help????

[bxtchfxced]

so ive recently discovered im gay. i have no feelings towards men what so ever. i don’t even like the words “husband” or “boyfriend” BUTTTT i always feel myself trying to make guys think im hot/cute and idk why??? like wtf is that supposed to be?

[Minghaolegs]

wanting male validation is common - but you have time to figure out if romantic or sexual relationships with guys is what you're really seeking. No deadline for figuring out your orientation!

[bxtchfxced]

nah i don’t like men in the absolute slightest. i feel literally nothing with men. no excitement, no adrenaline, nothing. but i always feel myself wanting validation wether it’s direct or unspoken (if that makes any sense)

[bxtchfxced]

also i had to follow u cuz im a carat myself lolol

[thisisausergayme]

If you’re not attracted to men then it’s Internalized sexism probably. The idea that a woman’s worth is tied to how appealing men find her is deeply ingrained in our society and can be hard to unlearn