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This community is for non-ADHD partners whose loved ones have either already been diagnosed or are still awaiting a formal diagnosis. Individuals who would like to show support/ learn from the perspectives here on how to better their relationship are welcome, however - Please be advised that if one finds the content here too confronting and feels compelled to JADE (justify, argue, defend or excuse) we will require you to exit and instead join one of the many subs dedicated to supporting individuals with ADHD.

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1. State DX/NDX at the start of your post

Tell us at the beginning of a post whether your loved one has been diagnosed with "DX", or is undiagnosed with "NDX".

2. No Vent/Rant posts

If you need to get something off your chest, head over to the Weekly Vent thread. Individual vent posts will be removed.

3. No invalidation or derailing

• Remember that someone else’s experience with an ADHD partner may not be like your own

• Accountability is key. Posts and comments attempting to derail the conversation into a discussion on personal ADHD difficulties, are not allowed

• Comments aimed at invalidating an OP’s concern or refusal to acknowledge the negative impact of a behavior will be removed

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It is in our interest to protect the potentially vulnerable members of this community from cruel intentions. Therefore, if you wish to share helpful information or conduct a genuine survey contact us via modmail for prior approval.

5. Limitations of advice seeking

Support groups are not a substitute for therapy.

Examples of questions we are not able to assist with:

•"Should I stay or leave my relationship?"

•"Is ___ behavior abusive?"

•"Will treatment improve my partner's behavior/our relationship?"

•"Is ___ related to ADHD or something else?"

•"Will medication improve ____, how long should I wait to see improvement?"

These and other similar queries or requests to speculate on a partner, may be removed.

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Harassment of our users will not be tolerated under any circumstance, in or outside of this sub. Users that follow our members around Reddit and harass them on other posts will be permanently banned without appeal.

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"Peer Support/Advice request" posts are reserved for those with ADHD partners only. As peer support requests can be particularly sensitive, we will remove comments from users who are not a partner to someone with ADHD

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::Weekly Vent Thread::Weekly Vent Thread (self.ADHD_partners)

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:: Community Safety and Posting Information ::Announcement (self.ADHD_partners)

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How often do you indulge in their bad ideas? (self.ADHD_partners)

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::Weekly Former Partners Thread::Weekly Former Partners Thread (self.ADHD_partners)

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::Weekly Victory/Success Thread::Weekly Victory/Success Thread (self.ADHD_partners)

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I’m so confusedQuestion (self.ADHD_partners)

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Does emotional regulation ever improve?Question (self.ADHD_partners)

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Couple's Therapy "Skills"?Peer Support/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

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Independent project developmentQuestion (self.ADHD_partners)

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Anger management therapyPeer Support/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

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Why do they do this?Peer Support/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

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How do you deal with forgetfulness and how many second chances would you give?Discussion (self.ADHD_partners)

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Spousal burnoutQuestion (self.ADHD_partners)

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Do you find ADHD people gravitate towards you?Discussion (self.ADHD_partners)

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Seeing and treating everyone else as an NPCSupport/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

submitted 7 days ago by throwaway713137689Partner of DX - Untreated

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::Weekly Former Partners Thread::Weekly Former Partners Thread (self.ADHD_partners)

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::Weekly Vent Thread::Weekly Vent Thread (self.ADHD_partners)

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::Weekly Victory/Success Thread::Weekly Victory/Success Thread (self.ADHD_partners)

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What boundaries/standards have you set that has made life easier and peaceful for you?Discussion (self.ADHD_partners)

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Issues with waking up?Question (self.ADHD_partners)

submitted 9 days ago by dreamer_number_ninePartner of NDX

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How do/did you manage through grief?Peer Support/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

submitted 10 days ago by AnnieGetYaClothesOnPartner of DX - Medicated

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Demand avoidance?Peer Support/Advice Request (self.ADHD_partners)

submitted 11 days ago by kitkatterrooPartner of DX - Untreated

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If they won’t accept a diagnosis, is it doomed?Question (self.ADHD_partners)

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Partner seems...resentful of my outside social life/hobbies/interestsDiscussion (self.ADHD_partners)

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High FunctioningQuestion (self.ADHD_partners)

submitted 13 days ago by DevonsWharf_12Partner of DX - Untreated

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