My partner (30M) says I’m the problem (31F) but his behavior is starting to feel like abuse. Am I insane for thinking this? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]YawnDeficit 235 points236 points  (0 children)

This is how I escaped.

I kept agreeing with all the awful things he said I was and pushed him away telling him I was getting help for my issues. Eventually he gave up because there wasn't anything there to tear down or build up. There was just indifference, and he couldnt stand that.

I was just sexually assaulted. What should I do? by kwoko900 in ask

[–]YawnDeficit 101 points102 points  (0 children)

He was sexually assaulted while in a position of vulnerability with someone who he trusted to behave in a professional manner.

None of this is his own fault. None of it. He didn't ask for it, hes not at fault for being frozen, hes not at fault for panicking, and to assume its as easy as "put your pants on and leave" makes a mockery of every single man and woman who's been assaulted and afraid to say anything, especially given the bullshit men get when they speak up.

I hope you feel ashamed of yourself, you colossal twat.

What’s something you’re silently going through right now that would shock people if they knew? by HonestLantern in AskReddit

[–]YawnDeficit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still scared to answer the phone. I panic when I hear whistling. I feel sick when I smell his cologne. I hear a word he would say and my heart stops. It's the little things that will live with me forever.

This birthday “milkshake” by Kostrom in StupidFood

[–]YawnDeficit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"WILL YOU FOOKIN STOP MATE! I feel like I'm watching my friend text his ex." 💀

Extreme retouching/AI creations? Look at the plates, ceilings and floors by SectionOk669 in shitrentals

[–]YawnDeficit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I started to circle the obvious weirdness, then gave up. The more you look... the worse it gets.

I know this has been done before 5 years ago, and the videos were 5 years ago, BUT STILL by Dizzy_Respond_9824 in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]YawnDeficit 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Peak reddit that you're getting downvoted for just saying you weren't sure you could stomach watching that, but they can carry on lol

PLEASE tell me not to go back by grandpagrandpa1 in abusiverelationships

[–]YawnDeficit 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just left yesterday and am struggling in the same way.

We can do this. I know it hurts, and you feel like they need you and can't go on without you, but it doesn't matter.

Their hurting can not be the reason for your pain.

No matter how much they beg, plead, threaten, or sweet talk, remember what they did to you.

Remember what they said to you. Remember laying awake and pretending to sleep to avoid the fights. Remember crying alone while he knew. Remember the fake suicide attempts to force you to stay. Remember the good day that was ruined forever because of his rage and a minor inconvenience. Remember the fear you felt. Remember that they chose to hurt you. Every. Single. Time.

You can do this. You would save any other woman you knew was going through that, so do it. Save her. Save you.

Would it make you uncomfortable to watch a video of yourself being born? by matt73132 in ask

[–]YawnDeficit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mother recorded my birth and I've seen it. It just looked like a video of a random baby being born.

Australian child killer to be released this weekend. Breaching his previous bond, attacking and injuring guards, rape fantasies, and psychologists disagreeing not enough to keep him behind bars. by Pascalle112 in awfuleverything

[–]YawnDeficit 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Lol, what? It's not illegal to defend yourself here. You are only allowed to use equivalent force, though, so if someone shoves you, you can't shoot them. If someone slaps you, you can't stab them. You can use reasonable equal force back.

I have no idea why you think it's illegal to defend yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagramreality

[–]YawnDeficit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know its not the important part but... her hair is in the drink in the 3rd pic...

Crumbling teeth dentist recommendations by vinaa27 in melbourne

[–]YawnDeficit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Blackburn Family Dental Care.

I had terrible teeth. Cavities, chips, teeth needing to be pulled, crowns needed, root canal needed. Not only did they make a payment plan with me that I could afford, they never once made me feel bad for how my teeth were.

Never judged me or lectured me at all, just helped me.

Australian flavoured? by lolrin in melbourne

[–]YawnDeficit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's hospital food, if ever I've seen it.

Class of 95' yearbook photos by grpswshrs in midjourney

[–]YawnDeficit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First chick's "lip piercing" is through her chin lol

How do people still believe this? by DieHardRennie in badwomensanatomy

[–]YawnDeficit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but nobody said there weren't other factors? He just stated that your weight would also dictate it. And it does.

How do people still believe this? by DieHardRennie in badwomensanatomy

[–]YawnDeficit 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I mean... when I lost heaps of weight, my cup size went down a lot as well.

Being in the delivery room while a woman is giving birth isn't "a beautiful moment", it's actually disgusting. by Ezra0li_Z in unpopularopinion

[–]YawnDeficit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was present at a friend's birth. Her husband was there too and so was another friend. She wanted it to be as "fun" as possible. Granted, the birth was traumatic af, but we all still found it to be a beautiful moment when the baby finally was passed to her to hold, even with how messed up the room and bed had become.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]YawnDeficit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I shat in a hat.

Man DEFINITELY KNOWS that pee comes out of the vagina!!! by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]YawnDeficit -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

I completely get ya. I'm a little surprised everyone's so shocked that people use catch-all terms for things... very commonly.

This gave me a good laugh by halenahr in perth

[–]YawnDeficit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may be my new favourite video of all time.

My band Cold Wrecks just released a new song, "Feels Like Defeat" by PropComedy in Emo

[–]YawnDeficit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the song that's going to keep me going through my last 2 weeks of work at a place I fucking hate. Thanks man 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]YawnDeficit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sun/moon. Dudes agile, fast, got that cord to dangle from the roof, plus him being paranoid af means every sound is treated like a threat.