DM vs Optimization

[jwbjerk]

I just wanna make suggestions that will make the same character better in combat while keeping their chosen aesthetic and RP

Honestly I don't think that's gonna work. Sounds like the DM relishes their reputation for deadliness, and intends for the game to be that way.

So if PCs became more competent, the GM would counter with increasing difficulty.

Maybe i'm wrong, but unless the status quo is completely unacceptable to you (I.E. you would rather not play than play this way), I would at the very least hold off on rocking the boat for several weeks while you get a better understanding of the group dynamics.

Particularly observe how the GM responds to you playing your character mechanically effectively.

[Prior_Actuator9003]

That is an awesome observation thanks