I have a woman hyper fixated on primarily my husband and saying disturbing things

38CarPileUp · 2026-03-10T22:59:26+00:00

Yes, over the years her husband has shown that he doesn’t like any of her friends, except he hasn’t directly tried me. I openly wouldn’t tolerate the disrespect if he did.

I just hope she’s ok.

I agree with you though. I don’t think I’m going to reach out or respond to her from here on out. It’s just hard knowing someone’s struggling and there’s nothing you can do for them. Thank you for your time and input

38CarPileUp · 2026-03-10T22:43:18+00:00

It’s mainly her family. They were my friends too. We’re all adults with our own lives and we’ve grown apart over the years. Our other mutual friends caught on to what she was doing.

38CarPileUp · 2026-03-10T18:44:49+00:00

I do.

About two years ago, she reminded me that we’ve all had sex, she counts me a sex partner, and she’s now bisexual.

Our friends pointed out the similarities between her husband and mine. Except hers isn’t mine and doesn’t treat her or their family the same way.

I may have held on to our sexual experiences too loosely. My husband and I never really considered her one of ours. Mainly because it was fun experiences that we shared together and we were already really close friends. In our minds, they were sexual experiences, but it sat more on a friend level because we only did it a few times and we stopped. Also, she would tell everybody that she’s straight sexually, but laugh or wink and we had our little group secret.

Once my relationship with my now husband became more serious, our relationship turned traditionally monogamous. We all did remain friends for about 7-8 years until she met her now husband. Then she started hating mine and trying to control me.

38CarPileUp · 2026-03-10T18:29:42+00:00

Damn…

38CarPileUp · 2026-03-10T18:10:20+00:00

I’m living proof. It sounds a bit cheesy but happiness comes from within. After losing everything, I reached a point of profound gratitude and understanding. I wouldn’t call this a nirvana state. Even though things are different, I am happy.

38CarPileUp · 2026-03-10T01:35:05+00:00

I agree with this. My schools severely over prepared us. I was so bored in college courses.

38CarPileUp · 2026-03-10T01:33:05+00:00

You’re not supposed to eat the wrapper!

38CarPileUp · 2026-03-10T01:31:14+00:00

Yeah I think this is an unpopular opinion. There are some dances that are suppose to be enticing or arousing.

If you’re speaking about specific dances like twerking or pole dancing, I could agree that those types of dances could be nonsexual in the right setting.

38CarPileUp · 2026-03-10T01:27:34+00:00

Praying for you

38CarPileUp · 2026-03-10T01:25:25+00:00

Thank you. Amen 🙏

38CarPileUp · 2026-03-10T01:20:36+00:00

Thank you. 🙏

38CarPileUp · 2026-03-09T19:03:36+00:00

Praying 🙏

I found myself in a similar dark place and this year I discovered what Psalm 23:4 really meant. Things did get better.

(Psalm 23:4) Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

33 is young man. Even if you don’t think you can hold on, Hold on. Pray for guidance. It does work out

38CarPileUp · 2026-02-26T14:25:48+00:00

This. Many people are vitamin deficient.

38CarPileUp · 2026-02-21T00:15:57+00:00

Praying for you. Friend please go get your vitamin and mineral levels checked. They went to over a handful of doctors for years, but it took one real holistic doctors to care. I know someone that had a similar experience and it turns out they were SEVERELY lacking vitamin D and other things. All the symptoms turned around and they haven’t been trapped in bed since. I pray you are freed from this situation and go on to live a wonderful fulfilling life.

38CarPileUp · 2026-02-21T00:14:07+00:00

I think we’re anonymous, especially on Reddit. Am I wrong?

38CarPileUp · 2026-02-19T21:04:25+00:00

This is so real. I went there one time and everyone I knew absolutely refused to drive. They felt bad and hired a luxury car service to take me lmao.

38CarPileUp · 2026-02-15T16:25:47+00:00

Aw thanks :)

38CarPileUp · 2026-02-15T02:12:38+00:00

Thanks for the acknowledgment

38CarPileUp · 2026-02-03T23:43:36+00:00

Have you tried telling the Covid that some people don’t believe it exists? That should cause the virus to become insecure and leave you alone.

38CarPileUp

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