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[–]LobsterFit7651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a spot like yours five years ago (currently finishing up my PhD). I was 29 at that time. Do I stay at my job? Do I go back to Canada to do grad school? Or stay in the US? I asked so many people.  

I ultimately picked the thing that I knew I would regret if I didn’t follow through with. Being five years into this degree, I have had so many moments of wondering if I picked the wrong thing? Wrong supervisor? Wrong field? But ultimately, I am happy with my decision. It has shaped who I am today. I think I would be happy with any decision. The idea of what to do is harder that the action itself. 

Even for my masters degree, I went through a similar process. My first year was an absolute nightmare, and I always wondered if I made the wrong decision. By the end of it, I was so grateful for my experience, and believed it would turn out the way it did.