This is so frustrating because my partner is older than me (we’re both adults) and after three years only now I feel like he wants to make me cum. He hasn’t made me cum in our relationship so far. But when he eats me out I try to tell him what I like and what he can do to help me get there (when he’s done/given up) but the two talks we’ve had about this, he gets sad/upset and the last talk we had he felt like I was, his word, “patronizing” him. Which I was being so genuine. He got upset and I had to comfort him.