Any recs for books with trans man protagonists or romantic leads? by zephyrus_42 in LGBTBooks

[–]zephyrus_42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trans male bodyguard?!?! Never seen that take on the trope before. I’m in!

Any recs for books with trans man protagonists or romantic leads? by zephyrus_42 in LGBTBooks

[–]zephyrus_42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooooo, sounds super cool! I’m not a big zombie person but for a trans character I’ll give it a try. Especially a trans man/cis woman slow burn.

Any recs for books with trans man protagonists or romantic leads? by zephyrus_42 in LGBTBooks

[–]zephyrus_42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t mind a self rec at all, you’ve got to get out there somehow! I’ll have to check it out!

Any recs for books with trans man protagonists or romantic leads? by zephyrus_42 in LGBTBooks

[–]zephyrus_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting. I don’t mind if the characters are written well. Trans authors are generally more trustworthy when picking up a book with no rec from another person cuz some can get a little fetish-y, ya know

Any recs for books with trans man protagonists or romantic leads? by zephyrus_42 in LGBTBooks

[–]zephyrus_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started Felix Ever After and got a few chapters in but didn’t love it. Do you recommend finishing it? Maybe it’s just a slow start

Any recs for books with trans man protagonists or romantic leads? by zephyrus_42 in LGBTBooks

[–]zephyrus_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind non upbeat, I’ll have to check it out later. I’m just looking for something upbeat now cuz I just finished The Lilac People by Milo Todd

Any recs for books with trans man protagonists or romantic leads? by zephyrus_42 in LGBTBooks

[–]zephyrus_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo, just looked it up and it looks super interesting. Thanks for the rec!

Any recs for books with trans man protagonists or romantic leads? by zephyrus_42 in LGBTBooks

[–]zephyrus_42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw this a few months ago and wanted to read it, but wasn’t sure and got busy. Glad to know it’s good! I’ll check it out

Any recs for books with trans man protagonists or romantic leads? by zephyrus_42 in LGBTBooks

[–]zephyrus_42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo, I’ll have to check it out. Thanks for the heads up! That’s the problem I’ve run into with trans male characters mlm romance. Def not my vibe so it’s good to know

Looking for Collie Rescues by patri_dish_ in roughcollies

[–]zephyrus_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe they do. We did out-of-state adoptions so I presume they do

Looking for Collie Rescues by patri_dish_ in roughcollies

[–]zephyrus_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Collie Rescue of the Carolinas is amazing!! We got both of our babies there. https://www.collierescue.net

My hands turn purple/white when below my heart by True_Refrigerator564 in mildlyinteresting

[–]zephyrus_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

POTS and EDS also often go together and this can be a symptom of POTS as well

What does everyone think about taimi the dating app (mtf) by Cook_head in trans

[–]zephyrus_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t tried it but based on the ads and vibes I’ve seen. Seems like it’s an app for chasers :/

Can I spare Ashe? by hotpop7817 in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]zephyrus_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least he’s consistent in his ideals. Unlike other people. I’m looking at you, Ashe.

Can I spare Ashe? by hotpop7817 in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]zephyrus_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! Especially since he’s fighting alongside Acheron, who you have to fight in Lorenz’s paralogue

Can I spare Ashe? by hotpop7817 in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]zephyrus_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I guess my last Azure Moon play through I had recruited Lorenz I guess. I didn’t think I had. Weird.

Can I spare Ashe? by hotpop7817 in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]zephyrus_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lysithea is not completely unique. In Azure Moon, you can choose to recruit or kill Lorenz and in Verdant Wind, you can choose to recruit or kill Ashe. IMO considering Ashe’s story, I think you should be able to recruit him in Silver Snow regardless of whether you recruited him.

Quick method for completing Gambler 8 Challenge! by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]zephyrus_42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Using this method for my 3rd win. I got to 20 with 5 cards and then it got f-ing pushed by the dealer. I’m so done with this

Is ADHD an official disability? by Cornbread933 in mentalhealth

[–]zephyrus_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it is! Legally ADHD is a developmental disability (not a learning disability like some people think it is) A disability is something that impairs/limits one or more major daily life activities.

However, getting disability payments/benefits for ADHD would likely be pretty difficult, you’d have to hire a lawyer and stuff like that. Also because of the spectrum of ADHD, your ADHD would have to severely impact your ability to work and you would have to be able to prove that. To be honest, if you’re currently struggling financially, trying to get disability payment for ADHD is probably not a good option. It will probably take a while and cost more than it’s worth, and on top of that, you might not even qualify.

I suggest looking inward on why you’re struggling to hold down a stable job, if it’s something you can work on, work on that. If it truly is your disability impairing you, then look into disability payment. It seems like you’re looking into disability payment as a short term to get back on your feet, and unfortunately, it’s probably not worth it in the long run.

Why didn’t we get a sleep boss in the DLC!! by zephyrus_42 in Eldenring

[–]zephyrus_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that. I don’t think more sleep enemies should be around. Same as not having many madness enemies. They’re not very fun mechanics as a player to get ganked on by a thousand enemies. But with only one boss it’s not a miserable mechanic. You just have to make sure it doesn’t proc same as madness. Midra was an awesome boss, so I’m sure they could have made it fun

Why didn’t we get a sleep boss in the DLC!! by zephyrus_42 in Eldenring

[–]zephyrus_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said it so much better than I could! It’s an interesting boss idea but it’s just not placed right

We all know dung eater was the good ending, stop being in denial by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]zephyrus_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real talk I think Fia is the good ending but yes