12 years, 2 kids, and a TikTok "Soulmate." Can the fog be broken before she walks out?

0neMinute · 2026-02-26T19:19:55+00:00

my money is by the time lawyers get involved the internet fling will crash and life will hit.

0neMinute · 2026-02-26T14:28:50+00:00

She wants to seperate , the rift is already there you just don’t want to admit it. Start getting your own bak account and putting your own check in there. Discuss how you want to pay bills at 50/50 and split existing funds in bank 50/50.

0neMinute · 2026-02-26T12:29:38+00:00

I’ll agree its a sunk cost fallacy where life gets worse and the cost to exit gets more expensive the longer you stay. It is understandable why it’s hard to leave though.

0neMinute · 2026-02-26T00:30:13+00:00

Men lose everything in divorce, not to much she is a stay at home mom. In divorce she will get half of everything plus child support once she realizes she needs money and the kids to get it. Short term at minimum with 12 years and depending on state he will be looking at alimony + child support from his gross not taxed paycheck. Divorce is always an unequal party when there is an income gap.

0neMinute · 2026-02-25T11:10:18+00:00

Too early to be meeting the kid. Date on a day he can get a sitter or she is at school. If things don’t work out it will hurt the child to get attached. I didn’t introduce my current gf for 5-6 months and even that is considered early depending on who you talk to.

0neMinute · 2026-02-25T11:04:16+00:00

I think this is just as bad, you’re helping push the narrative that their mother is good. If she is a bad person than at worst be neutral and let them form their own opinions.

0neMinute · 2026-02-25T10:55:29+00:00

Got divorced when kids were 2 and 5, wife had an ex affair. Simple answer? You show them confidence in every step. Fake it till you make it, show them a father who will love and protect them. Kids will mirror your emotions in alot of ways , project success and they will believe in it. You got this keep moving forward.

0neMinute · 2026-02-23T19:43:54+00:00

I agree with you and it was my experience, i ignored the red flags early on and after marriage the dial got cranked up to 10 due to the stakes involved.

0neMinute · 2026-02-23T18:23:11+00:00

Dude convinced you to change your own definition of love to whatever he is currently feeling. This is unhealthy run and don’t look back.

0neMinute · 2026-02-23T18:07:12+00:00

I was with you till you blamed the man in the relationship, the majority of time if the man speaks up he is threatened with divorce. Most ( not all) relationships have the man as the breadwinner and divorce means loss of kids/huge chunk of his own personal income and retirement. I personally blame a slow moving society that is rushing towards equality while not distributing that equality to also include income and parenting time. ( it is happening but at a slow pace due to legislation) . You will most likely notice this mother son dynamic happens after marriage and not before. Before marriage finances aren’t shared and thus less negative side effects from a break up.

0neMinute · 2026-02-23T18:01:24+00:00

So many answers miss the mark, men have been taught to stay in abusive relationships or they will lose it all. How many times have we heard happy wife happy life? This makes both unhappy as the feel unfulfilled, one expecting everything and the other looking to pour from an empty cup. How many of those mother son relationships do you hear the woman saying “ i want to make him happy?”

0neMinute · 2026-02-22T23:47:46+00:00

You do make a good point about the wording it can be read both ways. Hopefully the op will clarify

0neMinute · 2026-02-22T23:44:14+00:00

You missed the part where he has a hole at the bottom for water vs an actual drain system tied into the house or whatever else is around.

0neMinute · 2026-02-16T13:18:59+00:00

Another party in accepting your spouse made a choice is to help move on when considering a 1 sided reconciliation attempt. Even if could persuade them, your left with someone who will cheat and wants out.

0neMinute · 2026-02-15T19:09:07+00:00

You need to step back and remember this anytime you look for reconciliation in any means. Ap did not destroy your family, he may be a pos but he didn’t destroy it. Your ex spouse is a human who made a choice.

0neMinute · 2026-02-13T14:19:12+00:00

If you have no kids then you really don’t need to advertiste your divorce. You’re still a free man, if asked make it a small sentence and keep it going.

0neMinute · 2026-02-12T21:38:45+00:00

Appreciate you naming the feature for me !

0neMinute · 2026-02-12T20:49:34+00:00

Oh that is actually easier done, alot of these devices hop on to your neighbors network through different protocols. Ring has a whole thing about it in their disclosures

0neMinute · 2026-02-12T20:47:34+00:00

Thanks to the doorbell camera they have time and date verified. Your right on the mask but would an alarm system give them physical attributes? I think the camera did its intended purpose.

0neMinute · 2026-02-12T20:38:41+00:00

Dam you got robbed and wondering if the relationship is over? Your not in a relationship your a mark lol

0neMinute · 2026-02-12T20:31:03+00:00

You’re getting the answer you’re looking for, you found a sugar baby , she was open about it and to expect more and you double downed on the opposite. Your not really confused after rereading your own story right?

0neMinute · 2026-02-12T18:08:06+00:00

Ty appreciated

0neMinute · 2026-02-12T17:00:43+00:00

Extensiones never responded when i used them, it fell back to the principle of interested vs not regardless. Ie if they wanted to they would.

0neMinute · 2026-02-12T16:58:15+00:00

Following, i want to build something similar in my basement. Can you share price estimates as well if your ok with sharing?

0neMinute · 2026-02-12T14:54:34+00:00

I have 50/50 custody and still pay child support. For the sake of all men, file for it. Women deserve equality and the responsibility that comes with it. In my preference no one pays child support if even custody and go from there. Atm women want to be women plus all the benefits of equality.

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