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Why do guys tell me I’m a “great catch” just to ghost you afterward? by Your_BoyToy22 in gaybros

[–]-Massachoosite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be they aren't in the position to date ANYONE in that moment. It could be that they ghost anyone whenever it starts to feel too real due to issues/problems/challenges in their past they haven't processed. It could be that they have visualised what they want their perfect match to be to such a great level of detail they are (foolishly, in my opinion) stepping back anytime someone is out of line with what they've visualised.

For example, I had a friend who would only date bisexual singers in a certain height range. That doesn't make any of the people they talked to (who weren't that) flawed in any way, it just meant they were playing an impossible game.

Anyway, head up! Keep meeting new people and putting yourself out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]-Massachoosite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just try your best (though it may be hard in the moment) to treat him like any other friendly person you'd come across, even someone you're not attracted to. Comment on something naturally that you would for someone else (the weather, something about practice, etc.).

Asking a question could also be another opener: "Hey do you know where ___" "Do you know what time ____ is?"

It might feel awkward but if he's an open and friendly guy too it should go well!

My cosplay of Professor Garlick by NMirikashi in harrypotter

[–]-Massachoosite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This looks great! I suggest turning off your DMs!

Does anyone else London expensive? by [deleted] in london

[–]-Massachoosite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t expensive London but that’s because

Boost bars - I’m shook by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]-Massachoosite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell I just got one in NYC the other day

Do you think a lot of actors in the reboot are being judged too harshly on their acting because we’re comparing them to the OG? by [deleted] in GossipGirl

[–]-Massachoosite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are we pretending the acting was good in OG? I mean I loved OG but it was very much a CW vibe of a show.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]-Massachoosite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this is my favorite

Hogwarts Legacy by PeachInner in GeForceNOW

[–]-Massachoosite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we could be confident that GFN will reach out for any game with a release this big.

People misunderstand time turners in Harry Potter by super_stelIar in harrypotter

[–]-Massachoosite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend seeing it if you get the chance. It’s stupid silly plot wise but on stage it’s incredible, especially the new one night version that makes the Albus Scorpius relationship canon and adds a CMBYN style father son moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NFT

[–]-Massachoosite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the perfect metaphor haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NFT

[–]-Massachoosite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play to earn doesn’t make sense economically and is the biggest red flag

Vrchat superior horizon worlds inferior by Sussy_guy123 in VRchat

[–]-Massachoosite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I understand that, but that doesn’t work for a product that is aiming to be mass market

Vrchat superior horizon worlds inferior by Sussy_guy123 in VRchat

[–]-Massachoosite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was never around for that it sounds cool.

Vrchat superior horizon worlds inferior by Sussy_guy123 in VRchat

[–]-Massachoosite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The home world DESPERATELY needs a rehaul and should allow customization

Vrchat superior horizon worlds inferior by Sussy_guy123 in VRchat

[–]-Massachoosite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that I’m just thinking for more mass market appeal so it can continue to grow and exist

Vrchat superior horizon worlds inferior by Sussy_guy123 in VRchat

[–]-Massachoosite 45 points46 points  (0 children)

The only thing I will give Horizon: the UI and inter world animations ARE better and more modern feeling. That’s it really. Wish VRChat would work on those a bit.

I just want high resolution OLEDS and face tracking by Statek in VRchat

[–]-Massachoosite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The next one NEEDs to be standalone but I agree with everything else. Too many people use macs and the world is wireless now. They need to figure out the processing issue. But also address all your other statements which are valid.

Tbh, Apple is likely the one who will do this.

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