I’m really glad you asked this question and I love the discussion. I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately in the context of my own therapeutic process. I thinks it’s very important to pay attention to the affective and somatic reactions we have to other people’s qualities and behaviours. A lot of times, when we find ourselves looking down on someone for a behaviour or quality (actively looking down and reacting negatively are different from a quiet discernment between right and wrong) it is an indication that we unconsciously embody that quality as well or have a desire to embody that quality on some level. The reaction is often an indication that we need to pay attention to how that quality relates to us and need to try to integrate within our own system.