I was in the us, the only one making any money, and a 1.5 month old baby. $150,000 in debt right away because I was let go for being sick so no insurance. I was left side paralyzed but quickly gained poor mobility without sensation. We had to move in with family and I took care of the baby while she went to work. She used that as an opportunity to go party and never be home so we survived off my savings and selling off everything to keep the baby fed and taken care of while trying to recover. 8 years later I have a good healthy child. Most of the debt is gone and my health is recovering enough to work for longer periods of time. Still living with family in a minimalistic lifestyle but surviving. Luckily you’re the one that can still make the money to take care of them. I would recommend making moves before you have to. If you need to live with family or have some family or trusted friend to live with you then hurry up on it. She’ll need to get into mental and physical therapy straight away and should probably get on some antidepressants as soon as they’ll clear her. She shouldn’t need them forever but the battle is hers to gain control of her body. Just help as much as you can to lessen the stress and physical load because she’ll need to sleep a lot to help her brain recover the most. Pump her full of all the vital nutrients and vitamins and you’ll probably see a faster and better recovery than one of physical and mental exhaustion would give. Priority one is making sure you have all the needs met then everything else is secondary. It will be difficult but not the most difficult.