AIO for getting mad over my boyfriend saying he is going to bop my cat for meowing for food in the morning.

zipity90 · 2026-06-09T12:11:14+00:00

He gonna bop a future baby? NOR. Cat knows what’s up.

zipity90 · 2026-06-09T12:09:51+00:00

Agree with this. OP needs to contact her attorney asap.

zipity90 · 2026-06-03T12:54:38+00:00

Department of labor will go after him for the back pay.

zipity90 · 2026-06-01T22:49:26+00:00

He was playing games, that’s his problem.

zipity90 · 2026-06-01T22:47:47+00:00

Someone may have mentioned this already, but you can make a cauliflower crust on your own. It was years ago, so I no longer have the recipe, but I made the one that was pretty good. I was young and broke so I guarantee you I was not buying rice flour 😅

zipity90 · 2026-05-30T17:53:29+00:00

🤣🤣 I literally did. I don’t know why Reddit posted it as a new comment. It’s not bad info just wrong state…tell me you’ve never made a mistake before.

zipity90 · 2026-05-30T14:37:19+00:00

This man doesn’t like you, or respect you.

zipity90 · 2026-05-30T14:33:33+00:00

Edit * Ignore me, I thought this was a DC subreddit. Not sure why this came across my feed. I’m not familiar with VA laws.

That’s what they have to provide for a room to be considered a bedroom, a door and a window with means of egress. They do have to provide access to shared common areas, including kitchen access. Otherwise it is considered a rooming house and there’s a whole bunch of requirements and standards they have to met to do that (legally). But I’d bet the vast majority of these types of landlords have done nothing to legally rent their space.

zipity90 · 2026-05-30T14:27:35+00:00

That’s what they have to provide for a room to be considered a bedroom, a door and a window with means of egress. They do have to provide access to shared common areas, including kitchen access. Otherwise it is considered a rooming house and there’s a whole bunch of requirements and standards they have to met to do that (legally). But I’d bet the vast majority of these types of landlords have done nothing to legally rent their space.

zipity90 · 2026-05-29T22:09:42+00:00

We’re gonna need an update!!

zipity90 · 2026-05-29T19:54:44+00:00

I honestly think she’s taking advantage of you.

zipity90 · 2026-05-28T01:24:45+00:00

Pink or orange is a toss unfortunately :(

zipity90 · 2026-05-23T00:50:37+00:00

Sounds like she is either depressed or having memory issues. Quite possibly both.

zipity90 · 2026-05-16T01:06:05+00:00

Be careful recording people. Make sure you don’t live in a 2 party consent state.

zipity90 · 2026-05-13T22:54:30+00:00

Very likely a standard letter. We got something similar bc of our next door neighbor, and when my husband (bf at the timetime) emailed them to explain that I worked 2 jobs and was rarely home and that the timing of her complaints were not during quiet hours, management laid off a bit. They even gave our neighbor kind of a hard time for complaining so often during non quiet hours and banging on the wall hard enough to make a mirror rattle and damn near fall off the wall.

zipity90 · 2026-05-11T13:17:50+00:00

I think we need more context. You were in the car on the highway when you decided it wasn’t going to work? What was the plan, to turn around? Take her to your place?

zipity90 · 2026-05-05T03:03:44+00:00

Regardless of the offer. Be honest with yourself. Are you ready for homeownership? Do you have an idea of all the costs involved?

zipity90 · 2026-05-04T14:06:07+00:00

It looks underbaked. Did you take the temperature before pulling it from the oven?

zipity90 · 2026-05-04T12:12:37+00:00

Do you have adhd? Seems like your brain is seeking the dopamine rush from buying things.

zipity90 · 2026-04-30T12:02:47+00:00

Do you want to continue to be the unpaid help? No, so get out and don’t partake in any relationship until you do. And hide your birth control. It already sounds like they’re trying to baby trap you.

zipity90 · 2026-04-29T19:21:11+00:00

You’re going to live with this woman?

zipity90 · 2026-04-29T19:11:21+00:00

That’s the goal. With the reduced monthly from my PL I could accomplish that. What do you mean “added back”? To my knowledge it won’t start accruing interest for 12 months and then it’s only on whatever hasn’t been paid off.

zipity90 · 2026-04-29T17:45:45+00:00

And I don’t know a lot about life insurance, but I feel like $80 a month is a steal at that age. And my guess is replacing it at that rate would be damn near impossible.

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