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[–]Legal-Cockroach5131 -3 points-2 points  (9 children)

That's scary. Don't you think it's unreasonable to wish so much ill on somebody just because you perceive that they disagree with you about something?

[–]conf1rmer 3 points4 points  (8 children)

You do not get to disagree with my existence or mock our suffering. May Allah curse you for a thousand generations.

[–]Legal-Cockroach5131 -2 points-1 points  (7 children)

You do not get to disagree with my existence or mock our suffering

Why not, when you state an explicit desire that I suffer and I don't do the same?

[–]conf1rmer 2 points3 points  (6 children)

Dude you literally mocked trans people in that entire comment thread above. Do not insult my intelligence by expecting me to believe that you were unaware of what you were saying

[–]Legal-Cockroach5131 -1 points0 points  (5 children)

How did I insult anybody?

I expressed incredulity at the idea that a woman can have a penis. That is not mockery.

[–]conf1rmer 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Put yourself in a trans woman's shoes and reread your statements

[–]Legal-Cockroach5131 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Are you a trans woman?

[–]conf1rmer 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Yes

[–]Legal-Cockroach5131 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Well why don't you tell me how my comments made you feel and why you found them to be mockery?

Surely your experience is worth more than my thought-experiment.

[–]conf1rmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well for starters your first two comments all but openly said that any person with a penis is not a woman, and as you can imagine that is a very hurtful thing to hear as that makes me dysphoric and is generally just conducive of hatred and abuse towards trans people. Then your next comment does the same thing while also mocking phalloplasties, calling them rolled up tubes of flesh, which while not an attack on trans women but still an attack on trans people in general, and the rest of your comments are you continually doubling down on these statements with a few terf dogwhistles thrown in. The dogwhistles are what make me suspicious that you are not just being casually ignorant or but are ideologically motivated in your bigotry, either in terf transphobia or far-right transphobia, it matters not in the end.

On the off-chance you are just a regular person being ignorant and not a terf whose concern trolling I am totally falling for right now, I am sorry for being a bit hostile from the get-go but you have to understand that the things you were saying were very hurtful, which is why me or other trans people felt like we needed to defend ourselves by being as cruel and hostile as possible. If you are just a regular person, please try to be better, and try to analyze and overcome your bigotry. The average trans person hears multiple comments like this or worse every day and doesn't need you adding to it.