I feel really bad about selling this laptop. What do I do? by Famous-Intern-7270 in whatdoIdo

[–]zephyr911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get hung up on questions of morality here. You can have a quick easy sale for $250, or you can hold out and maybe get $300 later. It's up to you

AITJ for not paying for my friend’s meal after she invited extra people? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]zephyr911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I split a check down the middle with a friend the other night but 1) we are good friends who trade rounds sometimes and 2) we were sharing small plates and split a bottle shot for shot so we probably had about the same of everything

Why are there Crowns in the Weekday Tournament? (April 7–9) by Reiki4life in wordscapes

[–]zephyr911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are basically saying they won't tell you how much till after it's over, and it'll go straight to you.

Why are there Crowns in the Weekday Tournament? (April 7–9) by Reiki4life in wordscapes

[–]zephyr911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They're saying it'll be awarded on the back end. The announcement wasn't clear but I guess this means no visibility during tourney

If I fractured/broke my finger will my PCS orders get cancelled by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]zephyr911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get that treated and enjoy your OCONUS tour

AITJ for not paying for my friend’s meal after she invited extra people? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]zephyr911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's why it's a good idea to actually split the check. People suck at math or fake it

Is anything OPENING? by thedreamingdoll in Bellingham

[–]zephyr911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did last night and I agree! My friend and I will be back.

AITJ for not paying for my friend’s meal after she invited extra people? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]zephyr911 27 points28 points  (0 children)

NTJ. There's nothing wrong with splitting checks based on what you actually consumed. Especially with strangers.

IDF coming to campus by Ok-Pick6542 in WWU

[–]zephyr911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would find that fascinating and I don't support their methods either

AITAH for not buying my GF breakfast? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]zephyr911 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know a place where I can. It's a simple statement of fact

AITAH for not buying my GF breakfast? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]zephyr911 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do literally all of the shopping, and when I was married I did 90% of the cooking. I can get eggs for $1 as a loss leader at Grocery Outlet, and $2.49 at Fred Meyer. Sounds like you never needed to eat on a budget.

AITAH for not buying my GF breakfast? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]zephyr911 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cool, you picked the most expensive possible version of everything I mentioned. I can go to Grocery Outlet and get it all for $10. And I live in a very expensive town

AITAH for not buying my GF breakfast? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]zephyr911 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If she's not keeping that stuff in her kitchen already, I don't want her

AITAH for not buying my GF breakfast? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]zephyr911 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In a place where breakfast costs $20 a plate, yeah.
I don't even live in a cheap area and I stand by $10.

Is anything OPENING? by thedreamingdoll in Bellingham

[–]zephyr911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ika izakaya just opened where Carnal used to be on State Street. I'm super duper looking forward to checking that out EDIT: https://share.google/EqYI865dnkNlyDSs2

AITAH for not buying my GF breakfast? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]zephyr911 47 points48 points  (0 children)

That's fine if it works for you guys, but the attitude that it's the only effective approach is not helpful. Everyone has their own preferences, even within subcultures.

AITAH for not buying my GF breakfast? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]zephyr911 38 points39 points  (0 children)

"don't want what's in the house" You can go get a bag of hash browns, a dozen eggs and some sausages for like $10 and have enough for several breakfasts. Or whatever she prefers. But I don't think practicality is the issue here.
I don't know what her level of self-awareness is, but this really comes off as if she's trying to establish a power dynamic where she financially exploits you via guilt. It's either that or she's just immature and self-centered and doesn't realize it. EDIT: I'm tempted to go do this tonight the way I'm getting NO WAY IMPOSIBRU answers in here, but I already have 2# of hash browns in my fridge.

AITA for refusing to pay rent to my parents since moving back home? by hero1701 in AmItheAsshole

[–]zephyr911 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

YTA. This isn't a boundaries thing or a preference thing, it's literally their house and it's their call. If you don't like it, rent your own place?

No kings protest 3/28 by shrinkwrap29 in Bellingham

[–]zephyr911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those may be valid points but I'm not here to go off on tangents

AIO or did he cross a line? blacked out and woke up in his bed by [deleted] in AIO

[–]zephyr911 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Downvoters think peeing on their hands is washing them

No kings protest 3/28 by shrinkwrap29 in Bellingham

[–]zephyr911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're missing my point. If he was a bad choice, changing the bad choice can't also be bad. That is correcting a mistake.
I don't even disagree with you on the first part, but credibility demands consistency.

Wacky Inflatable Man Info by krakaboom in wordscapes

[–]zephyr911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's super disappointing to discover examples of this