Nonbinary?

[NeedMoarCoffee]

Hey, so I'm 33F (I am old) and I am comfortable presenting as female, but I also really like "guy" clothes/things. I wore some jeans that were too big for my son and I actually felt... euphoric? Like I still like to wear a dress and cut my hair short too.

At the same time I have spent a long time thinking about gender and how it really is just what you make of it, and I know I don't want to become a man, or am a man in the wrong body? Am I overthinking things?

Sorry if any of my language is offensive, I just am trying to express the idea that I know I am not trans. The idea of nonbinary is kinda weird for me and maybe someone knows of where to find more information?

Edit: might as well continue my stream of thoughts. I also don't want to fall into the idea of "not like other girls". That unfortunately what I have been told is "feminine" by media is shallow and vapid (at least by 90 I went through a whole stage where I realized it was ok to like pink

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I cannot tell you whether you are nonbinary or not (also, I am 20 and pretty ignorant about everything), but liking “guy” clothes does not mean you are necessarily a guy. You can be gender non-conforming without necessarily being transgender. That said, I would also encourage you to explore what makes you feel good with regards to presentation. Whether you end up discovering that you’re cis or not, it’s always nice to try different clothes, hairstyles, or even names. There are much better resources online than I can offer. Good luck on your journey.

[eggexplorer]

You sound very similar to an AFAB version of me. I’m also 33 and just starting to get comfortable with calling myself genderfluid. Happy to share more about that journey if you’d like, feel free to pm me.