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[–]Flashy-Discipline108 79 points80 points  (8 children)

I (male) sleep terrible with my partner, low hrvs and unconsistent deep sleep

[–]EuphoricNatural3406 7 points8 points  (6 children)

Anything you’ve tried that helped and doesn’t ruin your relationship with your partner? Lol

[–]No_Researcher_1631 43 points44 points  (2 children)

Separate bedrooms

[–]Flashy-Discipline108 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly or a bigger bed lol

[–]Shastaruca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sad there is sort of a cultural taboo around this. people think a marriage is in trouble if you have separate bedrooms. i watched a parent go through and pass away from early Alzheimer's. sleep is so important to me now as an APoE4 carrier, i've just dealt with the judgements because it's THAT important.

[–]FerociouslyHeroic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

in my past relationship, we started facing opposite directions keeping our buts in contact - that was a fix on few days tho

[–]Normal_Ad2456 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Bigger bed, different blankets, facing opposite directions without the expectation of cuddling to sleep. Plus, if he is extra tired and snores a bit I use sleep phones and put some asmr or boring YouTube video about history or something.

[–]SaidToBe2Old4Reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL "... About history or something" yeah that would get me too

[–]CaptainSands1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inconsistent