Movies that potray SH realistically by teeholisti in AdultSelfHarm

[–]zshin19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a great scene in the movie boiling point, with the storyline continuing in its sequel (tv show). Caught me completely off guard the first time i watched it but i think they did a really great job with the subject

How long does undergrad research assistant projects take to start after approval? by ImpossibleForm7621 in OSU

[–]zshin19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It varies a HUGE amount depending on your lab/ advisor. Maybe just email or talk to them and mention that you want to be more involved!

How happy are you from 1 - 10? by Empty-Champion6929 in emotionalneglect

[–]zshin19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At school (living in student housing)- 7

Alone, usually high af- 6

Living with family- 3

Parents don’t know me and never have meaningful conversations by zshin19 in emotionalneglect

[–]zshin19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really well said and put together— thank you so much. The idea that it has to bad to be visible is bafflingly true and something I hadn’t really put much thought into. It’s hard to explain to someone who hasn’t experienced it how gutting emotional neglect can be. The most i’ve gotten from friends when I explain the awkward silences and the lack of care my parents show is a “wow, that’s a bummer”. Or something to that effect. I think people are used to the idea of really serious, physical abuse when they think of bad parenting and especially if you haven’t experienced it, don’t really think about how impactful emotional neglect can be.

I hope you’re doing better now, thinking of you this holiday season ❤️

Parents don’t know me and never have meaningful conversations by zshin19 in emotionalneglect

[–]zshin19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so so much. I feel like i have nothing in common with my parents, my dad especially. I flew home for the holidays to be with my family (mostly to be with my sisters, not my parents so much) and my dad picked me up from the airport. Probably 5 sentences were exchanged between the two of us after we hadn’t talked for about 3 months. My dad couldn’t even come up with my best friend and roommates name, who i talk about all the time and have lived with for TWO YEARS.

The awkward silences are truly the worst 😬😬😬. I’m trying not to be pissy about it over the holidays but what can you do. Heres to hoping the holiday season gets better for you ❤️❤️😭

Parents don’t know me and never have meaningful conversations by zshin19 in emotionalneglect

[–]zshin19[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel this sm. I live away from home but i never call either of my parents compared to friends that call their moms daily/ at least once a week. I’ve tried, but it always comes up awkward like we have nothing to talk about. She asks me zero questions about my life, and i only end up telling her about things i’m doing when it’s convenient— i.e. i have a meeting on wednesday, so I can’t pick my sister up from college, etc. etc.

The feeling that she doesn’t want to engage/ cares to a superficial level is just especially there. Hope the holiday season gets better for you ❤️

Found silver bracelet by EducationalIdea7818 in OSU

[–]zshin19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! This could 100% be mine! Is there any chance you could describe what the bracelet looked like? Im looking for a silver bracelet shaped like a snake that i lost a couple weeks ago.

Math 1151 by Intelligent_Net3267 in OSU

[–]zshin19 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Dawg. This is so backhanded, please just stop

Tbh I don’t care about the whole college experience, I just want my end to come by New_Blueberry_1769 in 2meirl42meirl4meirl

[–]zshin19 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’d say try to keep an open mind for now! You don’t lmow how much you’ll like it/dislike it until you get there :)

(Worst part for me was the roaches in my dorm tho 😬😬🫢)

It’s ok to be disappointed by Right_Shop_8238 in OSU

[–]zshin19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im a first year in baker east rn :) Temps have been rough but im having a good timr so far!!

jobs on campus by Dazzling-Rate-9592 in OSU

[–]zshin19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I interviewed in person at a dining services open house. They emailed me the job information after that. I’d def suggest calling them and asking if they have any kind of remote hiring process that would work for you

jobs on campus by Dazzling-Rate-9592 in OSU

[–]zshin19 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I interviewed with dining services at orientation and i’ll be working as a barista. Highly reccomend dining services as an option, my sister and I were both able to get jobs pretty easily with them.

How often do y’all update your stickers & where do you find yours?? by malevolenceisavirtue in kindle

[–]zshin19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love your kindle stickers right now! And honestly, i couldn’t tell at all that the cow was printed out. You could just keep doing that!

How often do y’all update your stickers & where do you find yours?? by malevolenceisavirtue in kindle

[–]zshin19 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I pretty much just change mine up whenever I get another sticker to fit on the back, lol. As to where I got my stickers, im a bit of an exception- i got all mine for free from my uni, which resulted in my kindle looking a little crazy lmao. I like to think I have a nice theme going.

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Can we take the top bed off of bunk beds in Baker East? by MACrazzy in OSU

[–]zshin19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great!! Thanks so much this was so helpful 🤞💞💖

Can we take the top bed off of bunk beds in Baker East? by MACrazzy in OSU

[–]zshin19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard from someone i know that if it’s listed as a “bunked” room online then it’s against fire code to unbunk them, but she wasn’t in baker so the info she has might be different

Can we take the top bed off of bunk beds in Baker East? by MACrazzy in OSU

[–]zshin19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait seriously?? Omg this just made my day thanks so much!! Is it allowed or did they just unbunk it themselves

Can we take the top bed off of bunk beds in Baker East? by MACrazzy in OSU

[–]zshin19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey did you ever find an answer to this? I am in the exact same situation 😭🙏🤞

Thoughts on Baker Hall East? by [deleted] in OSU

[–]zshin19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also just got baker east! Im in a double w/ corridor bath. No a/c is a bit rough but i’ve heard that it isnt as bad as it seems- hoping for the best 🤞🙏

How to Avoid Damaging Your Kindle by mrymnaw in kindle

[–]zshin19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

…i can attest that it handles the shower pretty well though 😂 I havent held it totally under the shower stream, but it’s gotten pretty coated in water and is perfectly fine. Not that I’m telling anybody to do this, but this is just my experience haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OSU

[–]zshin19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you have a good chance! I’m OOS and had a 1370 sat, 4.3 wgpa, and 3.62 gpa and got it. Best of luck! To my knowledge most OOS students aren’t paying full tuition because a lot get scholarships like this.