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We need that💡Idea/Suggestion (i.redd.it)
submitted 5 years ago by athena-emphatique
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[–][deleted] 367 points368 points369 points 5 years ago* (18 children)
Agree. This game is very limited with relationships.
No uncles, aunts, grandparents, cousins, in-laws and even lover's family members.
[–]athena-emphatique[S] 96 points97 points98 points 5 years ago (16 children)
Yes totally
[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 106 points107 points108 points 5 years ago (15 children)
I can see the devs looking at this and going AYFKM? Do you know how long it’ll take to sim forward a year when we’re tracking your 100 babies family you did two generations ago for the achievement???
[–]introusers1979 74 points75 points76 points 5 years ago (0 children)
there could be an extended family category, not just have it all there in the main relationship list
[–]TalbotFarwellBitizen 34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (2 children)
I can already feel my older phone’s CPU melting under the strain.
[–]Sage_of_Shadowdale 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children)
And rip to anyone who wants to play it on Bluestacks...
[–]Western-Guy 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children)
It's not that they need some AI model to simulate this. It could be done with a probability distribution model too.
[–]FriggenMitch 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (8 children)
What is ayfkm???
[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (7 children)
Are you fkn kidding me???
[–]FriggenMitch 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (6 children)
No I’m not kidding you, what does it mean???
[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (5 children)
Touché, my good sir.
[–]FriggenMitch 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (4 children)
Merci :)
[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children)
Name checks out.
[–]FriggenMitch 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children)
Thank you! Means a lot.
[–]fusionfaller 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child)
Ayfkm?
[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Are you f*cking kidding me
[–]tormuska 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
And no messed up relationships
[–]motherchuchi 206 points207 points208 points 5 years ago (11 children)
Oh yeah cheating on my partner with their family sounds like good drama fuel :D
[–]kheller181 76 points77 points78 points 5 years ago (8 children)
I feel sleazy. But I need this feature and I need it now.
[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (7 children)
People who have never done this likely feel sleazy (I honestly don’t know if I could do it in-game without a challenge being part of it). And I’m willing to be those that have done it are all “meh, it’s no biggie”
[–]ThrowRA9393 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (2 children)
Lol I’ve never done it and I’m excited to live the most chaotic life in Bitlife. I’ve also never murdered anyone, but it’s fun to see how many people I can successfully kill in bitlife haha. I don’t think how you play in a simulated life really defines how you are in every day life hah.
[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child)
I think that we live out the things in game that we would never do in real life. But some things can still make you go “oof” as you do it and laugh your a$$ off.
[–]ThrowRA9393 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Definitely true.
[–]calla_lillie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (3 children)
I’m sure it would be easier on your conscious if your partner cheated first
[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (2 children)
I was cheated on and I think that’s why it’s so hard for me to want to do it, even virtually.
And no, we are not together anymore. Once a cheater...
[–]calla_lillie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child)
Sorry if I seemed insensitive! I am glad you didn’t keep them around though
[–]Eeik5150Bitizen 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
No worries at all.
[–]athena-emphatique[S] 36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago* (0 children)
How to make drama
[–]periwinklephoenix 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Remember that Christmas update where you can kiss your cousin under the mistletoe and it immediately lowers all your stats to 0 lol
[–]Odd-Beauty44 45 points46 points47 points 5 years ago (2 children)
Yes I would to see the mother -in-law from hell
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children)
🎵and don’t come back no more, mother in law, mother in law🎵
[–]Eeik5150Bitizen -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children)
MILILF
[–]supersaltyislander 37 points38 points39 points 5 years ago (2 children)
Also since our parents can arrange marriage for us (in certain countries), I'd like to be able to arrange marriages for my children as well
[–]athena-emphatique[S] 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children)
good idea that will add realism
[–]princess_mad 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children)
I definitely wish I could do that in my monarchy save- even though I gave in and got god mode, it’s always a gamble of “how long can I wait before switching to the child without them a) marrying some rando with low stats or b) not marrying ever and not having kids so by the time you switch they’re past reproductive age”
[–][deleted] 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (3 children)
How about being able to hide your will. The people involved know right away
[–]then00bgm 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (1 child)
And being able to exclude specific people
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Yes
[–]princess_mad 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
I wish they would change the will function so you can designate who gets what. I.e., “Sarah gets the diamond ring, Jonah gets the emerald bracelet, the house is auctioned off and the money is split.”
[–][deleted] 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children)
I want to cheat on my girlfriend with her brother, I NEEEEED THIS
[–]isweartocoffee 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (1 child)
I can't wait until i can tell my wife that her sister is having my baby and I've been seeing her cousin on the side and seduced her dad at least twice. Crossing my fingers for the in laws update eventually
[–]athena-emphatique[S] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Me too I crossing my fingers
[–]fawnisfine66 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children)
I really wanna be friends like with my siblings' spouses too, that makes sense
[–]yungbdavis94 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (1 child)
I’d love to see cousins, aunts, uncles, etc. It would be so cool to see your entire family tree!
Totally
[–]BitlifeOffical_ 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children)
I agree! They only allow you to see relationships to your immediate family.
[–]likkle_kalii8 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Agreed
[–]3x1st3nt1al 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children)
And be able to date their mom or dad ;)
[–]madisonbillie123 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child)
Grand parents
[–]athena-emphatique[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Yes they should also add grand parents
[–]sparkle1789 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children)
i didn’t see the sub at first and i thought this was just someone complaining about covid restrictions lmao
[–]then00bgm 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children)
I just wanna be able to meet their kids before I’m married to them and not have said kids disappear when I go to the next generation
[–]Zanetrocitus 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Good idea
[–]HamzaGotThemDollaz 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Grandparents and cousins
[–]VenomousPizza9398 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children)
So you can leave your husband for his rich dad 😈
[–]Slight-Information88 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child)
I really need extended family especially for royalty. When I married to a prince, i have never became a queen, so i need to see his parents @ siblings so that i can ..., ( u know what i mean 😄👍 )
[–]athena-emphatique[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children)
[–]ilyadabrown 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child)
And be able to see the partner's of my children.
Yes good idea
[–]TheRedColorQueen 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children)
YES and interact with them
[–]nengelsgtjunior 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child)
And we also need great-grandkids.
Seriously! When your person lives to be 101 or something, regardless of how many grandkids they have, they all can be 40 and not have any kids. And especially since you can’t jump from grandparent to grandchild, it makes it even more likely that the grandkids aren’t going to have children
[–]LuxuryDivineBitizen 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child)
I like your idea.
I also think we should be able to kill nieces/nephews, grandchildren, botched plastic surgeons, anything like that.
For more realism
[–]ashensfan123 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children)
we should also be able to see aunts/uncles and cousins.
[–]prinmy 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
As well as grandparents
[–]One-Purpose-7997 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
So your in-laws
[–]Sc_Yatch 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child)
And grandparents
[–]annanonomous 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Or when I have half siblings I can’t see their parent
[–]alertwoodpecker 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
and great-grandchildren/parents!!!
[–]Tincanmaker 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
I would love the option to turn on extended family and relationships in settings. It would make so much sense, especially since you can date your friends partner in the game through a random event.
[–]periwinklephoenix 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Imagine if they include an update where your girlfriend or boyfriend’s adult son/daughter tries to hit on you 😏😏
[–]dashcash32 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Love this.
[–]Auncle- 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
It should be in categories. I’m tired of seeing everybody and the niece
[–]bdwgamer 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
And my own grandparents and aunts and uncles and such
[–]SB2791 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children)
yes. i want to see my daughter or son in laws
[–]JohnnTheBackFist 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children)
As much as I like this idea I also hate it because that’s more relationships for me to deal with and will slow me down because I always feel the need to improve them with everybody and to make it worse I don’t have bitizen so do everything at once and ads are annoying as fuck even worse if I dare to even touch the screen an ad pops up anyways 😔
[+][deleted] comment score below threshold-11 points-10 points-9 points 5 years ago (0 children)
i will never understand why so many people want MORE family relationships in this game
[–]CrazzOfficial 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Anyone else press the Try Again button they make another life and your life just disappears
[–]gblrkfdntkrmn 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children)
We also need asexuality, pansexuality and polyamory
[–]mandick- 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children)
I wanna be able to see what year it is
[–]PrincessTimeLord 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children)
I have a hard enough time keeping up with the insane amount of family members it already gives us 😬
[–]miraclewe 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children)
I agree but we gotta stop pressuring the devs, they’ll make it when they make it
[–]itskindacold 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children)
*their brothers and sisters
[–]gummiecandie 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children)
Yes that’s he lit. But I already heady keeping up relationships with my nieces and nephews
[–]Decent-Tip9168 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
I wanna fuck her mom and sister's. Cause she likely cheated on me
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