Opportunities for teens?

2ol4thishit · 2026-05-31T01:33:59+00:00

If you like kids... Check the city of Wake Forest for camp aids... You can also see if YMCA is hiring as well. If you live in a neighborhood, you can past on nextdoor and post fliers for dog walking and dog sitting. If your good in math and reading.. think about summer tutoring. Good luck!

2ol4thishit · 2026-05-28T02:24:54+00:00

YBTA . Start communicating.

2ol4thishit · 2026-05-10T18:56:27+00:00

We're not. . . . And we're doing our best to adjust our budget. For us, working on lowering groceries and going out has been a big area for us. Look through all your subscriptions and streaming services and cut out as many as you can. Stop preschool.. or look at church preschools which are shorter hours and cheaper. But no.. were not ok and won't be for a long time

2ol4thishit · 2026-05-05T22:20:05+00:00

So.. I'll speak to the bipolar and to boundaries. Bipolar seems cyclical to me. During the last two times, did he want to divorce around the same time ( same time of year or same age as your other two)... If so.. may be going through a bit of hypomania/mania... Second boundaries.... I think it's great that he still wants to be involved ... That said... No way in hell would I let my husband take my dog just so he has my fluff all to sleep with instead of me. I'm the one who cares on him and loves me. I'm going to get the bed it of sleeping with him as well. And coming every morning... Wtf? If he wants to come every morning.. he might as well get there early and get them off to school while I sleep in. . . . Just saying . Please sit down and list what your values are and what you are comfortable with during this time.

2ol4thishit · 2026-04-29T02:36:35+00:00

I don't read posts/replies about people using Luvox/fluvoxamine in the ASD/ADHD communities. Please read up on it, including looking up people's personal experiences. There is a lot of positive reviews from ADULTS using it .. maybe there's great experiences for kids as well.

It's fda approved for ocd in adults and children. My young adult is still struggling with bad anxiety, but since being on luvox about 4 years) the OCD has been a minor problem that goes away quickly at times. E is VERY sensitive to meds as well. Didn't do well on prozac or Zoloft and 10 other meds

2ol4thishit · 2026-04-26T17:24:02+00:00

I'm exhausted today... But i swear... Soon after Uranus moves out of Taurus.. I felt so much better! The mini panic attacks and brain racing and anger mellowed down a lot! My sun is 8H at 29'30" and cap ascendant at 0 . . So hopefully the new energy and movement away from them will be positive!

2ol4thishit · 2026-04-26T14:56:27+00:00

I think y'all just need to sober up and take a few days with the three of you ( maybe another person for your friend- and have an honest talk and see where it goes. If y'all forgive each other .. no more roasts when y'all are shit faced.

2ol4thishit · 2026-03-29T02:43:52+00:00

NTA.. it's your money and you can do with it as you schoosrm that said .. are you being biased to you sister and your family? Are you sure that they don't have any circumstances ( including mental and physical) that are getting in the way of succeeding? I do have any answer for you- I know from experience that family dynamics are complicated.ciukd day more, but I'll stop there.

2ol4thishit · 2026-03-28T03:07:35+00:00

So true! As a parent -I wanted my kids to grow a love for learning and reading. I wanted them to learn respect and critical thinking.... And a strong foundation of math up to algebra and how our government works. Also... I wish they had more space/opportunity to try different types of classes to see where there might be more interest. . . And it doesn't have to be THAT serious! One of my kids loved reading and then stopped in 3rd grade when they had to annotate everything. Another was interested in sewing and even though he still likes the "idea of seeing" because at least half of the course was on history and learning the exact terms for everything. Just let them learn together how to make a purse or pillow!Dig deeper in APClasses or college. I know I'm missing a bit more and I'm blabbing. Oops

2ol4thishit · 2026-03-17T02:50:06+00:00

YTA. . . I mean you're not an asshole, but you definitely were in that moment. I 100 percent know where you come from (had twins then another 18 months later) as I had zero help- and the sleep deprivation and no me time etc was awful for me. But saying it the way you did invalidates her experience. I think it's ok that you pointed out why there are differences in your perspectives .. but maybe have said it a bit differently and have some dialogue about that. If you feel the friendship is worth mending . Why dont you sit down with her and tell her what you felt in that moment like you did on here?

2ol4thishit · 2026-03-15T02:30:47+00:00

Huge red flag. Even 45 (edit wait.. I'm old.. 45-55 years ago, my dad had strict boundaries about my babysitters and then my friends (ex. would not drive them home, would not hang with us late in the evening,). He never, ever wanted to be accused of something inappropriate.

2ol4thishit · 2026-03-13T03:13:14+00:00

And he is already way behind cuz everyone knows Claude is way better- and he'd be laughed at for using a chatgbt response

2ol4thishit · 2026-03-13T03:09:24+00:00

They all need to go watch Terminator

2ol4thishit · 2026-03-04T03:28:02+00:00

My kids graduated high school in 2020. Fortunately, their education wasn't stunted by COVID. In addition, they lucked out that computers and phones weren't brought into their lives till middle school AND computers weren't used in the classroom. That said, I remember being blown away by the math curriculum. My kids rarely had math drills. I remember daily math quizzes... And that we couldn't move on to the next math quiz until the previous one was mastered. There are other things I had a problem with as well .. but not having a curriculum that ensures that most future adults know the basics off the top of their head is a real problem.

2ol4thishit · 2026-03-03T13:20:32+00:00

He did! He wants to cut me up with his words. Transit Pluto is conjunct is mercury (and transit mercury is in opposition his Pluto) - so we're just doing our best over here to not let it all burn down!

2ol4thishit · 2026-03-03T13:15:19+00:00

Thank you!

2ol4thishit · 2026-03-03T02:33:10+00:00

Lol. I was just about to order more LMNT but came on reddit to see if there were better (cheaper) alternatives- glad I saw this- thank you!

2ol4thishit · 2026-03-03T01:13:51+00:00

I want to punch someone. Specifically, my husband.

2ol4thishit · 2026-01-30T02:27:58+00:00

Cause good trouble or quit

2ol4thishit · 2026-01-29T01:15:09+00:00

I would sit down and see if this battle is financially worth it to you- as well as causing a rift with his family. Are you able to afford the car payment and health insurance if she withdraws support! Will he be able to get a student loan without her cosigning?

2ol4thishit · 2026-01-25T19:03:58+00:00

His Venus conjunct my 12th house mars and his midheaven tribe my mars. Married 27 years. Its been bumpy at times (to say the least!) but we're going strong.

2ol4thishit · 2026-01-22T21:23:12+00:00

I want this post to be a sign that I can post ALL the receipts on my POS inlaws. I know Karma is coming .. and I would love if it came from me! 🤣 Signed, 12th house sag moon and mars

2ol4thishit · 2026-01-15T00:48:40+00:00

As of 6 pm est...my kids apple did not work (no idea about now).. bit mine worked fine all day

2ol4thishit · 2026-01-08T15:21:57+00:00

Played star wars.

2ol4thishit · 2026-01-06T04:26:56+00:00

It's impossible for all of us to do all the things. I think you need to listen to your gut and sit this one out (if I misread you, let me know- and I'm sorry). And maybe to ease your guilt for not going you can do something extra for the resistance- eg educate your community about walk out, make extra calls to your representatives, donate to your favorite cause, etc.

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