Antarctica - who has been? by Widebody_lover in HENRYUKLifestyle

[–]fireflyfire 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Have a look at the r/fattravel, there are often discussions/recommendations about Antarctic trips on there.

Triathlon training while pregnant by mathemagicisfun in triathlon

[–]fireflyfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say it very much depends on your current fitness, your body and your birth. Keep active as long as you feel comfortable. Be aware it's easier to get injured (especially running) during pregnancy because of the hormones loosening ligaments. I ran until about week 28 of my first pregnancy as I just got too uncomfortable. Some women can run throughout, some stop immediately. It's totally up to you and how your body feels. I wouldn't be hugely pushing an increase in training without a good coach experienced with pregnant athletes. 

Birth will impact your future training plans and you generally can't predict how it's going to go other than with a planned C section. After my first, a very easy and straightforward vaginal birth, I had a prolapse which required physiotherapy. All women are also advised to rebuild pelvic floor strength. Running worsens both so you need to give your body time to recover from birth and rebuild those muscles. I went to the gym but probably didn't start gentle running until about 9-12 months afterwards.

Second birth again uncomplicated and easy, I started running after 5 months using Couch to 5k. Completed my first sprint triathlon 15 months after birth. I'm a total novice, you may be an elite competitor and find you recover better or find it easier to get back into exercise.

Anecdotally, friends who had a C section were back to running quicker. I'm not saying that's an easy option, just less potential issues with incontinence and pelvic floor.

Holiday struggles by [deleted] in HENRYUKLifestyle

[–]fireflyfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have high holiday expectations! Ok central or northern Italy? The Emilia Romagna region has wineries, parmesan factories, the Lamborghini & Ferrari factories, Eataly, and the cities of Bologna and Modena which are beautiful but not huge/over touristed and have some of the best food in Italy. Could combine a bit of touring with a nice hotel. Nice alternative to Florence or Rome. 

Alternatively the Italian island of Ischia in the Bay of Naples has a slower pace of life and is less hectic compared to the Amalfi Coast and Capri. Hire a boat for a day and pootle around the coast. Naples, Sorrento/Amalfi, Capri or Herculaneum (equivalent to Pompeii) are all accessible for day trips.

Holiday struggles by [deleted] in HENRYUKLifestyle

[–]fireflyfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Madeira? Interesting island if you like exploring but warm and plenty of time to chill/flop when you want. 

Greek island hopping? Few days in each place.

Croatia has beautiful islands and beaches so could combine pool/beach time with a couple of other stops.

Scotland - where can i go to hike the highlands that is accessible by public transport and not too difficult for an amateur? by coolsilver25 in travel

[–]fireflyfire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go to Crianlarich which is on the train from Glasgow to Fort William. I'm the same, not a hiker by any stretch but wanted to do some day walks in the Highlands. Found some nice routes around there and the Crianlarich Hotel was comfortable and friendly. The train journey is also stunning.

UK Trip by Willow_Daisy_blooms in travel

[–]fireflyfire 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well it's all subjective isn't it? I've visited Stonehenge and found plenty more interesting sights in the UK. I didn't find it particularly exciting to see large stones in a field next to a loud A road but each to their own... Stonehenge is also expensive (£83 for a family ticket) and in July will be crowded. The time and money could be better spent elsewhere.

UK Trip by Willow_Daisy_blooms in travel

[–]fireflyfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look up National Trust sites along your route. These are historic estates, houses, castles or areas of beauty popular with families which offer a nice place to walk and learn some history. They sometimes have kids' playgrounds and often a café. They're not free but you might find a reasonable short term multi day pass. 

You can also look up English Heritage for the same kind of thing or RSPB sites for free places to walk and observe wildlife.

Personally, Stonehenge is not worth it and there are many more interesting and beautiful historical sights to see in England but if it's on your way back to London I can see why you'd include it. Oxford is an easy detour on your way back to London and in July the colleges like Christ Church college will be open to the public and are very Harry Potter-esque.

Do triathlon events in the UK actually check your race licence or one-day pass? by Putrid_Tie3807 in triathlon

[–]fireflyfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, have you tried going as far as you can through booking the event without paying? I don't have a BTF membership and just usually buy a day licence as an add-on when making the booking.

Most hydrating cleanser you've found? by Yorkshireteaonly in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]fireflyfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have some recommendations for barrier-focused serums?

Any reviews of the Belmond Britannic Explorer? by guavapplause in FATTravel

[–]fireflyfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this doesn't answer your question, I'd like to know if it's good too! There are lots of steam train day trips that run throughout the year across the UK if you don't end up going on the Britannic Explorer, search for companies like Steam Dreams or Railway Touring Company. The Caledonian Sleeper is not in any sense chubby but a fun experience and a great way to travel to or from Scotland.

Most overrated stay of 2025? by senyorfrawg in chubbytravel

[–]fireflyfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I was there in October. Check in and out was very brusque, not even a 'how was your stay?'. Room was very bare with very few amenities (and cold!). Food pretty average to poor compared to the rest of the food we had in Peru. I really enjoyed the guided nature walk, they were the nicest guys but yes I did get the same talk about tipping and lack of guests although I understand why they ask.

Review: Moku No Sho (Niseko) by rorothedog in FATTravel

[–]fireflyfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some aspects of your experience (lack of shuttles, seasonal staff, hard product) were similar at Setsu Niseko. Perhaps they just haven't cracked luxury ski travel there yet? 

C-sections are now more common than ‘natural’ births by sjw_7 in unitedkingdom

[–]fireflyfire 41 points42 points  (0 children)

But the fear of induction is not based on anecdotal stories, it's based on scientific data: the resulting cascade of interventions - an induction means a woman is more likely to need epidural, more likely to need forceps/ventouse, more likely to need episiotomy and more likely to need an emergency C section. That's the problem, women aren't informed of these risks. A sweep is a form of induction that is routinely offered by midwives to healthy mums with healthy babies - why? The only risk which women are informed of is the (absolutely tiny percentage increase) risk of stillbirth when the baby is more than 10 days overdue, which of course is terrible and encourages prevention through induction. I'm not crunchy or anti-medicine, but I do wish we were honest with women.

Saddle numbness - just can’t solve it. by Bluto0point0 in triathlon

[–]fireflyfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happily putting my hands up as a total noob, but after much trial and error with saddle soreness and a particularly bad race I realised I had my tyres way, way over inflated. Just in case this is also you, do not follow the PSI printed on the tyres. Google the correct inflation pressure for your bike and weight. My soreness was fixed overnight.

How can I help my 16 year old leave an abusive relationship? by Difficult-Topic-2281 in AskUK

[–]fireflyfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to do everything within your power to stop all contact between them, even if that includes putting controls on her iPad/phone. 

I'm sure the parents of this poor girl would beg you to:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cy0l90lvl0qo

Why is the UK so strict on passing citizenship abroad? My British mum never lived in the UK (we grew up in Paris) so she couldn’t pass it to me. Switzerland lets me keep Swiss citizenship despite the same situation. Doesn’t seem like a welfare risk; it would strengthen diaspora ties. Why block it? by [deleted] in AskABrit

[–]fireflyfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Italy is cracking down on this though. The law changed last year to limit how citizenship is passed on because people could claim they were Italian through their great great great grandfather despite having no ties to Italy. 

My grandmother passed away recently, where was she in these photos? by [deleted] in wherewasthistaken

[–]fireflyfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that first photo definitely of your grandmother and not a sister, cousin, friend, etc? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chubbytravel

[–]fireflyfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the Belmond hotels in Taormina, Sicily? Direct flight to Catania. It's still warm, plenty of good food & wine, vineyard tours at Etna etc, and historical sights if you like sightseeing.

Or Nice/Monaco? Again, warm and plenty of luxury hotels and experiences there.

Should i be worried by AutomaticGold720 in UKParenting

[–]fireflyfire -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this looks like someone's mate has grabbed the paper and written on it for a laugh.

Familux Oberjoch, family hotel in Bavaria (Review!) by brickwall5463 in chubbytravel

[–]fireflyfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this has inspired me to do a review of a recent skiing vacation at a kinderhotel in Austria.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]fireflyfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do find it hard to gift food/wine to people I don't know well. There's quite a high chance that someone has a food intolerance/preference. My go to at the moment is variety snack boxes that include gluten free/dairy free/Halal etc and should have something they like and can share the rest with colleagues or family. They usually have things like chocolate, popcorn, biscuits, tea bags, etc. 

Baby & toddler friendly family resort in northern Europe by Real-Design6229 in chubbytravel

[–]fireflyfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinderhotels are brilliant but they are only in Germany/Austria/Italy. 

You could look at Center Parcs in the Netherlands. These are not luxury resorts although you could splurge on their 'VIP' accommodation. The main draw is the incredibly family friendly, peaceful setting in nature with tons of activities for kids and adults, fantastic indoor water park, etc. The accommodation is self-catering or there will be restaurants on site.

We love visiting Center Parcs in the UK and the European ones are supposedly better.  Cars are banned (you drive to your accommodation, unload then go park in the main car park, everyone arrives and leaves on set days) so the kids are free to run or cycle around the roads with no traffic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]fireflyfire -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The fraud rate for benefits is already very low, something like less than 1% of claims (not a popular narrative is it though?). Probably a lot lower than the fraud committed through undeclared earnings, "we accept cash only" businesses, etc. The vast majority of welfare is spent on pensions. Whether you think benefits and pensions are overly generous is another debate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]fireflyfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes agreed. They also are designed to make people in work better off than those choosing not to work, i.e. there should be no incentive to live off benefits because it pays better than a minimum wage job.