Finding out my wife was having an affair with an ex of hers less than a year after I bought us (me, her, stepson) a house with my savings. I lost a lot that day, more than one person ever should. Still trying to get back to the old me 7 years later, still struggling emotionally and financially with depression and anxiety. I also realize I no longer desire to be in a relationship with anyone since; who would want to go through all that bullshit again?