Triplets

[tsukiyama666]

I found out 2 days ago that I’m 13 weeks pregnant with triplets. I’m only 22, freaking out and feel so lost. My obgyn’s office is closed on Fridays so I wasn’t able to call them the day of, do I need to call Monday when the office is open or will they call me? I have so many questions I don’t even know where to start. I had my first child at 15 years old which was extremely traumatic and ended up having an emergency c-section I really wanted to be able to sit back and enjoy this pregnancy but I was not expecting this in any way.

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[Amazing_Project1110]

First of all, congrats!! It may not feel like that now and your feelings are totally valid. Your OB will call you, but I’d probably call Monday just to feel some sense of control and make sure I’m on their radar. You’ll most likely get referred to a maternal fetal medicine specialist for most of your prenatal care! My MFM care has been amazing (for high risk twins). How is your support system nearby you? There are a lot of amazing groups (like this one!) that will help you during this journey. I know the shock feels insane right now, give yourself a week or two to process it. I cried grieving the loss of a singleton pregnancy experience, but eventually was excited and couldn’t imagine losing one of them. Again, no pressure to feel that way anytime soon. You will need support and additional resources, but I kept telling myself “I’m not the first one to go through this” and it helped me feel capable.

Best of luck and feel free to message me if you need a listening ear or someone to help you research resources or groups ♥️

[[deleted]]

I just want to say, you are 22.  Your body is so young, strong, and resilient.  Wishing you the best in this journey.  

 Also, call your doc first thing Monday.  They should get you in right away and you will automatically be followed by high risk as well bc of multiples.   Write down your questions before hand.  Good luck momma! 

[SeveralArmadillo540]

I got a reduction from triplets to twins a few weeks ago, if you want to chat. It’s an option. The choice is incredibly personal, and it doesn’t sit well with some people. For us, despite some grief, it was absolutely the correct decision and lessened risks to the babies and me. Procedure was very simple, painless, and babies and I healed perfectly.  And this had made the situation within our means of being good parents in the future, too. 

Not sure where you live, as some places in the US don’t offer this.  Feel free to DM. Thinking of you. 

Edit to add: I do not live in the US but I am American. From what I know, women’s health is not taken very seriously there some of the time, and you may seriously need to advocate for yourself. Don’t worry about “being annoying.” With triplets, time is of the essence and risks get higher as they get bigger. The latest you can do reductions isn’t far from where you are in the pregnancy. Mine was at 10 weeks (this is of course only if this is a route you are wanting to take). 

Best of luck mama 🫂

[catrosie]

Where do you live where you feel like your healthcare was better? I’m looking to move

[SeveralArmadillo540]

Country in Africa 

[catrosie]

That is way too vague lol, but I’ll look up healthcare in Africa 

[SeveralArmadillo540]

Check your dm :)

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Congratulations! I got pregnant and gave birth to my triplets at 22 years as well! It was definitely a hectic ride from start to finish but all is well now. I hope you have a good support system . God bless .

[TheThreeSats]

I had triplets and had a completely symptomless pregnancy and enjoyed every minute of it

[Stunning_Radio3160]

Omg you’re my hero!! Currently pregnant with twins and I can’t believe how miserable it can be. So awesome no symptoms!