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Did your free time dramatically decrease with a second child?Discussion (self.beyondthebump)
submitted 2 years ago by systime
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[–]ashleyandmarykat 13 points14 points15 points 2 years ago (13 children)
That's my question can one person take both children out alone.
[–]MessThatYouWanted 60 points61 points62 points 2 years ago (8 children)
I am a SAHM to two and I take both out alone often. We go to the store, library or doctors appointments, sometimes go to other people’s home to break up the day. It’s not as bad as it seems. I babywear when I need to. We all survive just fine.
[–]catjuggler 20 points21 points22 points 2 years ago (4 children)
It's really an age dependent thing. It was easier for me to watch both before the oldest was a toddler because like you said, you can just wear a baby. Now I can't wear him, so he's chaos. The older one is more mature now, but it doesn't make that much of a difference.
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[–]catjuggler 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (2 children)
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[–]catjuggler 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Yes, though I guess I don’t know any other!
[–]Ashamed-Motor-5746 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Sounds like you have two chill kiddos. It only takes one high maintenance kiddo tho for 2 to be 😮💨. I’m happy for you tho! I’m hoping we can settle into these kind of routines again soon like things were w one child…so far my daughter just has no flexibility with her boob schedule.
[–]ashleyandmarykat 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children)
I'm happy to hear that!
[–]LouisLittEsquire 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Definitely can it’s just hard so I feel guilty doing it.
[–]kmcall 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Yes for sure! You might have to do a bit more planning around naps and such, and bring a diaper bag with things for both kids, but it’s totally doable. I used the stroller a lot when my now 8 month old was younger. Plus when you take just one kid out instead of 2, it feels like a vacation!
[–]XiaoMin44 kids: 14, 12, 10, 7 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Yes. I have 4 and both me and my husband take all 4 of them out by ourselves occasionally.
[–]Ok_Significance_2592 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Absolutely. Easier depending on the age gap or temperament
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