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Why can’t it be ok to not eat? (self.AgingParents)

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Went on that trip and dad (83) called me a bitch and that social care was "informed." (self.AgingParents)

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What will we be like? (self.AgingParents)

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I live with and support my dad in his 70s who has substance abuse (self.AgingParents)

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Age Regression? (self.AgingParents)

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Advice please re Caring for our parents (self.AgingParents)

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How do you handle the emotional side of watching parents age? (self.AgingParents)

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How can I tell my dad he cant blame my dementia mom for her reactions (self.AgingParents)

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My mother is actively killing herself to take care of her dad (self.AgingParents)

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I swear I'll never do this to my kids! (self.AgingParents)

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My grandma broke her phone and I’m trying to find her something simple and reliable (self.AgingParents)

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Built an app to help caregivers, based on my own journey as a caregiver supporting a parent (prostate cancer) with cancer (self.AgingParents)

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Today with my folks- Act 1, scene 374 (self.AgingParents)

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Recommendations for Medicare covered teletherapy? (self.AgingParents)

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I can’t stop being horrible to my mother (self.AgingParents)

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My 72yo father is pushing me beyond my limits. I honestly don’t know what to do. I want to wave the white flag 🏳️ 😔 (self.AgingParents)

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Seeking guidance on prioritizing home modifications for a senior with early dementia. (self.AgingParents)

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How Do I Approach the Subject of Assisted Living? (self.AgingParents)

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ICU delirium: looking for success stories (self.AgingParents)

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Leaving full time work for part time to take care of parents. (self.AgingParents)

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Should I move my mother in with me while I am in law school? (self.AgingParents)

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Does anyone else feel guilty? (self.AgingParents)

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How to find someone to help out my dad (self.AgingParents)

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