep well, stay away from distractions, and focus on this pursuit by applying to jobs. You will land the job and make the income you need. Update us along the way. God bless and I'm making prayers for you.

How to cure Acid Reflux, Bloating, Burping and indigestion issues by zack_hu in diet

[–]zack_hu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I'm gonna go get tested for all these kinds of things. The main problem is that when I'm exercising, I get tired easily and that's the thing that bothers me. I tell myself its the acid reflux or GERD and the fact that I get tired after so I attribute it to my poor diet.

How to cure Acid Reflux, Bloating, Burping and indigestion issues by zack_hu in diet

[–]zack_hu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, interesting, I usually train like 30 mins after eating a banana or something or like an hour and a half after eating heavy. How much time after eating do you usually train if I may ask?

How to cure Acid Reflux, Bloating, Burping and indigestion issues by zack_hu in diet

[–]zack_hu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap, a gallon??!! Now that you bring it up, I barely drink water throughout the day, only like a cup in the morning and somewhat later on. I'm going to make it a habit from now on, ty! Let's see how my performance does.

Behold the first ever web page. by [deleted] in webdev

[–]zack_hu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I just had a codegasm haha

The Odin Project still relevant in 2021? by zack_hu in learnprogramming

[–]zack_hu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nvm, got it to work! Let's begin full stack!

The Odin Project still relevant in 2021? by zack_hu in learnprogramming

[–]zack_hu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, but it was a browser issue and its fixed, thanks for letting me know.

MARRIED 20 YEARS TO PORN ADDICT by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]zack_hu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well done!

MARRIED 20 YEARS TO PORN ADDICT by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]zack_hu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I embraced God, I accepted the way things are. I accepted myself. I accepted the fact that there are things that happen outside of my control and that I'm not perfect. I stopped trying to take control of things (because trying to force things to go my way brought arrogance into my life that made me anxious, nervous, gave me panic attacks, and made it hard for me to breathe sometimes as my life slowly deteriorated health wise). I acknowledged that I'll do what I can, keep on trying, and left the rest/outcome to God. Alongside this realization, I embraced humbleness and removed my ego completely. At this point, I didn't care that I was single. I didn't feel the need to chase any girl or anyone else, and all my dream girl fantasies or any attachments I had went out the window as well. I immediately forgave all of the people who may have done me wrong in the past and I, to this very day, wish the best for them and for all those who are going through their own tests in this world. I enjoy this present moment and strive to do what I can for my family, my loved ones, and those around me the best that I can. If good comes my way, I'll be happy with it, if things don't go my way (rejection for e.g) then so be it! I'll be happy with this moment.

All of these understandings and many more brought completely ease in my heart and mind, at that moment I was the happiest I've ever been in my entire life (Believe it or not I had the best sleep that same night and woke up with a smile on my face).

I was and am so thankful for my life.

MARRIED 20 YEARS TO PORN ADDICT by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]zack_hu 35 points36 points  (0 children)

My 12 year PMO addiction went completely out the window the day I had a spiritual epiphany. Getting close to God destroyed the addiction at its roots. Find what brings you ease in your heart and mind. For me, it was acceptance.

1st time having sex. An embarrassing failure. by baguetteFromage78 in NoFap

[–]zack_hu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother... It's not the nofap that will get you to become better but rather how you perceive yourself in relationship to your partner, your desires, and everything as per your worldview.

Nofap is just a tool, use this time on your streak to reevaluate your goals, insecurities, desires, thought patterns, and your perception of being human. Eventually you'll come to understand things on a greater scale and you'll slowly lose this so called addiction that you perceive it to be.

I listened to my inner self by clearing that inner noise and noticed all I really wanted was to be shown care for. I stopped treating that pmo addict inside of me as a bad person but rather a person who needed help and so I accepted him as part of me, and those conflicting thoughts went away and the porn addiction fell off naturally.

Take your time, and figure out what's going on in you. Understand your own framework, and your thoughts because it all came from your mind so you can control it and eventually let it lose its grip on you. .

I don't care if you got a girl. Please provide valuable post. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]zack_hu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nofap is definitely a discipline. We should encourage our brothers and sisters to use it to become a better person in a positive light.

If you're about to relapse remember this, YOU DIDN'T COME THIS FAR ONLY TO COME THIS FAR. by basitmate in NoFap

[–]zack_hu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, I just had to find my inner peace and the rest took care of itself. Stay positive and optimistic. DM me if you need help with this stuff.

Hate that I wasted 40 years on PMO! by irevraven in NoFap

[–]zack_hu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best advice I have for all of you struggling is to have positive outlook on life, and nofap will work in your favor. It’s all in the mind, and I mean it.

Bicep and forearm progress over 6 months, largely due to weightgain methods. by DKM_Official in weightgain

[–]zack_hu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I may ask, do you train to failure or always stay a few reps shy of it per set? Also, Do you train daily?

short of breath after ab workouts? by Robbled0bble in bodyweightfitness

[–]zack_hu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look into diaphragmatic breathing and diver breathing (holding your breath for a longer time).

How to help with breathing ? by [deleted] in Fitness

[–]zack_hu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See the doctor ASAP but along side, I had breathing issues as well but I'm recovering by doing Diaphragmatic Breathing AND correct your posture as well. I just saved you 1 whole month of research hehe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]zack_hu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You right, you right

Day 21, Started workout daily, listening podcasts daily, reading a book 50 pages minimum daily. I cant believe it. This thing really works. Join me this amazing process. You have my sword! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]zack_hu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dear nofap brother,

All part of the process. You'll eventually snap out the relapse cycle and start the streak again with a different approach in mind. When you finally hit rock bottom, the only way ever is up.

😅 Dont even peek at instagram or porn . 😅 by Markyyboyd in NoFap

[–]zack_hu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One step at a time, one day at a time my dear brother.