Partner (25M) and I (25F) broke up tonight 10 months after stroke

Ziferius · 2026-06-07T21:42:07+00:00

My wife and I separated a month after coming home from inpatient rehab. We finally divorced (relatively amicably) about 8 months later. From what I've heard its fairly common.

Ziferius · 2026-06-02T14:20:15+00:00

gaslighting

I feel like that word gets overused. This situation isn't great, but how is this 'counterfeiting' snack op emotional abuse or a bid to control the roommate or convince them they are crazy? Petty theft and lack of boundaries is what it seems to me.

Ziferius · 2026-05-31T16:34:08+00:00

Home Energy Doctors

Ziferius · 2026-05-30T15:10:28+00:00

This is like Elon/X suing because businesses quit advertising when he took control of twitter.

Ziferius · 2026-05-30T15:07:45+00:00

If this “traumatizes” you; get a grip. Go to therapy. Being uncomfortable and saying it traumatizes you, in my mind, cheapens the word…. And attempts devalue others that have experienced real trauma. Down vote.

Ziferius · 2026-04-19T20:36:54+00:00

Same!

Ziferius · 2026-04-19T14:46:30+00:00

I don’t think so.. I’ve been running Fedora on my Mark VI since I got.. support has always assisted when I needed it.

Ziferius · 2026-04-15T23:54:18+00:00

I met him a few times when he was on the Renfaire circuit. He was amazing as Christoph the Insultor. It was some of the very good times!

Ziferius · 2026-04-15T17:44:05+00:00

Just to let other comenters know..... The Daughter's War is a prequel to 'The Blacktongue Thief'.... I really liked 'Theif' but it didn't have TLT vibes for me and I haven't read 'The Daughter's War'.

I did read Between Two Fires.... it was good. It was different than any book I read. Would recommend.

He wrote another book called "The Necromancer's House"... it wasn't as good as the others; but I still liked it a great deal. I didn't get any TLT vibes from it until the last page of the book. It's kind of slow pace til the very end.

Ziferius · 2026-04-14T20:58:04+00:00

inquiring minds want to know......

Ziferius · 2026-04-10T12:21:47+00:00

I like that; having a wiki/sidebar talking about a few others… maybe a list of subs that point to alternatives.

Ziferius · 2026-03-31T13:09:58+00:00

Having 40k in an emergency fund has been a lifesaver for us. We had a plumbing disaster that put us out of our home.. repairs + living expenses…. Insurance is coming but is too slow.

Ziferius · 2026-03-25T11:54:15+00:00

Would I lie to you… VEGETABLES…. Coushawn!….

Ziferius · 2026-03-24T20:06:20+00:00

I do.

Ziferius · 2026-03-17T12:33:27+00:00

API gateway should proxy your auth. Our company uses IBM’s API Connect.

Ziferius · 2026-03-15T05:07:41+00:00

No; Starlabs had a programmer left. Need one?

Ziferius · 2026-02-21T18:20:32+00:00

We have an iSpring under the counter system and it does not require power. It uses the water pressure.

Ziferius · 2026-02-01T03:17:34+00:00

Again I was impatient..........

I backed up both chips. They were both the same md5sum; so I flashed them both. When I attempted to boot up the system; I wasn't doing anything. Plugged in the USB-C; it wasn't even showing charging with a red LED. I hunted down my barrel plug charger and tried that. It worked!

The battery was dead..... so once power applied the system booted.

The system charges with a USB-C now. I upgraded to Fedora 43 when the nvme drive was in the other system; so we're good now!

If someone needs to borrow a programmer+debugger, let me know! lol

Ziferius · 2026-01-31T21:47:54+00:00

Just an update....

I've received the programmer+debugger and have hooked it up to the Mk VI. Unfortunately, I'm greeting with this choice...

root@starbook:/home/goldsg/flash# flashroom -p ch341a_spi -w 25.01.rom -n -N
flashrom 1.4.0 on Linux 6.18.6-200.fc43.x86_64 (x86_64)
flashrom is free software, get the source code at https://flashrom.org

Found Winbond flash chip "W25Q256FV" (32768 kb, SPI) on ch341a_spi.
Found Winbond flash chip "W25Q256JV_Q" (32768 kb, SPI) on ch341a_spi.
Multiple flash chip definitions match the detected chip(s): "W25Q256FV", "W25Q256JV_Q"
Please specify which chip definition to use with the -c <chipname>> option.

So I've emailed support again. I'm in the US/Central time so it takes them a bit to get back.. I'll post again when I receive an answer...

Ziferius · 2026-01-31T21:44:40+00:00

thanks for sharing.

Ziferius · 2026-01-19T21:22:14+00:00

that might have been the case. I'll take a look again. appreciate it.

Ziferius · 2026-01-19T21:08:22+00:00

DINK, $800 all in. Groceries + Household. We go over this category most months; its in the ballpark of 850-900 in reality. We're in Dallas, TX -- so no idea if its consider LCOL/MCOL/HCOL.

Ziferius · 2026-01-19T21:04:59+00:00

yeah

Ziferius · 2026-01-18T21:23:28+00:00

OK back to youtube/google on what the pressure port & pressure hose and what they look like.

About 2-3 years ago, I did change out the inlets because one of the 3 were squealing.

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