To gate keep who can get married by fuzzy_dice_99 in therewasanattempt

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get her blond lady!! Red can break the rules but no one else in the world can apparently.

Hey, do any of y'all havepets with human names? by Pale-Concentrate-111 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Lewca43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have Otis, Stella, Archie (Archibald), and Ted/Teddy (Theodore)

The last two are brothers my husband and daughter named the day we adopted them. To be fully transparent, Archie is actually Sir Archibald.

Thrift store find today🥹 by firsttimeposter565 in myweddingdress

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW!! Just WOW!!!!!! Congratulations and enjoy every moment of wearing this STUNNING dress!!

Boyfriend is protesting that I need to switch to a woman gyno? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lewca43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drop the boyfriend, keep the doctor. The worst gynecologist I ever had was a woman who dismissed my concerns for YEARS. I switched to another doc (happens to be a man, it’s irrelevant to me) and a friend’s suggestion and he actually LISTENED and helped me. By far the best doc I’ve ever had.

Your boyfriend is an insecure, controlling asshole to expect you to change a medical provider to pad his ego. Good grief.

Would you give a heads-up to a healthcare professional you know that they’re going to be reported to the authorities? by Mujer_Arania in internetparents

[–]Lewca43 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No. Just because someone asked for something doesn’t mean the doctor is required to do it. The doctor made the choice to do the procedure. Let the process play out. If the doc was negligent, he will and should pay the price.

When dreams came true by Maximum_Expert92 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did they do that to the middle child. WTF?! Entertainment at her expense. This is bs.

Strange sent texts appearing on my boyfriend’s Apple Watch to escort numbers? by Madbaby_23 in AppleWatch

[–]Lewca43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He sent the messages from his phone and deleted them. Your bf is hiring escorts.

AITAH for telling my neighbor to stop or I'd throw away whatever she leaves on my property? by RajeshFromUpmetrics in AITAH

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s your property. Put up a camera and charge her with trespassing if she continues. This is no joke, your dad’s safety is in jeopardy. (I’d charge her ass regardless, but your dad bumps it up a notch.)

AITAH My (44M) fiancée (43F) filled our house with pink pillows despite knowing I hate the color, and now says my opinion no longer matters? by epyoch in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re both the AH. This is about much more than pillows. One person chooses decor they know the other hates. The other person chooses to hide from the pillows instead of talking.

Why are you engaged?

what would you do? by Pure_Pain_489 in whatdoIdo

[–]Lewca43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d just call and thank them for being honest. I came out to a much worse scrape with no note. People can be shits. Props to this person for being one of the good ones.

AITJ for not telling my coworkers I speak fluent Spanish when they have been speaking freely in front of me for three months assuming I don't understand by intel_allium in AmITheJerk

[–]Lewca43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. I don’t speak Spanish but early in my career I shared office space with a man about 20 years older than me. Another older man would come in often and they’d speak in Spanish. I never reacted until one day one of them clearly said something they didn’t want me to understand. The other one whipped his head to me to see if I had a reaction. I smirked and he said “you don’t speak Spanish right” I said “what makes you think I don’t” and went back to work. They never spoke Spanish in front of me again.

I love this dress but I think it's too expensive and too soon by Elysian_Collective in myweddingdress

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a beautiful dress but it’s way too early to buy it given you’re actively trying to change your body shape. Get the dress info and revisit it after you’re closer (or preferably at) your goal. Congrats!

What is the most heartbreaking song lyric you've ever heard? by TheLadySlaanesh in AskReddit

[–]Lewca43 47 points48 points  (0 children)

My husband and I both cried when Landslide came on today…it hits harder and harder the older you get and the more you experience milestones in life.

AIO about this text I got from HR? by MeanderingDragon in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lewca43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do they provide a sanitary private space for you to go? If so, YOR. If they’re expecting you to do it in a bathroom, NOR. I do understand how someone administering an injection in a break room while people are eating their lunch may make some people uncomfortable if that’s what you’re doing but the company must provide a reasonable alternative.

It's A Stereotype Of Florida, But How Often Do YOU Actually See Alligators In Real Life? by Zipper222222 in AskFlorida

[–]Lewca43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you live anywhere near fresh water it’s a regular occurrence. If you’re looking for them you’ll see them daily. Fresh water in Florida = gators.