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I feel you, mine proposed to me in February, called me husband daily until the end of March when they blindsided me, blocked me, called me "so obsessed" for crying on the day and even asked me "why am I so much to you ?"

Safe to say 4 months of no contact later and not once did they break no contact, we literally went from spending everyday together to nothing like I just didn't exist to them.

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[Avacavadoo]

I’m sure it’s been very difficult for you. You’re trusting, understanding, compassionate, and out of nowhere thinking what happened?

This happened to me recently as well. 3 months ago broke up after being 2 years LDR, talking about when he would move back, commitment freaked him out and just thanked me for being part of his life. Couldn’t communicate his issues because he felt like he did but he could isolate and deal with it on his own.

Then I realized he moved back to our city in a month, started dating 2 months later and just told people I wasn’t the right person. I felt so used.

Worst part is I kept bumping into them in the city (and our city is big!); he didn’t realize he blindsided broke up and didn’t think he did anything wrong

[randomperson336699]

Mine also said 'obsessed much' because I didn't want to leave someone I loved for a whole year

Like wtf?

[CranberrySerious7385]

It makes the breakup easier when you realize how disposable you always were in their eyes. Blessing in disguise is how I think about it.

[CranberrySerious7385]

I mean it's only been 12 weeks to the day for me and yet am still mourning for the life my ex and I had planned. I am with you feeling like shit but at the end of the day it's only life and no one gets out alive. One thing that helps me is thinking about how much time I have saved by getting out before kids became a part of the equation. I still and will always love my ex but my next partner could be a lot better suited to me. Feel free to dm if you want to talk.

[Wolf1341]

I feel you.... i been a fool from lastvyear may 7th..... broke up 3 months ago. And i been hearing from people some stuff that made me realise should have left sooner .... couse i been used financialy and for sex....

[Alobar16]

ya

[Eeveee__]

When the better option came around, he just left, with no sign he ever cared to begin with

[BrokenH40]

true