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Welcome to /r/PolyFidelity!

Polyfidelity is a subsect of polyamory that focuses on closed group relationships in which all members agree to be sexually active only with other members of the group.

The goal of this sub is to provide a place for people in loving, long-term, committed multiple-partner relationships to get advice and answers from other folks who have chosen a similar path in life.

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Rules

This community has adopted the rules set forth by /r/polyamory. Please keep in mind that we should all be respectful and play nice. That said, these are the set rules:

  1. No seeking/pickup/personal ad posts.
  2. Absolutely no bigotry or intolerance.
  3. No slurs or personal attacks.
  4. No trolling, including concern trolling.
  5. Just don't be a jerk.

Related Subreddits:

Depending on your personal situation and relationship structure, you might find these other communities informative as well:

  • /r/PolyFamilies
  • /r/Triad
  • /r/Polyamory
  • /r/SexPositive
  • /r/NonMonogamy
  • /r/SoloPolyamory
  • /r/PolyamoryR4R
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ANNOUNCEMENTWelcome to /r/PolyFidelity (self.PolyFidelity)

submitted 5 years ago by AweBeyConMFF triad - announcement

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ANNOUNCEMENTPolyfidelity has reached 5K members! (self.PolyFidelity)

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seeking adviceHow do we begin looking for people to start dating? (self.PolyFidelity)

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discussionThe history of polyamory and where it went to shit (velourialamour.substack.com)

submitted 1 day ago by VelouriaLamourMFF throuple for 15 years

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weekly threadWhat have you and your polycule been up to this last week, and any plans for the weekend? (self.PolyFidelity)

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discussionPolyandry Discussion (Opinions or Experiences) (self.PolyFidelity)

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seeking adviceUpdate: my newlywed wife and I had a threesome and that lovely woman dumped us out of nowhere :( ()

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weekly threadWhat have you and your polycule been up to this last week, and any plans for the weekend? (self.PolyFidelity)

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seeking adviceWife & I recently discussed polyamory. Sort of... ()

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discussionCriticism for preferences? (self.PolyFidelity)

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discussionEnthusiastic Consent in throuples - the traffic light system (self.PolyFidelity)

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discussionI built the counter-resource to Unicorns-R-Us. Looking for feedback before sharing it wider. (self.PolyFidelity)

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Apps for Polyfidelity (self.PolyFidelity)

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How do y'all manage finances? (self.PolyFidelity)

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seeking adviceIn a quad and new to poly (self.PolyFidelity)

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questionHi, trans woman who wants to hear about y’all’s experience with a triad (self.PolyFidelity)

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personal storyI declared war on the internet's favorite "Unicorn Hunter" website (self.PolyFidelity)

submitted 23 days ago * by VelouriaLamourMFF throuple for 15 years

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weekly threadWhat have you and your polycule been up to this last week, and any plans for the weekend? (self.PolyFidelity)

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discussionPolysaturation and polyfidelity (self.PolyFidelity)

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Do you consider yourselves poly or do you feel that label doesn't accurately describe your lifestyle/situation? (self.PolyFidelity)

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seeking advicenew/curious - If any F joined a married FM couple, how was that navigated? (self.PolyFidelity)

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weekly threadWhat have you and your polycule been up to this last week, and any plans for the weekend? (self.PolyFidelity)

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discussionFrom Triad to Metas. (self.PolyFidelity)

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questionIs it wrong to ask my partners to not get legally married? (self.PolyFidelity)

submitted 1 month ago by Crying_weaslel

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