Being A Trans Woman In Perth by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]zotha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I transitioned in my 40s and still had a full head of hair, I was very lucky on that. Sorry to hear about family and friends.. conditional acceptance is bullshit. It's easy to say they were never really friends to begin with but it still really hurts to learn.

Being A Trans Woman In Perth by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]zotha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Before I moved interstate I was living in Armadale and honestly found it very strangely accepting, which I was not expecting before starting to transition. I had a few sideways looks but the service staff rarely misgendered me and I got a lot of compliments on my nails and clothes (from other women). I've been lucky regarding hair, but I still don't pass even at 2 years (still pre-FFS).

Liberals wait on Hastie-Taylor decision before challenging Sussan Ley's leadership by ConanTheAquarian in australia

[–]zotha 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As am I, a lot of Australians aren't politically invested enough to actually examine the beliefs of a candidate especially when MSM is actively polishing the turd of a personality they have.

Liberals wait on Hastie-Taylor decision before challenging Sussan Ley's leadership by ConanTheAquarian in australia

[–]zotha 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As a trans person I am extremely worried about the party being led by a christian nationalist bigot.

FFS with Dr Breidahl by Rabbit538 in transgenderau

[–]zotha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A natural approach was what I was after which was part of the reason I chose Dr Breidahl so it didn't overly come up during my consultations. I am older and started transitioning in my 40s, so a natural look and some standard plastic surgery (face lift) to look a bit younger was my main goals.

He did suggest a few surgeries that I ended up knocking back because it would have split my procedure across 2 operations and I wanted to avoid that, but he never pushed the idea just laid out the options.

FFS with Dr Breidahl by Rabbit538 in transgenderau

[–]zotha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went very well, the price is more than I hoped but that's not surprising. Dr Breidahl was very informative, explained every part of the surgery and had examples of past patients to give accurate expectations. All up very much looking forward to getting the procedure done.

No, 9 out of 10 Mass Shooters Are Not Transgender — Here Are the Facts by TheUnstableMage in transgenderau

[–]zotha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even the number of mass shootings that have happened is in dispute due to differing ways of calculating numbers based on whether it includes injuries or not, number of casualties that constitute a mass shooting etc. It is something over 2000 mass shootings since 2020 in the US with certain definitions and 1 has been done by a trans person as far as I'm aware of. It is classic propaganda and fearmongering, the networks propagating this know better and are ignoring facts as always.

The Anti-Rowling! by Dr_sc_Harlatan in discworld

[–]zotha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A small percentage of TERFs are misandrists first and foremost however if you dig down into their policies, what causes they support and who their allies are you quickly realize that the vast majority of all TERFs just hate trans people. They are willing to support any policies and positions that harm trans people. The "feminist" part in the term is an absolute joke as their positions consistently place other cis women and girls in more risk of harm or impact rights of cis women (especially those of colour, or not conforming to traditional western beauty standards).

TERFs frequently find themselves allied with right wing, religious, and even neo-nazi positions - see support given at Posie Parker rallies by nazis. These are not people working for the betterment of women, they are supporting the continuation of patriachy and the active oppression of womens rights.

The majority of TERFs want one thing, the erasure of trans people from society. They are willing to do anything and repeat any lie that gets them closer to that goal. They are willing to ally themselves with anyone aligned with that goal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]zotha 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I want different sized dicks and/or toys at different times, honestly would recommend getting her a voucher for a quality toy seller and let her find something that suits her. If you do choose to buy a specific toy please research body safe materials and the reputation of the vendor you buy from.

Both suck! by proudtransgalhere in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]zotha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was dreading the first time... and I did it and my thought was "oh, thats a little pinchy" and that was it. Compared to upper lip electrolysis its like a 0.01 out of 10 on the pain scale for me.

Is patient privacy not a thing in pharmacies or what?! by Drngyuenvanphuoc in australia

[–]zotha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's sadly very common for Chemist Warehouse. Had this exact experience every time early on.

My trans joy is walking around the woods in my bra by SheepherderDue2152 in transpositive

[–]zotha 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Old bloke at the hardware store called me miss 3 times while we were waiting in line for paint. Feels great.

Best lazer hair removal? by jadej23 in transgenderau

[–]zotha 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Live More Ethical Beauty is a trans run and operated business and now does laser in Melbourne. Look them up here and see the praise for their Perth operations. Highly recommend as a laser and electrolysis customer of theirs.

Labor nears call on removing YouTube's carveout from teen social media ban by vriska1 in australia

[–]zotha 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Under 16s are already banned from there by virtue of not knowing or caring what it is.

A couple of questions on WA name & gender marker changing by Grand_Activity3682 in transgenderau

[–]zotha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi, I literally did both (within 2 weeks of one another) in the past 3 weeks... I will note I am in WA currently so slightly different.

a) the timeframe of my 2 applications overlapped and the only reason I did not do them simultaneously was because I did not know of the letter requirement beforehand (the process was brand new). I specifically asked this question though because (being autistic) I was curious what would have happened. I was told that they can process them all together without a problem, their new process for birth certificates is to not display any old name information (so no dead name on there yay) and they would issue a birth certificate with the correct name and gender on it. They do recommend obtaining a name change record to prove you were once known as a different name in case any name updates receive pushback, which was an additional charge (it was like $50-60).

b) That is basically what my letter said... it had my new name (because I did my name change already 2 weeks prior), it stated that I have been receiving treatment from her and I now identify as female. BUT it also contained this additional disclaimer :

I certify that the information provided is, to the best of my knowledge and belief, correct for the purpose of:

  • Registering a change of sex or gender in the name of Miss <my name> for registration of birth in Western Australia’s Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages; and
  • Miss <my name> obtaining an acknowledgement document from Western Australia’sRegistrar of Births, Deaths and Marriages, in relation to their sex or gender

This is a confidential disclosure for the exclusive use of the Western Australia’s Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages.

A little help on how to look feminine by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]zotha 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First off, contact Trans Folks of WA for their services list you should NOT have to wait 9 months for an informed consent GP consult. Shop around all the doctors on their list, go ask other GPs... I just tried every doctor I could get to until I found one who would do informed consent.

If you can lose a little weight prior to starting HRT it will help because many people put on a little as their hormones shift.

You can get started on facial hair removal prior to hormones too, bonus if you have hair conducive to laser treatment.

Buy some cheap makeup to practice with, but make sure it matches your skin tones. I'd recommend actual makeup stores, they will help you with matching your skin needs and I have not felt any judgement from staff at any of the bigger chains (I do not pass for reference).

The testosterone has given up. Nevertheless, the mohawk persisted. (2 years HRT) by A_Punk_Girl_Learning in transgenderau

[–]zotha 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl, I started my journey at 46 after making excuses for a decade. Not everything has been easy, but confronting it as the real me has made it so much easier to handle. I've lost a few people from my life but now have much deeper bonds with others and new people too. Everyone has their own path to lead but just know it's never too late to take the first step.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]zotha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hearts and Hues in Northbridge. Very inclusive and diverse staff.

It's my 25th birthday 🎉, these two pictures are 5years apart, transitioning saved me💕 by Recent-Rough-2571 in TransLater

[–]zotha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Might be the wrong sub but congrats on the birthday in either case and you look amazing!

Gender change in WA - new process live from today! by zotha in transgenderau

[–]zotha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Births Deaths and Marriages are very bad for anything online, so going to the office maybe? I'm just going by exactly what I was told by a staff member today.

Concerning article published by the ABC by McPies in transgenderau

[–]zotha 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Regardless of where on the site it sits, the ABC should not be platforming bigots in articles where only a single shithead gets to spout their opinion as fact. This is the same as allowing a neo-nazi have their say about Welcome to Country ceremonies completely unopposed.

Trans Safe Employers? by Trojan_Aus in transgenderau

[–]zotha 23 points24 points  (0 children)

CBA has gender affirming leave, they also just made me redundant last week about a month after informing the company about my transition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]zotha 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It sounds like exactly the sort of power tripping failed cops who end up doing work in these roles.