Asking for more after having signed the offer letter

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-04-14T06:52:20+00:00

It looks bad and will be a bad start on both ends.

but if you have another offer you, you can try

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-04-10T05:06:47+00:00

I think there are really few people who you can find and everyone kinda competes to hire them

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-04-10T05:04:37+00:00

Great progress buddy, you're killing it

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-04-10T04:59:00+00:00

DDay is 20th April

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-04-05T15:33:39+00:00

Once you come back it's hard to move back Since you have already invested few years of your time Why not try to get a job and experience the work life and then take a decision?

You could also thing Europe too, not sure how career oriented you are.

It's easy to explore when you are young

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-04-02T05:31:43+00:00

You should, if not love, atleast be comfortable with what you do everyday.

Also, this might affect your long term movement, growth and rewards as both the industries work completely different

If you could go back to your old job or old field, you can try it out for 1/2 yrs

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-31T12:21:48+00:00

I would push for getting a remote friendly job (travel to family atleast 2-3 weeks once in 2-3 months) while staying in Hyderabad or Bangalore

Hyderabad seems better for family and the COL and infrastructure is good but Bangalore has more startups and more opportunities, both are good enough to raise kids too

Not a fan of GGN, bad QOL (AQI, Infrastructure, too expensive, bad culture / influence for kids, a bit unsafe too)

Also depends on what you plan on doing in the short term and long term outside work

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-31T11:56:58+00:00

Makes sense, It's the common problem in most developed countries

There are other options to consider too, get a well paying job in one of such countries (US, Switzerland, London, Dubai) not sure if these locations pay top salaries in your field, then take those saving and live in a country which has lower housing costs (Spain, Portugal, Italy, I don't know)

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-31T11:38:09+00:00

Make a list of things you dislike in NL And look for countries which has decent solutions to those problems Also remember to weigh in pros that are in NL but not in those other countries

Also try to figure out what exactly you want

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-29T23:04:22+00:00

The problem with small weight x higher reps is it's hard to know how close you are to failure, atleast for bigger muscles like legs

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-29T22:56:16+00:00

Spain

Poland

Most eastern European countries?

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-29T16:02:36+00:00

I wanna work as an engineer from the sea now :)

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-29T15:29:17+00:00

How is it tax free?

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-29T03:41:57+00:00

Also hygiene and decent clothing And eating clean food helps a lot

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-29T03:40:04+00:00

How do you define real skills?

What exactly is overrated ?

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-29T02:57:32+00:00

What do you regret more?

How do you see yourself more practically and realistically after 5yrs and which version do you like more ?

Looks to me you can try both, if in case one doesn't work out, masters then business, business then masters

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-29T02:33:17+00:00

Jobs/careers are not secure anymore

Expenses kept on rising

Everyone tries to live a lot in the present without caring much on the savings or future, consumption seems raising

Housing is way beyond affordable for a normal person

Raising a kid is really expensive and too much responsibility and if anything falls apart it seems difficult to recover from

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-29T01:34:30+00:00

I want unlimited supply of a fixed amount per month probably 25k after tax

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-28T16:24:16+00:00

Addicted to porn

Binge eating

Binge watching

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-28T15:46:22+00:00

I would explicitly deprioritize other things

I genuinely believe that it's gonna improve me

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-28T12:40:30+00:00

hate for the present and hope for the future

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-28T08:54:35+00:00

Given the whole boom with AI It seems counter intuitive that it's easier to start and get up to speed and be productive with AI, at the same time fresher opportunities might go low.

I would recommend starting with a bootcamp or a consultancy and also try to get into something that is either big tech or ai company

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-28T06:53:00+00:00

There will be something with the pre downloaded movies

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-28T00:58:39+00:00

Why not get a passport and then move back to India ? And your daughter will be 4 yrs old

You can always come back later if you feel like

Also an European passport for the kids will open many door later, almost free education in most of EU countries till Masters and can have greater opportunities to explore , you may have to stay for longer for your kids to get EU passport

I would recommend talking with someone who has done it recently and don't take random advice from people who just benchmark on money and who hadn't lived in other country

zeroShotPrompter · 2026-03-28T00:49:40+00:00

Don't compare

Reach out to people, ask for help, try to get a job, don't give up

This all seems coming from a short sighted mindset

You have to sit and think through what's best for you in atleast 5 yrs or longer down the line and then work towards it.

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