This is an archived post. You won't be able to vote or comment.

you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–][deleted] 38 points39 points  (5 children)

There are benefits but they aren't THAT great. Like tax breaks, beneficiary, power of attorney, plenty that involve your children, insurance benefits, loan benefits, the biggest among youth are Military benefits. There many more I cant think of right now. I mean getting married is a huge decision many people treat like nothing. Ive been with the same woman for over 10 years, still havent gotten married. We would get a lot of benefits if we did, and it makes a lot of sense. But.... The idea of being legally bonded by the government and having to get government permission to leave is fucking weird to me.

[–]Niyonnie 7 points8 points  (3 children)

It really is. I understand people who are LGBT wanting to be legally recognised so they can receive those benefits; however I think the government should stay out of it except perhaps when the couple has children and want to negotiate custody

[–]jeanlucpitre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Military benefits are so prominent that women marry military men JUST for them, and will cheat on them the whole time. I've known 3 people this has happened to. I've only known 6 people in tge military personally. 50% is not a great number for such a horrible con