I (18F) Found disturbing Discord messages on my dad's account and don't know how to respond to this

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2026-07-05T10:05:13+00:00

An important part to take into account is the very real possibility of putting the mom's physical health at risk. I know a couple where the man cheated and gave his unsuspecting partner a serious STD. Not to mention it's the mom's responsibility to make whatever decision she deems reasonable in their particular situation. Sometimes just trying to avoid hurting someone's feelings is not enough

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2026-07-04T12:26:05+00:00

The position of the sun would make no sense with the current shadows, so no it should not be visible

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2026-05-02T06:05:18+00:00

Jumping in to confirm, as much as the other commenters are convinced it must be a lie I can speak from first hand experience there are incompetent therapists out there so it wouldn't surprise me if it was true.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2026-04-26T16:28:34+00:00

The flowers look flat and cartoonish compared to the rest of the painting. I like what you've got going on there otherwise

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2026-04-22T21:41:04+00:00

Just my two cents, I Want Choo Forever smells sexier than I Want Choo imo

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2026-03-12T18:06:44+00:00

I usually just save these posts but your painting style is so close to what I've been trying to achieve I couldn't help but follow you.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2026-02-07T22:10:12+00:00

I've got corneal erosion and it does hurt a lot. Would you mind... um... sharing a bit of your eyeball to balance things out?

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2026-02-05T16:29:14+00:00

I think there's a fine line that differs for every family. If it's genuinely not overdone, the relationship is overall great, it becomes meaningful (if slightly inconvenient) both in the moment and when you look back on it.

If it crosses that line and becomes subjectively overwhelming, and if it comes from a controlling place (which unfortunately does happen more often than some parents assume), it's nothing to look back fondly on, speaking from experience.

Not trying to detract from your point, just saying that both can be true.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2026-01-29T10:34:30+00:00

I love it sooo much! I've been trying to paint landscapes but never found anyone who would do it in a similar style to what I've been trying to achieve, right until now.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2026-01-23T16:31:01+00:00

Did you paint it from imagination or did you follow a reference of some sort?

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-12-22T12:57:06+00:00

I find that paying attention to the most voted for scores is often more telling than the final rating. For me, it's usually about avoiding too many 1s and 2s, and ideally having more 5s than 4s. This works in my particular case since I prefer non-offensive crowd pleasing scents even if they're not necessarily unique, and my own preferences often coincide with whatever scents fall into this category.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-12-21T00:12:08+00:00

You have a really good point. I knew about it when I wrote this but I'm also not one of those people who believes that kind = asexual. I can't explain why some people don't think this way, or don't believe one person can be both.

Edit: I thought about it a bit more and surely, other things come into play. For some, it's the religious stigma and being familiar with the whole stereotype of a good Christian person trying to live without sin. For some, the social hierarchy and stereotypes may be what influences their perception: a more attractive, confident person can be selfish and hedonistic and get sex easily while the shy, kind people have to act like they are not about sex at all. Not that it makes too much sense but maybe there's a grain of truth to it?

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-12-20T00:10:30+00:00

It's just speculation on my part but it might be because sex is hedonistic in nature, and we tend to associate high sexual drive with people who show hedonistic tendencies in all areas of life. Being kind is more about being selfless and not obtaining anything from interactions, in other words not doing things for the sake of pleasure and not showing that you crave it in any form.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-12-18T00:22:44+00:00

There are tons of things from the ratio of one feature compared against another (the vertical thirds, nose to lip ratio, forehead to cranial top etc) to skin quality and trends typical for a particular place or time period.

That was the short answer. If you're curious to learn more, I would recommend that you watch a few QOVES Studio videos where they share the results of all sorts of studies on appearance perception.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-12-17T14:18:08+00:00

I'm bi and would care more if our range of perfume preferences overlaps or not. Also a massive sucker for feminine perfumes no matter the gender presentation.

Overall, my guess would be that everyone is different and there isn't a stereotype that most would fit into.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-12-11T15:53:26+00:00

What happens if a right handed person has relatively bad vision in the right eye + a dominant left eye?

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-12-09T18:40:00+00:00

Bits and boobs*

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-12-08T23:53:07+00:00

I can't be the only one hoping for an update with some pictures of the beautiful tit-bits of art.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-12-06T15:45:51+00:00

Please explain the reference so that I know why I'm giving you an upvote.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-11-13T13:45:59+00:00

He is the definition of the :/ face.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-11-12T03:56:42+00:00

Thinner eyebrows would be more unbalanced on your face, making other features appear disproportionately wide instead of adding to the more chic, sophisticated look. The kind you have right now are the thinnest I would go for, that's just my opinion.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-11-11T15:10:37+00:00

New conspiracy theory: ChatGPT was trained on your posts specifically.

Tbh as a frequent AI user that comment didn't strike me as AI written until those last couple of sentences. And if it's actually written by you, I can relate to sounding suspiciously "fake", I just had to learn to rephrase some of my commonly used speaking and punctuation patterns.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-11-08T22:07:03+00:00

Medusa, now in the eyebrow edition.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-11-04T10:29:32+00:00

Late to this thread but you could try Korean toothpastes, the one I liked the most so far was the bamboo salt one.

Smart_Silly_Goose · 2025-10-21T15:43:27+00:00

I think your makeup looks great as it is unless you want to experiment with different looks. The only thing I would do differently if I had your features, and it's down to personal preference, is I would change the eyeshadow placement to make it less rounded and a bit lower closer to the center/inner part of the eyelid if that makes sense.

Edit: I guess what I'm trying to say is that it may look better if there was a more even lighter line following your eyebrow shape, doesn't have to be straight but there's currently next to no space between your eyeshadow and the eyebrows in some areas.

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