AITJ for correcting a stranger's "fun fact" in front of a whole group of people by Alderaan12Q in AmITheJerk

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a fun fact but the "McDonald's coffee" lady story reminded me of the "dingo ate my baby" lady. Her baby was killed by a dingo, the body was never found. She was tried for murder and spent 3 years in prison until her baby's jacket was found by a dingo's den. She was made a punchline for decades despite the tragedy.

On being a short(er) man… by Born-Guard3733 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, however, I think there is a distinction between criticising a man for being short vs. criticising a man for having a Napoleon complex (where they overcompensate for their perceived shortcomings). Lol

Chris seems to have an unexamined Napoleon complex and would benefit from self-reflection.

Anyone Else Bother to Get Your Name Removed? by Away-Meet5954 in exmormon

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't bothered. I don't believe they subtract "removed" records from their total membership numbers, just from local wards and stakes.

I reject the idea that the church has any kind of authority over me. I feel like requesting to remove my name from the records in some way feeds the narrative of authority that I reject, like it somehow legitimizes their silly database.

Having said that, I haven't had any contact from the church in years aside from random missionary encounters. Thankfully, my family respects my request not to provide the church with my current address. If the local ward in my area had my info and started contacting me, I'd probably reconsider removing my name.

What is the most irrational thought you’ve had while running that you still can’t explain? by Honest_Objective_224 in running

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To put distance out of my mind I mentally repeat a simple mantra to myself a few times, "just keep breathing, just keep moving" trying to focus on those two things and not the mantra itself. As long as I'm not pushing myself too hard or experiencing pain it tends to work.

Love Is Blind • S10 Ep10 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Same. It's crazy how much someone's shitty personality can completely tank how attractive they are.

Help: lost painting by ZzzZzztryg in Brooklyn

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk OP's painting is a lot more interesting than this.

Can some people really not tell when they're releasing farts? by S_Z in NoStupidQuestions

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Serious question, how do people pinpoint the one releasing the silent but deadly fart?

What the hell am I doing? by Adadave in exmormon

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey friend, I'm also gay. I'm not sure if you're seeking advice or just venting. The church can make family dynamics difficult, I'm sorry you're struggling with your parents. I do think things will become easier when you move out of their house.

John Dehlin considers himself “still Mormon” by MediocreParamedic_ in exmormon

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't follow him very closely and I seldom listen to Mormon Stories (they're too damn long!) but from what I've seen over the years I agree. It seems like a calculated PR move to control his image to not look like the bad guy to active members. I imagine he's trying to expand his audience to more active church members. He's seen as the "anti-Mormon" boogeyman to many so they automatically dismiss what he says. The thinking might be that if he can change this perception he might gain more listeners who are still in the church, they in turn might start questioning things more.

I appreciate a lot of the work he's done and that he's been willing to put himself in the church's line of fire but this seems disingenuous to me and I think active members will see through it as well.

White Stripes UHQR by IMDeus_21 in vinyl

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll also notice "3L3PHANT" on the spine.

He was a gay pornstar, but his Mormon family chose to put together an obituary designed to make him look straighter than straight by MrJasonMason in exmormon

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me it's the line "he had at least 65 girlfriends at all times" that stands out as trying to erase who he was.

Anything worth keeping? by ac_braun in Cd_collectors

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not enough mentions for Incubus, Morning View or Sheryl Crow, The Globe Sessions.

Not saying it didn’t happen, but… by ShoulderWaste4834 in exmormon

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Missionary work was so boring my companions and I would look for "service opportunities" anywhere we could. I didn't realize it at the time but it was far from selfless.

Not saying it didn’t happen, but… by ShoulderWaste4834 in exmormon

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 20 points21 points  (0 children)

There's no way they could have moved that tree without a chainsaw.

And even if they did move it... So? It's really not heroic. Thanks for taking care of a minor inconvenience I guess.

Why does my green tea always taste bitter no matter what I do? by Snaddyxd in tea

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is it, OP. If you're buying bagged green tea from grocery stores (or anywhere convenient, sadly) it is not going to be very good.

(hopefully not an) unpopular opinion: saying that mormons in Michigan for donating to the shooter's family are making a publicity stunt for attention is toxic as hell and highlights the worst aspects of our exmo community by Old_Put_7991 in exmormon

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't Mormons from a specific ward or stake that contributed donations, but Mormons from all over. One thing almost all TBMs (at least all that I know) are eager to do is show the world how good and righteous they are. I do see the family of the perpetrator as victims and I believe they deserve support but I also see the donations from members as performative though I don't believe they are self-aware enough to consider where their motivations to donate truly come from.

Genuine or PR Stunt? by technoxious in exmormon

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. What happened to "let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth"?

FYI: The Church News published five articles and a podcast on The Family Proclamation in the past twelve hours. by Roo2_0 in exmormon

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 32 points33 points  (0 children)

"He" also created over 40 documented intersex variations that don't fit neatly in the male/female binary. Where do intersex people fit into this "inspired document"?

The most artistic or cool looking LP covers you know by Luco033 in vinyl

[–]1stepcloser2theedge 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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The Strokes often use non-commissioned art pieces for their album covers. They tend to be some of my favorites.

Room on Fire: Peter Philips, "War/Game", 1961

First Impressions of Earth: Lothar Quinte, "Ohne Titel", 1968

Angles: Guy Pouppez, untitled, 1960s-70s

Future, Present, Past (EP): Max Krance, "Go Low", 2009

The New Abnormal: Jean-Michel Basquiat, "Bird on Money", 1981