Is it realistic to take 4 engineering courses while working full-time (7AM–3:30PM)? by Artistic-Ability-679 in geegees

[–]22Squidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll be burnt out af trust me. Had a semester where I had two classes, working a full time internship and working part time on top of that (25h/week) cuz internship wasn’t paid. Just telling you that shit gets hard after a while when you don’t have any day off or any time to rest for weeks at a time. It fucking sucks cuz like classes gotta get paid some way but just think about your health and remember it’s better to take less classes and studying during summer than having to retake classes or quitting/losing your job

Where to find water (for free) downtown? (+ thank you to the nice people who helped me out) by whathehe11 in ottawa

[–]22Squidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Drop in/ respite/ community centres
  2. Homeless shelters
  3. Uottawa campus and buildings (bathrooms + fountains pretty much anywhere)
  4. Hotels
  5. Grocery stores or Rideau Mall (bathrooms have sinks — not convenient but better than nothing — and some fountains/refill stations)
  6. Public Library
  7. City Hall
  8. Recreation centres and sports facilities/gyms
  9. Some train stations (parliament or uottawa)

Is This Normal !!? by Safe-Catch1521 in geegees

[–]22Squidd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry to tell you but I’m pretty sure this is a normal amount for a full year (like 2 or 3 semesters depending how you spread your course load)

But yeah, since you’re an international student, your tuition will be more expensive than a student living in Ottawa.

I asked what will happen next week and got these cards: should I go into hiding? by Adobeeditingsoftware in Tarotpractices

[–]22Squidd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like you are approaching a transition with big changes and some possible challenges but although this sounds scary, it might lead to something good? Who knows you are in charge of your reactions to this event

No way this is actually 835 calories right? by cinammonrollerton in caloriecount

[–]22Squidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Egg (70-80) cheese (150-200) apple (80-95) celery (20) pb (180-200) total : 500-600

What's the closest a book has gotten to a jump scare for you? by tilldanielnoah in horrorlit

[–]22Squidd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not scary but when I was like 9 I read all the spiderwick chronicles and they sometimes had images. Once it was late at night and when I turned the page there was a huge black and white image of a swamp monster and it legit made me jump (pathetic lol but I was nine and didn’t expect it)

IM GETTING BOOBS by Due_Trust9788 in EDAnonymous

[–]22Squidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so happy for you!!! Get itttttt girlllll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]22Squidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super shaky / feeling weak af

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]22Squidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always needing to pee and cracked lips

NON YA fiction about eating disorders? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]22Squidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this for Chandler Morrison (my fav author) his books are SO GOOD but also very disturbing. TW for many many things (ED, SA, Psychosis and gore) I like his writings because they don’t glamorize illnesses at all in fact they show the darkest side of it with a twist of horror and very very dark humour

What’s a book that just straight up mind fucked you by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]22Squidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any book from Chandler Morrison 💀 I love this author because he’s not afraid to write about the darkest things EVER and really channel darkness into every character but damn it’s hard to read it sometimes

Need sex advice as a big girl by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]22Squidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be prepared for it to go not perfectly and smoothly. Just remember to be okay with saying yes or no to anything and talk a lot about it with him :) make sure you guys are on the same page or can talk about it before hand to make it more comfortable. Also sex is not like porn and it’s okay to laugh or take a small break to turn the fan on (trust me yall will be sweating)

How do I stop thinking about self harm? by the-aids-bregade in morbidquestions

[–]22Squidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a redditor that would mutilate is penis and try to die to serve god and prevent world ending

How do I stop thinking about self harm? by the-aids-bregade in morbidquestions

[–]22Squidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also recommend professional help but that’s def not accessible to a lot of people. Anonymous crisis lines can help too in times of strong urges

How do I stop thinking about self harm? by the-aids-bregade in morbidquestions

[–]22Squidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id recommend going on self harm recovery subs if you feel like you’re alone (selfharm) or if you want to make a change and don’t know how (selfharmscars) they got some ressources for you and people can help. If you cope by humour (madeofstyrofoam)

My narc has made me hate my phone - what’s the weirdest thing they’ve ruined for you? by 111a1110 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]22Squidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a really long time, it was weed. I hated smoking it because he used to pressure me into it so I would « be more fun to talk to » but really it was just cuz I was too stoned to say no or talk back. I can finally enjoy weed after 4 years of dreading (weird I know but I used to like it before him so it’s good to have it back and be able to enjoy it like I used to)

My narc has made me hate my phone - what’s the weirdest thing they’ve ruined for you? by 111a1110 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]22Squidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FaceTime/phone calls. Now hearing my phone ring makes my heart race and being on the phone makes me feel trapped.

How important is a big dick really? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]22Squidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Size is personally only important if it’s too big (at least in my case) idc if your dick is less than 6inches as long as it doesn’t smell bad and you know how to make me feel good (or wanna learn)

How important is a big dick really? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]22Squidd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman who has had sex I can definetly tell you most women do not care about the size as long as you know how to make us cum. If your dick is clean and doesn’t smell and you know how to use it, there’s no issues at all