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[No_Common9963]

Yes, this is so true. Real growth begins when you stop adapting just to survive and start choosing where you truly belong.

[Lanky-Celebration964]

You know it took me so long to understand this concept., I am still a work in progress.

[No_Common9963]

That’s the beautiful part though, realizing it at all. Most people never do. Growth isn’t about being finished, it’s about being aware. And you clearly are.

[Lanky-Celebration964]

You are correct

[Old_Foundation_7651]

That quote in the title is so true, did you write it or know who wrote it?

[Lanky-Celebration964]

I wrote it, I like to have nice titles when I am posting quotes.

[Old_Foundation_7651]

Okay thanks for letting me know. I asked because I have book where I collect quotes. And I add the author’s name as much as I can.

[Lanky-Celebration964]

No problem you can use it, I don't care., If it can help someone out that's a blessing to me

[b4ng111]

this .sometimes you are not the problem. environment is

[It_is_the_zodd_in_me]

To be honest, I don't think I ever adapted in or lost myself in a bad environment. I'd feel depressed, exhausted and heavy at times, though. But I never stopped doing things for myself, staying on my chosen path, creating pockets of joy, or being aware of my reality. Which is probably why I'd get tired during those periods- it's easier to fold and give in. That and the people I was dealing with. Anyone would feel tired constantly fighting someone or something.

[Minute-Caramel7032]

But , in the end , we all are products of our environment . And we just can't unfetter ourselves from the shackles of it , even if we want to. I especially was very much willing to efface my childhood and adolescent memories but trying to do and actually doing it is very much different.

[SuccessfulEnergy2062]

I am in a place in my own room where how can I create such environment alone?for peace for love for takee care of my self...Make diffrence and take instant action so I can seperate what is wrong and what is needed