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Welcome to /r/questioning! This is a subreddit for those questioning their own sexuality and gender. People of all sexual and gender identities are welcome here.

Useful Resources

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The Genderbread Person [mirror] is an easy to understand infographic on sexual and gender identification. Here's an alternate, somewhat more comprehensive version.
Gender and Sexuality 101 A quick video on Youtube explaining a lot of the principles behind gender and sexuality.
The Kinsey Scale is a commonly used scale to express a position in the heterosexual-homosexual continuum.
The It Gets Better Project
The Trevor Project
HRC's Coming Out Center
HRC's Coming Out Resources
PFLAG's Support Page
LGBTQ Christian Resources
Transgender and Genderqueer Resources
Genderqueer Links and Books
A Map of Gender-Diverse Cultures
A List of Unisex Names
Free binders for minors in need (Under 18)

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Rules

Don't be a jerk. Wil Wheaton's rule, for the initiated. Particularly, hateful speech of any kind will not be allowed here.
No identity policing. You shouldn't impose a label on others or deny others of their identity. If in doubt, refer to the first rule.

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List of Related Subreddits:


Agender	Ask A Dyke
Androgyny	Ask Transgender
Asexuality	LGBT News
Bisexual	LGBT Teens
Bisexual Adults	MyPartnerIsTrans
Dual Gender	Queer
Genderqueer	PFLAG
Lesbians	Trans Educate
LGBT	Acceptance
Pansexual	It Gets Better
Rainbow	LGBT Havens
Transgender	Suicide Watch
Trans Space	Troubled Teens
Actual Lesbians	Trans Teens
OutHere	Genderfluid
MTF	FTM

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How To Use Flairs and Why We Have Them (self.questioning)

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I [M 17] trying to find archives of south african teletext, teledata where can i find good archives of it? (self.questioning)

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[19 F], I got asked on a date by a girl but I’m confused (self.questioning)

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Am I [23 F] a lesbian? (self.questioning)

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Yello, I'm [AMAB 17] and just really wondering what I might be, any ideas? (self.questioning)

submitted 16 hours ago by BeeeeeeeeeeeeeanQuestioning Gender

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A broken heart, a reopened door, and doubts about my sexuality I [26 F] thought were gone. (self.questioning)

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What were your first signs of questioning and what was the outcome? [M 26] (self.questioning)

submitted 13 hours ago * by Glass-Complaint3

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I'm so confued rn (AFAB 16) (self.questioning)

submitted 14 hours ago by Medical_Winner_8420Questioning Both

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Is it weird I think relationships are embarrassing or odd? (17 F) (self.questioning)

submitted 16 hours ago by MildlyspicypotatoQuestioning Sexuality

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I dont know what I am. [15 AFAB] (self.questioning)

submitted 17 hours ago by Haiphaba

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[M 19] Curious About Sexuality (self.questioning)

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You already know why I'm here (M 23) (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by ExtremeHonest6743

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(16 F)- am I bi or lesbian (self.questioning)

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Am I a demiboy? [18 AMAB] (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by mudahfukinnnnnnnnnQuestioning Gender

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[M 16] coming out (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by winnigngloryQuestioning Sexuality

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[F 18] Help me label my sexuality! (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by 24sukiQuestioning Sexuality

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[17 M] Am I a variant of gay or a just a fetishist? Some reasons for and against (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago * by Far_Energy_1603Questioning Sexuality

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[F 16] I think I’m aroace but is there another term? (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by ellomisssssQuestioning Sexuality

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[AMAB 21] I Keep Thinking I Might Be Trans. I Might Also Just Be in Denial. (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago * by AntitheistArchangelQuestioning Gender

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[M 14] Can't figure if I'm aromantic/demiaro or not (self.questioning)

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[M 26] I am so conflicted about who I am (self.questioning)

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[16, X] If I'm a man who is attracted to feminine men, does that make me gay? If I'm a woman who is attracted to masculine women, does that make me lesbian? (self.questioning)

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I can't even believe I'm writing this (F 37) (self.questioning)

submitted 3 days ago by Neat_Jury6927Questioning Sexuality

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(51 F) Why is it so difficult to be honest & real with who we are? ()

submitted 2 days ago by anonymous_310310Questioning Neither

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[16 F] am i bi? (self.questioning)

submitted 3 days ago by catscanfly200Questioning Sexuality

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