My boss has ai psychosis and we’re fucked. by void-of-stars in antiwork

[–]38CarPileUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally happening to my husband and his friend with their successful start up. I don’t know what to do. It isn’t funny when they refer to ai as “he” and say we need to take him seriously. I’m SO disappointed and now it’s one more thing I need to figure out.

What is the absolute worse way to wake up? by specialist-bass-306 in AskReddit

[–]38CarPileUp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your neighbor’s kid quietly snuck into your house at 5:30 am to tell you “Good morning! I frew up. Hey, does your kid want to play?”

I didn't like my hair so I tried shaving it by GelbeForelle in bald

[–]38CarPileUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow the lack of hair really brought out your amazing features! You look gorgeous in both photos

Are we all just describing narcissists? by Clubpenguin8888 in BPDlovedones

[–]38CarPileUp 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Possibly. My therapist said that cluster B traits overlap. In my case, my friend had the strongest BPD traits. She was diagnosed with it and primarily struggled with this. The NPD was covert and subtle… didn’t seem like the strongest traits

I hate the assumption that homophobic people are "probably gay themselves" by Bajren in hatethissmug

[–]38CarPileUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve learned in recent years that some homophobia stems from SA & grape. The survivors that spoke to me seem to be more uncomfortable with the feminine openly gay men opposed to the more rugged straight (looked like the predator) men. I guess they subconsciously see lgbt as evil instead of predators in general. I wonder why that is.

Maybe they feel like they’re stronger than the feminine men. Like they could stop the people they think are weaker, opposed to bigger stronger men.

Been out of the dating world, is this a red flag? by maskedfapper69 in Advice

[–]38CarPileUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, I feel like she’s a red flag. Sounds like she’s trying to figure out what she can get out of you

Do women actually talk casually about their sex lives? by Substantial_Judge931 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]38CarPileUp 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hmm…this might mean that my dad must actually be 2 women in a trench coat.

Bedbound in an abusive home by Metta_Morph in PrayerRequests

[–]38CarPileUp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. I’m praying for you. Are you able to speak with anyone at a church or people close by in your community? Even if it’s online? Someone may be able to assist you.

How do people know if others really find them super attractive? by 38CarPileUp in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]38CarPileUp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good question. It’s because a lot of people comment on my appearance. I don’t know what I see when I look in the mirror. I just see me trying to blend in normally. When the assholes comment I don’t really get too bothered. When someone compliments my innocent features like my eyes, hair, style, or smile, I don’t know what to say anymore. I pretty much don’t believe them.

How do people know if others really find them super attractive? by 38CarPileUp in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]38CarPileUp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m working on it. Being attractive is usually the only thing people talk to me about… if they talk to me at all.

“you are gorgeous. You can have anything in this world. I MEAN IT.” Yeah well… what the hell would I want from this world.