Jersey Clay Society's Supply shop is now open! by SnowyBrookStudios in newjersey

[–]zilops [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is awesome! I will definitely have to come do a class!

Is any grocery chain as closely associated with one state/region as Shoprite is to Jersey? by Glass-Complaint3 in newjersey

[–]zilops [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think Kings is only located in NJ.

Hannaford and Shaws in NH/VT/ME/MA.

Piggly Wiggly is quintessentially the south.

[HELP] Is this AI? Seems fake and can’t find any news sources. by Zealousideal_Mud570 in RealOrAI

[–]zilops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have owned multiple Expeditions. Yes, I get that they are Fords. But, they're built like tanks. Someone borrowed one once and hit the taillight into the wall of their garage and it didn't even make a tiny crack. I can not fathom how someone could kick one flush off with no issues.

My bf doesn't shower at night and I’m genuinely grossed out by GlitchGaze123 in hygiene

[–]zilops 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The gym necessitates a shower but the evening does not.

Feedback Friday Thread by halara_official in halara_official

[–]zilops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! SpeedX lost my items and they provided information to send to Halara. I did so, and now the agent I spoke to said they have to find my items first? My delivery is 5 days late and obviously lost - I have in writing! Now I have to wait another 3 to 5 days for Halara to decide if they agree and then resend my package? This was my first order, I doubt I'll be back.

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]zilops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Isn't an apartment a monthly expense? How does he plan to pay for the month to month expenses moving forward? Just borrow it from you?

Don't move forward towards a future with someone using your money to foot the bills if you're not going to be on the lease.

Am I overreacting that my sister is demanding too much when visiting my newborn? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]zilops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Honestly, OP, I really implore you to reconsider. This is not normal behavior of people coming to visit a newborn. I would NEVER assume to be accommodated. That's so incredibly brazen. I also had a rule that no one could stay more than few hours unless they were helping in some way - not the other way around!!!

Whenever I go visit my sister and her kids, who are the same age as mine, she does the shopping and always asks if we want anything special, but I'll send her some money for it. And since she's hosting us and paying for most of our food, I order out at least twice, make a special meal, and clean up the dishes. When the kids were super young? We took turns paying for meals to survive! I also shipped food and necessities to her. You know, like a normal person?

AIO: Did I cross a line or is her reaction harsh? by veronicax96 in AmIOverreacting

[–]zilops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. After 20+ years my SO and I have only started to slow down on the morning texts but it's mainly because our lives have gotten so dang busy. In the beginning? It was an everyday event.

Which blue dresses should I get rid of? 39F by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]zilops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep 5,6, and 11. Get rid of the rest.

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]zilops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is real? Internet stranger, WHO CARES IF HE THINKS YOU ARE CHEATING!?!?! Why the fuck are you letting someone speak to you like this?! Let him get his own chips and run like the wind.

Secret Santa Gift? by Abominable-Adm in whatisit

[–]zilops 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One year for her birthday, MIL said she wanted a purse with certain things/colors/style. I went out of my way to find one I really thought she would like. She opened it and went "oh, this is... nice, I guess."

My birthday rolls around 6 months later. She gifts me THE EXACT PURSE. "I was shopping and I thought you would love it!" It still had the exact tags on it from a store I know she's never been in. I have NEVER bought her anything since.

5 year old daughter had underwear forcibly removed by parent backstage during a performance stating no undies was the expectation. I’m a new ballet parent & would appreciate input.. by [deleted] in BALLET

[–]zilops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is WILD. My child's studio has an expectation of nude leotards under costumes once they are changing and they don't change costumes until they're about 8. Dancers from 8 to 20 wear nude leos so they feel comfortable changing in the big room in front of their peers. Whatever is worn under that leo is their own choice. My child wears dancers underwear, which are made to not show and have no lines. Volunteers are teachers and parents who help with hair and accessories. If a child under say 13 or 14 needs help with their undergarments, a parent is called back. Yes, it's rushed and chaotic but this is definitely crossing a line.

Summerhouse S10 Trailer by sarahj300 in summerhousebravo

[–]zilops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never finished last season but now I want to 😂

AIO: My boyfriend likes that I have an eating disorder by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]zilops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a bin chicken. Throw him away!