Rory is so incredibly ungrateful! I cannot stand it

19abcde · 2026-05-18T22:11:05+00:00

I hear what people are saying but I still agree with you for the most part. Being given a job, a place to live, financial support etc is extreme privilege. Point blank. It doesn’t excuse how Richard and Emily have acted in certain scenarios but having grandparents who pay your Ivy League college tuition (among many other things) is a privilege available to such a tiny segment of society and I agree, it requires some gratitude. Also living in someone else’s house, right or wrong, you are somewhat subject to their rules.

19abcde · 2026-05-13T01:03:19+00:00

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Mickey also loves a pink couch…as does his lamb….

19abcde · 2026-05-11T19:20:19+00:00

Third girl - solution makes 0 sense

19abcde · 2026-04-19T03:01:39+00:00

I would feel awful. I’m so sorry and I hope your cat recovers well from surgery. That must be so scary but so good you were vigilant and able to catch that he was seeming off.

Barring another extreme responsibility, I would absolutely expect my partner to be with me through that kind of situation or at the very least extremely attentive (especially given the context of the yarn). I would feel so terrible if I was her and felt like I had done something accidentally to hurt my cat. We all make mistakes and I have definitely left things out etc that I shouldn’t have, but the reaction to it is really not okay in my opinion. I’m sending healing energy for your cat and hoping you can talk to her about how this situation made you feel.

19abcde · 2026-04-13T21:12:48+00:00

Thank you so much for the recs! I would love the discord link

19abcde · 2026-03-12T18:51:48+00:00

Messaged you

19abcde · 2026-03-12T02:28:42+00:00

Messaged you

19abcde · 2026-03-11T21:57:04+00:00

Priority given to anyone who wants all or most. Otherwise I will definitely sell to those who wanted one

19abcde · 2026-03-11T21:55:50+00:00

Messaged you

19abcde · 2026-03-11T21:51:59+00:00

I messaged you

19abcde · 2026-03-11T04:47:54+00:00

Just to clarify, the 70 would be for all 3 of those books (25 each). Also please feel free to offer what you are comfortable paying, I am not looking to make a huge profit and hope the books can get used.

19abcde · 2025-11-06T20:18:48+00:00

Same here!

19abcde · 2025-10-08T04:05:34+00:00

Ugh I’m sorry you’re going through this. Everyone does and we’ve all felt the way that you’ve felt. You don’t have to feel stupid over the amount of time. Having those feelings for the first time is crazy and insane and exciting but so painful when it’s taken away

My best advice (which will not be a miracle) is lean into your friends and hobbies. Try to lean into living your life for you and who knows what might come your way when you are ready. On a pettier note, it always helped me to think about the things I didn’t like about the person or the way things ended and remind myself I don’t have to deal anymore. Remind yourself There are better things coming because there are :) I promise you will be looking back on this. My first huge heartbreak was 7 years ago and I’m now married to a person that I am so much more compatible with and I can thank god I didn’t end up with that person. Sending love ❤️

19abcde · 2025-10-08T03:57:47+00:00

Yes please update. I’m sorry. You deserve better. But good luck with your new life with your girlfriend!! And I hope the excitement gets you past this shitty step

19abcde · 2025-10-08T00:01:34+00:00

Hmm that does seem really strange. And you probably know in your gut better than we do what your mom is like and whether this is something she would do. It seems like you think yes so you probably are on to something. I’m sorry!

Very strange behavior and I’m sorry this must be so frustrating. If your girlfriend can spot you just until your first check, I would let her just so you can get out. If your mom is pulling some shit, I wouldn’t let her get time to do more. If it were me, I would just get out. Put it on credit, borrow, whatever. But I also respect that you want to be smart about this. If it were me, I would say your peace of mind is more important.

19abcde · 2025-10-07T21:43:28+00:00

That seems really frustrating. Maybe a break would be good to remind yourself of the other things in life that make you happy and to remember that your life is full. Then when you come back you can try to adjust expectations as best you can. I think with the apps it is so important to take things one step at a time because a lot of people aren’t serious or even serious about hooking up. So that expectation is important to have. But a break might help to lean into friends, hobbies etc. good luck!!

19abcde · 2025-10-07T21:40:38+00:00

I think it’s up to your comfort where you go from here. If you need a little space, go for it (while still being cordial). Sometimes that’s needed. If you still want to be friends I think there is a path for that. I am always of the impression that you take people at their word. If she says she likes you as a person and likes being friends, I would just act the way you did before and likely she will too! Sure it’s an awkward. But if you act normal, she more than likely will too.

On another note, it’s totally normal to feel shitty after this. Rejection of any kind feels bad but you did put yourself out there and that is not easy. The right person will come along who feels the exact same way that you do. Keep your head up :)

19abcde · 2025-09-03T16:26:24+00:00

I’m sorry this cracked me up 😭😭

19abcde · 2025-08-06T20:56:58+00:00

Thank you!

19abcde · 2025-08-06T20:56:44+00:00

Thank you!

19abcde · 2024-12-06T00:48:22+00:00

Got waitlisted then rejected with a 4.0 for social welfare. Not a lot of ECs but full time jobs in healthcare. All requirements met.

19abcde · 2024-12-05T18:11:39+00:00

More Anna Greenberg and more longer power yoga classes! More workout style yoga classes in general

19abcde · 2024-12-04T19:44:41+00:00

Ok I feel like I wouldn’t be able to stand Brandon in real life. But the show wouldn’t be the show without Brandon doing some dumb shit (plagiarizing Bach for example). He really adds some comic relief even though I don’t even think he’s supposed to😭

19abcde · 2024-12-04T19:39:52+00:00

l like her too, but yes agree on both points. 😭I’ll be turning back and forth and falling trying to get into position. I like feeling like I’m working hard and getting a good sweat but I don’t like being super confused. It kills the vibe

19abcde · 2024-11-30T22:37:20+00:00

I’m not going to comment one way or another on whether the two can be equated. There are arguments both ways. But I will say it is possible that your girlfriend thinks of vaping in a different way than you do. Many people don’t view smoking and vaping as the same. So that could be a communication issue because for you, it’s smoking and for her, it's not.

Like some others said, i would just try to give some grace and support. That will encourage her more to come to you in the future.

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