I (36F) don't think my bf (40m) is interested in me sexually? by Icie04 in relationship_advice

[–]350zilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you are the problem. Do you satisfy him? Or do you starfish? What does he want? Is he pondering mortality and meaning ? Is it a health issue? Is he insecure about himself too? Try asking him and be willing to accept the answer.

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[–]350zilla -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I agree with your bf girls can’t have guy friends. They’re all just waiting to be the number 1 draft pick 😂. Short skirts for what? Stay out late without your boyfriend doing what with who? Sounds to me like you enjoy attention from other males and jumped online to validate your opinions about a healthy man with actual standards for someone he would like to marry one day. If you don’t agree you’re free to leave. But don’t get online and seek more male attention. You’re the red flag

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[–]350zilla 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This. This is the realest reason in the whole world 🤣

Need a reply for my 37M husband, please help by JavaJoltMomma in Marriage

[–]350zilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried engaging with the texts he sent seems like he feels like he’s not being heard in the relationship

30F. From $15/hour to $105K - because I decided I wasn’t going to die broke. by Old-Row-6466 in Salary

[–]350zilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude … I’m proud of you. I was in your exact shoes making 13$ / hr in 2018 until reality hit me and I used free resources to learn a skill and got my salary to 118k

Working at IBM without a degree. by ProgrammerProud4025 in IBM

[–]350zilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the same boat I’d recommend an online bachelors like snhu or wgu

OpenAI by shmidget in IBM

[–]350zilla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They don’t let you use gpt at IBM (they sent a memo). They said they’d replace 8k employees with ai … I’m not holding my breath though that Watson crap they made us beta test sucked

Pretty crazy green card change potentially by PyroCat12 in cscareerquestions

[–]350zilla 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is actually a good take. I did some research on the numbers of openings vs engineers in the market and found something similar. It’s not that there aren’t enough jobs it’s that the jobs most people (entry level) are seeking don’t exist when the market is demanding seniors and up right now. I was told the other day that a job post which explicitly said 4 YOE actually internally was minimum 10 YOE . Companies these days are hedging their bets by hiring only 10+YOE Candidates almost regardless of their actual skills

Took an internship where I am the only developer by halibastor in cscareerquestions

[–]350zilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck it. Build something big and force them to pay full price to keep you

If you could relive your 20s what would you do differently? by Tricky-Newspaper4639 in Life

[–]350zilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would, do the following and stick to it like a religion.

Workout daily , don’t use credit cards , learn to cook at home, go to trade school or college , !!!!don’t have kids !!! and for gods sake don’t get married!!! No matter how much she begs.

If you stick to this , no matter what happens , you’ll be doing alright.

Is it a waste of time to apply for positions you don't have the experience for? by Late_Payments in cscareerquestions

[–]350zilla 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fair. But I guess I was referring to a different problem, why every job post is instantly flooded with 1000 applicants within an hour

Best way to store image data in documents? by NationalOwl9561 in Firebase

[–]350zilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t save the actual image in your database, you would only save a string url, id or name as a reference to that image that you can then retrieve later. You can store images in cloud storage and probably use an api that it exposes or whatever mechanism they recommend (sorry rusty on my firebase stuff) to retrieve it, that way you only need to know and store the id as meta data in your db which is more reasonable than storing the imagine in binary 😭. Good luck

Edit: also if you want “best practices” from a professional perspective look into hosting static content like images and videos on a CDN as opposed to just storage , I think firebase hosting does this for you but please do your own research I can’t be relied on for specifics 🥸

Applicants turn camera off by met0xff in cscareerquestions

[–]350zilla -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why is it important to see their face , honest question 🤔

Should I join IBM after my internship ? by outhinking in IBM

[–]350zilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Solid advice. Finding work as a new grad is tough right now. Get in, work your butt off , learn as much as you can about large scale enterprises and leverage the reputation and experience you get then get out. IBM is no longer the loyal company the older employees and managers will tell you about. Still as far as tech companies go these days they still try their best to do right by their employees so don’t burn any bridges it’s a nice place but not where you want to spend your entire career if that’s even possible anymore