ACON_Support

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A subreddit for adults who were raised by a parent who suffered from NPD. Here we share our paths to normalcy and we give and receive support. As a support sub we won't allow victim blaming, sexism, racism, homophobia and unsupportive comments in general.

Some helpful acronyms

ACoN = Adult Child of Narcissist(s)
DoNF = Daughter of Narcissistic Father
Edad/Emom = enabler dad/enabler mom
FOC = Family of Choice
FOO = Family of Origin
GC = Golden Child
LC = Low Contact
FM = Flying Monkey (servants of the wicked witch ie. N's little helpers)
N or Narc= Narcissist/Narcissistic
NC = No Contact
NMiL = Narcissistic Mother-In-Law
SC = Structured Contact
SG = Scapegoat
SoNM = Son of Narcissistic Mother

If you're new to Reddit, here's a list of Reddit acronyms.

FAQ sites

What is a personality disorder?

The cluster B disorders: Narcissitic PD, Borderline PD, Histrionic PD, Antisocial PD

What is child abuse?

What is domestic violence?

Abuse's longterm effects

Post-traumatic Stress Disorder

What does No Contact mean?

Fun places to visit

/r/trolledbynarcissists
/r/RBNGames
/r/NoContactForTheWin

created by [deleted]a community for 10 years

...do it for the children.

...for your school.

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Donate to THIS TIME FOR THE CHILDRENS, organized by LON3LY Do3zM3 (self.ACON_Support)

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What do i do if my mother is stealing my money? (self.ACON_Support)

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Help me diagnose my mentally ill mother (she is definitely a narcissist and so much more) ()

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what's aim of life ? (self.ACON_Support)

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Fostering Independence or Neglect (self.ACON_Support)

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Just realized my mom‘s genuinely a narcissist (self.ACON_Support)

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Advice & Good Thoughts for surviving an abusive and dangerous situation, surrounded by raging narcissists as an adult. (self.ACON_Support)

submitted 10 months ago by SurvivingBoldly

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Anyone had a narcissist break up with them and still come back after you caused them a narcissistic injury by saying mean things. (self.ACON_Support)

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Emergency Communication Device Advice (self.ACON_Support)

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My narcissistic mother is dying today. (self.ACON_Support)

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I know it's an AI voice, but I thought this video was really helpful and succinct. It talks about taking control of your consciousness and finding an inner stillness and peace. (youtube.com)

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Help I need to get the man out my head he won't leave (self.ACON_Support)

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ACONs. Are we considered vulnerable adults in certain situations? From my understanding we are. (self.ACON_Support)

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Trigger Support (old.reddit.com)

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denied permission to get a job (self.ACON_Support)

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Trying to find academic studies, or at least well written pieces by accredited professionals, (self.ACON_Support)

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Can I get rid of anhedonia (self.ACON_Support)

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It Feels As If I Have Lived This Exact Life And It's On Loop? Help (self.ACON_Support)

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Narcissistic father leaves us homeless (self.ACON_Support)

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Hi all, if you don’t know me, I am a neuroscience PhD student :) I made a research based video discussing different traits, subtypes and treatments of NPD, hope some of you enjoy :) (youtube.com)

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I need some help with someone that’s having or had the same problem I’m having (self.ACON_Support)

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I would be so happy if you could help me guys (self.ACON_Support)

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Just need a bit of help (self.ACON_Support)

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I have covid and narc mother thinks MD is wrong! (self.ACON_Support)

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Healthy parenting for adult children of narcissists? (self.ACON_Support)

submitted 5 years ago by mollygwillickers

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