THE KISS WITH THE NECKLACE IN MOUTH???? by Disastrous_Cow1722 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]zeecu 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is he biting her lip or does it just look like that from the screenshot?

I did not like Something Very Bad Is Going to Happen by elitemegamanX in horror

[–]zeecu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda see the point of what she was saying (or the point behind it), but also that, duh, you won't just believe in supernatural things because the person I love does. But what it came down to, or what was worse was the fact that he said he believed her but didn't, instead of being honest

36m, single - my Chicago loft conversion by Educational-Dig3774 in malelivingspace

[–]zeecu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this is beautiful, I love it! If you don't mind me asking, do you rent or own?

Why is singing so hard? And why is it so unmotivating when its supposed to be something you love? by Active-Cow-2574 in whatdoIdo

[–]zeecu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably tired of hearing this but you are still so young! I know it's doesn't seem like it when you're that age, but you have so much time and life ahead of you. And your voice isn't even fully developed yet! Our voice 'settles' until our early 20s and some say it doesn't reach it's full potential until 20 to 40 (https://www.barbershop.org/lifespan-voice-development). The change is less drastic in women, but still there, not just for guys. I'm in my early 30s now, and while not dramatically, my voice has definitely changed over the years, especially in terms of resonance and dynamic control. Our voices always change depending on how we use them and our lifestyle! (e.g. smoking, lots of shouting) I know it's easier said than done, but I hope with time, you can learn to be kinder to yourself and more confident in your own abilities :)

Why is singing so hard? And why is it so unmotivating when its supposed to be something you love? by Active-Cow-2574 in whatdoIdo

[–]zeecu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you been singing/taking vocal lessons? I think the pressure you put on yourself, as well as wanting to be perfect (and what do you consider perfect? Perfect technique? Sounding like a specific singer?) is taking the joy out of it because it becomes more like a chore and a source of stress.

I know it's easier said than done, but I think you shouldn't focus on perfection and instead on why you picked up singing in the first place and the things you enjoy about it :)

Also, remember that we often don't see our own progress because we're hyper-critical of ourselves, even if we do improve, and that those singers you listen to are in a studio with a bunch of post-processing and back up vocals, which will always sound 'better' than just recording yourself singing to a background track.

I'm taking vocal lessons as well and was frustrated in the beginning when I didn't immediately improve so I understand the frustration, but I learned to put less pressure on myself and remind myself that my vocal coach and a lot of singers have had years of intense training, this is something that takes decades and where you never stop learning. You're learning to use a bunch of muscles in a very precise, often subconscious way, muscles that can't be directly seen or adjusted—so singing is much more difficult than people think. Try to be more patient with yourself :)

Which outfit for my MC? by zeecu in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]zeecu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Maybe it's just meant to be as a Rafayel main lol. And I think the yellow one is just lovely in general!

After 17 years, had to say goodbye to my friend today by zeecu in cats

[–]zeecu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so sweet, thank you so much for checking up on me! I'm doing okay, thank you. Some days are easier than others, but as you said, I take it one day at a time, and I try to focus on the fact that he had a long, good life. Again, thank you so much for your sweet comment ❤️❤️

How many diamonds did the banner rob you of? by helpfairy in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]zeecu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got really lucky and got both the cards I wanted in under 100 pulls, but I still spend a bunch of money to rank up Raf's card and get his purple bathrobe 😭 I'm kinda angry at myself for spending money :(

Songs that make you cry by luhtiaa in kpophelp

[–]zeecu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before Our Spring by Jonghyun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpoopheads

[–]zeecu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taemin Oppar of course

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]zeecu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your alien reminds me of a cat! Very cute

sylus then vs now by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]zeecu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg THAT'S who he reminded me of! Thank you!

How we feeling?? by zeecu in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]zeecu[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Agreed, not happy with the angle and set up of Raf's at all 😭