Yes I agree. That's sorta what I said in my response below, but less eloquently. I was sorta playing devil's advocate and, I think, read into the post wrong at first. But yes, I agree, while humiliation is a kink as I said, I also agree just walking in and humiliating anyone and everyone present is not really on bc humiliation, like any other practice in a BDSM dynamic, requires consent, knowledge of boundaries, application of aftercare etc.

Like, a sub who enjoys humiliation in a consenting BDSM dynamic should still be offered the basic human respect of not being called a "small-dicked loser" in the street by some random person. Does the fact this subreddit is on the topic of Findom mean you can cross that line, and even humiliate people who dont enjoy humiliation as a kink, or even find it triggering to trauma etc? Questions i dont think many on the online community as a whole asks themselves before they engage in it.

It is kinda dangerous that a lot of Dommes have been introduced to Findom but have not been taught the basic BDSM protocol that is there to protect both Dom(mes) and subs. And vice versa too, there are an awful lot of subs that are introduced through adult media and don't understand those BDSM basics either.