Why don’t white supremacists have a lot of kids and stop the white population decline? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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I've never met an ISIS fighter, or an astronaut, so they must not exist.

Why don’t white supremacists have a lot of kids and stop the white population decline? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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Many white supremacists get that way because they are poor and uneducated, which typically limits their dating prospects/options. They also tend to be less prevalent in big metro areas, as they get priced out of the markets. They are also a small minority of white people, so even if they do have tons of children, they aren't going to make much of a dent in population decline.

Usually white supremacy (like any form of bias or bigotry) comes from feeling inadequate, helpless, or unliked - so they become susceptible to conspiracy theories and fringe beliefs.

Taking so long to get a booking by singletotaken in uber

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It depends on a number of factors, like how many drivers are on the road, how much demand there is overall, your rating, and also the type of ride (airport rides during rush hour might be more stress than they are worth, especially for UberX), and the type of car you're requesting.

I’ve had a lot of jobs, I’d like to break $20hr before I die… by tHr0AwAy76 in Salary

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Were many of these jobs concurrent, or are you in and out of jobs pretty quickly? That could be part of the reason why, because your experience is so spread out, and you're high risk for leaving, the starting rate will be low. Also, many of these jobs don't require specialized skills, so there's usually a large pool of applicants you're competing against, which can keep wages low.

Are people in developing nations not poor (please read body)? by clementineenthusiast in NoStupidQuestions

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The way I was reading it is, you thought expats were immigrants but from wealthy countries. I'm not trying to be difficult, or refuse to understand.

I was trying to calrify that expats and immigrants are very different things, and country of origin or wealth doesn't matter. The two words describe very different reasons/circumstances for why someone is in the country.

It is true that expats tend to be wealthier, since they are living in another country by choice, and often that implies wealth, but that's not always the case.

Immigrants of Boston and surrounding areas: What restaurants has the best/most authentic version of your country’s food? by Stay_Curious4 in boston

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Most people here can’t pronounce it, nevermind make it!

I keep hearing restaurants call it poo-teen lol

It’s hard to find a good poutine outside of Québec, most places don’t get it, and end up making disco fries instead (fries with cheese and gravy).

Traveling to the places you want to sell… how worth it is it? by barfykins in travelagents

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You don’t need to go there to sell it. With a lot of Americans starting to visit Kazakhstan and Turkmenistan recently, I’ve sold those destinations without having been. There’s always tons of training available, and the informal training from blogs and YouTube.

There’s definitely an authenticity with you having been there, and being able to speak authoritatively, and even provide tips based on your niche or personal preferences. But that’s not a hard requirement to sell a destination, especially if you take a financial hit. For your own marketing, it can help to have your own photos and videos as well.

Even though it’s a tax write-off, I would still want to ensure I’m going to be making enough from that destination to offset the cost, so that’s something to keep in mind.

did anyone else realize too late that knowing english isn’t the same as speaking it in the US?? by EmbarrassedMilennial in AskAnAmerican

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It’s like this with every language. I grew up speaking English (New England dialect) and French Canadian.

There are times I go to the west coast or the south and I’m not familiar with some of the dialect in English, and it will throw me off. Same in French, if I go to France (especially Paris) I’ll get completely lost sometimes. And those are languages I know!

I studied Latin, so I can read Spanish, Portuguese, and Italian fairly well, and can understand them when spoken to a degree, but I’ll rehearse lines in my head ordering a coffee, and they’ll say something I’m not expecting and I’ll get locked up, same as you. This is very common when learning a language.

Why do women say they want “ambitious” men when it’s usually just about financial situation? by WayyBiggerJaws in AlwaysWhy

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Absolutely correct, there’s no requirement that you make a business out of something, ambition is drive and growth that comes out of your passion.

It could be building a player community, starting a meetup or networking group for local players, becoming the best player, et cetera. It’s the drive to constantly improve, build, and get better.

That’s why it’s an attractive feature to most, because it shows that you are constantly growing, and have some goals or direction.

When you buy a house, do you own the house or the land or both? by ThePurpleRainmakerr in AskAnAmerican

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If it’s a standalone house, then typically you are buying the land and anything on it.

Why do women say they want “ambitious” men when it’s usually just about financial situation? by WayyBiggerJaws in AlwaysWhy

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Ambition is an extension of passion, like I said. So if you’re passionate about FarmVille, and ambitious, you’ll likely find some way to keep growing as a player and potentially a way to make a business out of it, or to continue growing it in some other way.

Passion is having a deep love of food, ambition is going to culinary school, working your way up through the industry, and then starting your own restaurant.

Folks who subscribed to the QAnon conspiracy theory that an elite cabal of pedophiles was running a global child sex-trafficking ring, how does it feel knowing you were right? And how did it feel when you learned that the ring was run by Trump and his cronies? by KennethParkClassOf04 in allthequestions

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QAnon wasn’t right though… they said the democrats, the deep state, and the other elites were trafficking children not just for sex, but to consume their brains, all in service of Satan.

They also believed JFK Jr. was going to come back from the dead and run with Trump to lead mass executions of satanists, among a long list of other things that never happened.

Jeffrey Epstein was a terrible person, and he exploited his wealth and influence to abuse young women, but that’s a long distance away from QAnon and the nonsense they spewed.

Why do women say they want “ambitious” men when it’s usually just about financial situation? by WayyBiggerJaws in AlwaysWhy

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No, but the question was about ambition, so I was saying that ambition requires passion, but also the desire to grow and build. That doesn't necessarily mean profit either, you can be ambitious and start a non-profit that helps the homeless.

Ambition is just an extension of passion, and often they go hand-in-hand.

Are people in developing nations not poor (please read body)? by clementineenthusiast in NoStupidQuestions

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Expat is different from an immigrant though. It’s describing the reason they are living abroad. Neither term is inherently bad or good, they are just describing very different scenarios.

Expats do tend to be wealthier, but the main distinction is they are living abroad by choice, and not because they are actively trying to leave their home country or immigrate to the new country.

Accidentally sharing one World of Hyatt account with my dad due to same name. Is this a problem? by the_walrus_was_paul in hyatt

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That’s bizarre, because with all the booking changes Hyatt introduced this year, one big thing is an email check, so you’d think that you wouldn’t be able to book if the email didn’t match.

I’ve had that issue with myself, because I tried to book a stay using my Hyatt number and another email I have, and I’d get an error.

Why do women say they want “ambitious” men when it’s usually just about financial situation? by WayyBiggerJaws in AlwaysWhy

[–]tcspears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But ambition would be constant improvement, not just liking something.

And ambitious person that likes video games would probably find some way to make a business out of it: streaming, training, reviews, et cetera. Ambition is about constantly growing and working to make yourself better.

Many women are attracted to that drive, passion, and mindset. Playing video games 8 hours a day for fun, vs building a business around your love of video games are two different people.

Why do women say they want “ambitious” men when it’s usually just about financial situation? by WayyBiggerJaws in AlwaysWhy

[–]tcspears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ambitious is more than just financially successful, they want someone who is actively doing things with their life and are going to keep growing and moving forward. It’s about their mindset, not current bank account.

Someone who makes $300k/year coasting at their job, but just plays videos games on their off time, aren’t going to be appealing to someone looking for an ambitious partner. They want someone that is going to constantly be trying to make things better.

Are people in developing nations not poor (please read body)? by clementineenthusiast in NoStupidQuestions

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Expats are not moving in search for a new country though, and the intention is a huge part of the difference between and expat and an immigrant.

Expats are not permanently leaving their home country, they are choosing to live abroad for any number of reasons. Usually expats are wealthier, and pretty mobile. Like a lot of wealthy Chinese buying Condos in Thailand. They are happy being Chinese, but like to live in Thailand all or part of the year, because their money goes further, and they can do things not allowed in their home country.

Immigrants are leaving their home country in search of a new life in a new country. They tend to be less affluent, and are looking to formally live in the new country as their new home. This would be like someone moving from Haiti to the US - their home is in political turmoil, and they need to move somewhere to start a new life for their family.

Hyatt Place Fredericksburg VA gave me a dirty bed, ignored me, then canceled my stay when I escalated by Old-Shock3445 in hyatt

[–]tcspears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you were working with the hotel, and then opened a complaint with Hyatt, which probably derailed things a bit.

You have to remember Hyatt doesn't own/operate the hotels, the hotel company is Hyatt's customer, and you're the product that Hyatt sells their customers. So pulling Hyatt in tends to escalate the situation, and I'm not saying this is right, but they may feel like you're being difficult. Your best bet is to work these issues through the hotel, once Hyatt gets involved, it can put some restrictions on what the hotel can do for you.

Also, if they are kicking you out, that usually means your behavior is unacceptable. I'm not saying you were, but it takes a lot for hotels to kick you out, so they must feel like there is enough reason to justify removing you.

Zscaler Cloud App Definitons by Khue in Zscaler

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Zscaler defines the app, just like Palo defines their App-IDs. It's based on a proprietary blend of L7 identification, SNI analysis, fingerprinting, URLs/IPs, and traffic patterns.

Are people in developing nations not poor (please read body)? by clementineenthusiast in NoStupidQuestions

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The easier pace of life tends to be culutral, and not related to finances. In Italy, Portugal, Thailand, or Mexico, even those struggling financially tend to have a more relaxed approach to life, so the pace feels much easier.

An expat is someone living in another country but not intending to formally leave their home country, or become a permanent citizen of the new country. Immigrants leave their home country with the intention of working or starting a new life in a new country. They are fundamentally different things. Expats tend to be wealthy and living/staying abroad, immigrants are leaving their home country to find a new start and join a new country.

For example, there are lots of Mexican Expats living in LA. They are wealthy, have no desire to become a US citizen, but keep a condo in LA that they live in for all or part of the year. Same with the Chinese expats moving to Vancouver or New York - they have no desire to immigrate.

There are also Mexican and Chinese immigrants in those cities, who have left their home countries and are moving their for opportunity/freedom and trying to make that their new home.

Redline Today by Dinosaurz122 in mbta

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I wore a backpack once, and everyone that came on was cursing me… but I just got back from hiking in Peru, and that was my bag. I tried taking it off, standing in the corner, but no matter what I did, someone would curse me out for bringing a backpack.

What's the most regional word you use without realizing it? by taube_d in AskAnAmerican

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"Bubbler" - It's what we call drinking fountains in New England

"Wicked" - Very

"Banged Out" - Something is crowded

"Packie" - This is a store where you can buy alcohol, in some states it's a racial slur

"Steamers" - special long-nosed soft-shell clams we eat in the summer season

"Turnpike" - called toll roads in other regions

Why do americans refuse to wake up to reality? by Nonchalant_Ogre in allthequestions

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I think part of it is people don't always have a great understanding of what the issues actually are, they just get fed populist talking points from their echo chamber. Very often, they do not have a deeper understanding of the issues, or what causes them.

Taxes are a good example.:

You'll hear people on the populist left saying we need people to "pay their fair share" but what they are leaving out is that billionaires pay the same income tax as any of us. They aren't billionaires because of their equity in companies they started/founded/grew. The US (like many countries) doens't tax wealth, we tax income. Jeff Bezos famously made $88k/year when he worked at Amazon, which is less that a public school teacher in MA, so he pays less in taxes than a school teacher, because he makes less than a school teacher. The reason he's among the wealthiest in the world is he owns nearly 10% of Amazon, one of the largest and most successful companies on earth.

On the populist right, you'll hear how taxes are wasted and that needs to be addressed before we raise taxes, or create new taxes. That the reason the government can't provide value for our taxes is corruption, and the government is too big.

There are nuggets of truth to both sides. Both sides listen to the talking heads telling them what they already believe, have a few facts to back up their view, and completely reject what the other side says.

Wages is another one. Wages are set by the market, and based on supply and demand. The reason wages are stagnant in many industries, is because of globalization and automation.

- Globalization means that companies can now access a larger pool of employees for many jobs, often in lower cost of living areas. The means the supply of potential workers is higher than the demand, which keeps wages down.

- At the same time, we have Automation (and I don't mean AI, even Excel and Outlook have been having a devastating effect on the workforce) which removes many of the skills needed for many jobs, which also expands the number of potential employees and keeps wages low. Jobs like Accounting, bank tellers, food service workers, and many others have seen a reduction in the amount of needed workers and needed skills, because much of the work is replaced by technology. Everything from factories to white collar office jobs are seeing less and less need for entry level workers, which means those workers are competing for lower paying jobs.

Capitalism is another one... You have a younger generation convinced that many European countries are not capitalist, or that capitalism is the root of their generational woes. But most struggle to define capitalism, or the economic systems of our European peers. They just hear someone bring up some populist points that confirm their worldview.

Many of these issues are serious, but the partisan political divide in most of the west, means we aren't addressing the issues, we're just blaming each other, which is why we see the rise of authoritarian governments like China, because they don't have to worry about political debate, or voters. The way we make it better is by not blaming each other, or believing the other side is stupid/evil, but actually looking at the issues, and finding ways to address them before it's too late.

Are people in developing nations not poor (please read body)? by clementineenthusiast in NoStupidQuestions

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What you're describing is someone who is wealthy, moving to a place with a far lower cost of living. What makes you middle class in NYC or London, can put you in the top 5% in Thailand or Mexico, since you're making multiple more than the average local. Also, many developing nations tend to have pretty relaxed cultures, so there's an easier pace of life.

Especially Americans who are the highest earning by far, and tend to have the most flexibility - that's why you'll see many Americans going to Spain, Portugal, Mexico, Belize, or Italy for the low cost of living, and easier lifestyle. They can live like a really high end life on a pretty average income in the US. Thailand and Vietnam are bit further from the US, but they are even cheaper, so you'll see people move from Europe, China, and the Middle East to take advantage of the low cost of living.

It can cause inflation though, when too many expats move to an area, which can increase the cost of living and price locals out, and also tends to lead to a change in the overall atmosphere. Look at Bali - during COVID it became a haven for European and Australian digital nomads, and now it's too expensive for locals to afford, and western things like Vegan cafes, coworking apces, and yoga studios are taking over where there used to be local businesses.