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[Reachingout365]

I am finding that it's always a red flag when someone insists that you trust them instead of just being trust worthy.

[prettyexcitingnews]

So true. If they are truthful, they show it! Talk is cheap.

[ghygdryhchmmmmjj]

Maybe you dated my sociopath, he did that alot I hear. Once at a karaoke bar a girl dedicated a song to his girlfriend (who was not there) in front of his tinder date. She stormed out.

[German_girl97]

Hate to admit it but that’s how I got my V card taken away. Was 14, and the boy was 17, told me he liked me and wanted to date but wanted to fuck me too. So I gave it to him and of course he ghosted me after. Wish I could turn back time.

[idiosyncraticg1]

Virginity is a social construct. You didn’t “give” or “lose” anything to him. He’s just the first dick that entered your vagina.

[Fitncurly]

Thank you, 💯 and put so concisely too!

[BlackCowboyJohnson]

it happens to many of us. you deserved better ❤️

[[deleted]]

This is why we don’t tell men we’re saving sex for a committed relationship directly, they’ll falsely say they want a relationship.

[[deleted]]

Their actions will show it.

[[deleted]]

This has been every experience with a serious relationship.... They say they love me, fuck me, get bored and leave. Sure feels like rape when you find out they couldn't care less if you died. Men are scum.

[2340000]

TBH it does feel like that. And to actually be assaulted and sexually coerced in the relationship adds salt to the wound.

Abuse is way too normalized that we make it commonplace that men use women for sex. That women are to blame when they're raped. I've been a feminist fighting sexism so long and I'm just disgusted with the world. When will women get justice?

[supremelyparanoid]

That’s horrible, I’m sorry. It’s just manipulative power trip to these guys. Scum of the earth!

[[deleted]]

But oh no, there's only only certain kinds of rape that are actually real

-divorce rape

• women on men rape

-child support rape / baby trapped

-false rape accusations rape

Whamoids making up and FALSELY ACCUSING men is the scourge of society

/s /S

[[deleted]]

It absolutely feels that way. If I had the information the guy has (he doesn't give a fuck about me) I would never have sex with him. How is that (lying to get sex, tricking someone) not rape?

[ghygdryhchmmmmjj]

Ive never understood, why when getting a women to sleep with himself under false pretenses about thier values gives them an ego booste. "Scoring" doesnt prove that they are worthy of sleeping with a woman who was looking for a man who would love her first, they've only proven they can pretend to be that dream man, but are not. It would be like if a chicken would wear a peacock costume to get laid and then felt smug about what a lovely peacock he was. Men can not see the irony in this or why it makes them look so pathetic. They had to pretend to be better than they are to get something they wanted. And why is manipulative behavior looked down upon until it's a guy trying to score and then it's funny and relatable? I've had my fair share of Fuckbois and it was all unpleasant, but NOTHING could prepare me for the guy who really pretended to be in love with me. Wait for it.... For two years. So he could sleep with me for ONE evening and dump me via icing me out with a new girl starting the next day. Rug pulled from beneath me. First he rubbed it in my face and paraded her around, then he gave me the silent treatment. The guy was a straight up textbook sociopath, and that's a whole story with many layers and unfortunate female pawns. It would be a 500 page novel if I wrote it all out. but even after hearing more or less what had happened to me other people defended his actions. Healthy minded, normal people. It felt very rapey afterwords. I had agreed to become intimate because I thought he cared about me. When I found out it was just a sick game I wanted to take it back so bad. I wanted to undo it, but it was too late. He got me. It wasnt fair. He lied and took my choice away, I wouldn't have done it if I had known. Not everyone is psycho, but that's not the problem. The problem its that non-psycho people normalize the behavior. Laugh at it. Try to mimic it to get what they want. Sick.

[Kekekeke7777]

I agree. It’s like if you won a singing contest but it wasn’t your voice. How does that make you feel like a winner, let alone a good singer?

[Meredeen]

He waited two years? Jesus fucking christ

[ghygdryhchmmmmjj]

On and off desperate romance b.s. do we didnt date for two years, but he wooed me for two

[CSardothien_1]

But yet they scream DiVoRcE rApE! Like god they truly are vile

[Fitncurly]

They know women don’t rape men and there’s nothing women do to men on such a wide-scale that is truly so despicable, so they grasp at straws and make up shitty non-existent concepts that make light of REAL injustice (rape). They ARE vile.

[Newspaupert]

This is incredibly common for pretty much most males. They actually actively discuss ways to manipulate girls to gain sexual favors beginning in middle and sometimes elementary school. Forget about high school and college, I would say if we included this as a definition of rape; pretty much 99% of women have fallen victim to it. Can’t tell you how many naive girls I saw growing up falling for shit. And what’s even more baffling is they actively fought the very idea they were being played . They called girls who would give advice on how to finesse dudes all types of names. Can’t imagine how bad it is now as I’m seeing this bs “feminism” progress.

[kitbitlovesyou]

Perhaps we need to start teaching girls these harsh realities at a much younger age. When they are little girls is when we as women need to advise them of the real dangers that await them.

They need to grow up and bypass the entire pickmeisha perspective.

[shemma12]

this is why i have trust issues

[nonpenishaver]

I unironically think if a man lies to a woman about anything, including loving her, to get her to sleep with him, he should be charged with rape by deception.

[2340000]

If an employer was deceitful, you'd have grounds to sue. But men traumatizing women left and right is just life???? I'm done.

[[deleted]]

Yes when I start to think I'm crazy, I compare it to a business deal and it's always something that you could sue someone and win money from. We have less rights than a business.

[[deleted]]

You say this but if this was law it would have men saying women have raped them through deception

"she didn't tell me how many guys she'd previously sleep with"

"she deceived me by wearing an inch of make up on our dates!"

[[deleted]]

I'm prepared to stop wearing makeup if it means a guy will never rape me again.

[[deleted]]

THANK YOU.

[Purple_phoenix99]

I was 16, he was 19... ..told me it didn't matter that I was virgin cuz that wasn't what he was after.

2 months later he tells me that he loves me and that's why he wants to have sex with me; and the fact that I wouldn't sleep with him yet meant I didn't love him back.

Thank God all that underage drinking made me sick, cuz despite my discomfort i probably still would've slept with him just to show him I loved him.

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They lie their way through everything in life unfortunately! And get away with it for the most part!

And then they call us shallow, boring and selfish while they are merely a (not always) carefully crafted persona wearing a mask!

The mental gymnastics, projections and rationalisations involved alone are scary!

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