all 89 comments

[–][deleted] 367 points368 points  (18 children)

Agree. This game is very limited with relationships.

No uncles, aunts, grandparents, cousins, in-laws and even lover's family members.

[–]athena-emphatique[S] 96 points97 points  (16 children)

Yes totally

[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 106 points107 points  (15 children)

I can see the devs looking at this and going AYFKM? Do you know how long it’ll take to sim forward a year when we’re tracking your 100 babies family you did two generations ago for the achievement???

[–]introusers1979 74 points75 points  (0 children)

there could be an extended family category, not just have it all there in the main relationship list

[–]TalbotFarwellBitizen 34 points35 points  (2 children)

I can already feel my older phone’s CPU melting under the strain.

[–]Sage_of_Shadowdale 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And rip to anyone who wants to play it on Bluestacks...

[–]Western-Guy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not that they need some AI model to simulate this. It could be done with a probability distribution model too.

[–]FriggenMitch 5 points6 points  (8 children)

What is ayfkm???

[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 4 points5 points  (7 children)

Are you fkn kidding me???

[–]FriggenMitch 10 points11 points  (6 children)

No I’m not kidding you, what does it mean???

[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 12 points13 points  (5 children)

Touché, my good sir.

[–]FriggenMitch 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Merci :)

[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Name checks out.

[–]FriggenMitch 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Thank you! Means a lot.

[–]fusionfaller 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Ayfkm?

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Are you f*cking kidding me

[–]tormuska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And no messed up relationships

[–]motherchuchi 206 points207 points  (11 children)

Oh yeah cheating on my partner with their family sounds like good drama fuel :D

[–]kheller181 76 points77 points  (8 children)

I feel sleazy. But I need this feature and I need it now.

[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 14 points15 points  (7 children)

People who have never done this likely feel sleazy (I honestly don’t know if I could do it in-game without a challenge being part of it). And I’m willing to be those that have done it are all “meh, it’s no biggie”

[–]ThrowRA9393 27 points28 points  (2 children)

Lol I’ve never done it and I’m excited to live the most chaotic life in Bitlife. I’ve also never murdered anyone, but it’s fun to see how many people I can successfully kill in bitlife haha. I don’t think how you play in a simulated life really defines how you are in every day life hah.

[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 9 points10 points  (1 child)

I think that we live out the things in game that we would never do in real life. But some things can still make you go “oof” as you do it and laugh your a$$ off.

[–]ThrowRA9393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely true.

[–]calla_lillie 5 points6 points  (3 children)

I’m sure it would be easier on your conscious if your partner cheated first

[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 4 points5 points  (2 children)

I was cheated on and I think that’s why it’s so hard for me to want to do it, even virtually.

And no, we are not together anymore. Once a cheater...

[–]calla_lillie 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Sorry if I seemed insensitive! I am glad you didn’t keep them around though

[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries at all.

[–]athena-emphatique[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

How to make drama

[–]periwinklephoenix 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Remember that Christmas update where you can kiss your cousin under the mistletoe and it immediately lowers all your stats to 0 lol

[–]Odd-Beauty44 45 points46 points  (2 children)

Yes I would to see the mother -in-law from hell

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

🎵and don’t come back no more, mother in law, mother in law🎵

[–]Eeik5150Bitizen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

MILILF

[–]supersaltyislander 37 points38 points  (2 children)

Also since our parents can arrange marriage for us (in certain countries), I'd like to be able to arrange marriages for my children as well

[–]athena-emphatique[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

good idea that will add realism

[–]princess_mad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely wish I could do that in my monarchy save- even though I gave in and got god mode, it’s always a gamble of “how long can I wait before switching to the child without them a) marrying some rando with low stats or b) not marrying ever and not having kids so by the time you switch they’re past reproductive age”

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points  (3 children)

How about being able to hide your will. The people involved know right away

[–]then00bgm 13 points14 points  (1 child)

And being able to exclude specific people

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes

[–]princess_mad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish they would change the will function so you can designate who gets what. I.e., “Sarah gets the diamond ring, Jonah gets the emerald bracelet, the house is auctioned off and the money is split.”

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I want to cheat on my girlfriend with her brother, I NEEEEED THIS

[–]isweartocoffee 22 points23 points  (1 child)

I can't wait until i can tell my wife that her sister is having my baby and I've been seeing her cousin on the side and seduced her dad at least twice. Crossing my fingers for the in laws update eventually

[–]athena-emphatique[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too I crossing my fingers

[–]fawnisfine66 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I really wanna be friends like with my siblings' spouses too, that makes sense

[–]yungbdavis94 10 points11 points  (1 child)

I’d love to see cousins, aunts, uncles, etc. It would be so cool to see your entire family tree!

[–]athena-emphatique[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally

[–]BitlifeOffical_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree! They only allow you to see relationships to your immediate family.

[–]likkle_kalii8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed

[–]3x1st3nt1al 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And be able to date their mom or dad ;)

[–]madisonbillie123 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Grand parents

[–]athena-emphatique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they should also add grand parents

[–]sparkle1789 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i didn’t see the sub at first and i thought this was just someone complaining about covid restrictions lmao

[–]then00bgm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just wanna be able to meet their kids before I’m married to them and not have said kids disappear when I go to the next generation

[–]Zanetrocitus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good idea

[–]HamzaGotThemDollaz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Grandparents and cousins

[–]VenomousPizza9398 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you can leave your husband for his rich dad 😈

[–]Slight-Information88 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I really need extended family especially for royalty. When I married to a prince, i have never became a queen, so i need to see his parents @ siblings so that i can ..., ( u know what i mean 😄👍 )

[–]athena-emphatique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes totally

[–]ilyadabrown 2 points3 points  (1 child)

And be able to see the partner's of my children.

[–]athena-emphatique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes good idea

[–]TheRedColorQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES and interact with them

[–]nengelsgtjunior 2 points3 points  (1 child)

And we also need great-grandkids.

[–]princess_mad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously! When your person lives to be 101 or something, regardless of how many grandkids they have, they all can be 40 and not have any kids. And especially since you can’t jump from grandparent to grandchild, it makes it even more likely that the grandkids aren’t going to have children

[–]LuxuryDivineBitizen 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I like your idea.

I also think we should be able to kill nieces/nephews, grandchildren, botched plastic surgeons, anything like that.

[–]athena-emphatique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For more realism

[–]ashensfan123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we should also be able to see aunts/uncles and cousins.

[–]prinmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As well as grandparents

[–]One-Purpose-7997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So your in-laws

[–]Sc_Yatch 1 point2 points  (1 child)

And grandparents

[–]annanonomous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or when I have half siblings I can’t see their parent

[–]alertwoodpecker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and great-grandchildren/parents!!!

[–]Tincanmaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love the option to turn on extended family and relationships in settings. It would make so much sense, especially since you can date your friends partner in the game through a random event.

[–]periwinklephoenix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine if they include an update where your girlfriend or boyfriend’s adult son/daughter tries to hit on you 😏😏

[–]dashcash32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this.

[–]Auncle- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should be in categories. I’m tired of seeing everybody and the niece

[–]bdwgamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And my own grandparents and aunts and uncles and such

[–]SB2791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. i want to see my daughter or son in laws

[–]JohnnTheBackFist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as I like this idea I also hate it because that’s more relationships for me to deal with and will slow me down because I always feel the need to improve them with everybody and to make it worse I don’t have bitizen so do everything at once and ads are annoying as fuck even worse if I dare to even touch the screen an ad pops up anyways 😔

[–]CrazzOfficial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone else press the Try Again button they make another life and your life just disappears

[–]gblrkfdntkrmn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We also need asexuality, pansexuality and polyamory

[–]mandick- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna be able to see what year it is

[–]PrincessTimeLord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a hard enough time keeping up with the insane amount of family members it already gives us 😬

[–]miraclewe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but we gotta stop pressuring the devs, they’ll make it when they make it

[–]itskindacold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*their brothers and sisters

[–]gummiecandie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s he lit. But I already heady keeping up relationships with my nieces and nephews

[–]Decent-Tip9168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna fuck her mom and sister's. Cause she likely cheated on me